Talk less when you see people and interfere less when you are in trouble.

Girls talk more and more recently. When I was almost three years old, I would always say something unexpected. In my life, I realize more and more that it takes two or three years to learn to speak, but it takes a long time to learn to shut up. I am always used to expressing, but I seldom settle down to listen. But what about life? It is the most basic practice to have a ruler in your heart and speak moderately. Pay attention to your words and deeds, not just one sentence. Talking too much is the starting point of trouble, and making too much trouble is the root of disaster.

Recently, I have been a volunteer for a long time because of repeated epidemics. Coupled with closed-loop management, the opportunities for contact with people have gradually changed. The older I get, the more I understand. The more I interfere in other people's affairs, the more I make mistakes. As Shi Tiesheng said, some things in the world, mostly out of worry, have evolved from worry to chaos. Sometimes from different angles, we always think that what we do is good for others, and your honey is arsenic. What you think is good, maybe others don't need it.

Ran Gaoming said in "Seven Pa Shuo": "If you ask where the canal is so clear, take care of yourself first." Although it is a joke, it is also realistic.

Mind your own rudder and don't mind other people's oars. It is better to talk quietly and gain a pure land than to talk more.