People in this world can't be smooth sailing, or encounter difficulties, setbacks, changes, or people and things that are not satisfactory. These are normal phenomena in the progress of life. However, some people are upset, miserable, depressed, pessimistic and disappointed when they encounter these phenomena, and even lose the courage to face life.
it is undeniable that when these phenomena appear, it will affect people's thinking and judgment, affect people's words and deeds, and discourage people from facing life. For example, when you are criticized by your boss at work, you will feel depressed; When you meet others who misunderstand you in life, you will feel angry and wronged; When you lose your relatives and friends, you will be extremely sad; When you encounter difficulties in your career, you will complain and work negatively.
When encountering these phenomena, people's behaviors are normal. Because people are high-level emotional animals who can think, this is also the fundamental difference from all low-level animals. But these performances should not be overdone, otherwise you will live very tired, unhappy and unhappy.
In life, people should learn to face life with a positive attitude. The so-called positive attitude is a tolerant and cheerful healthy mental state. Because, it will make you happy, it will push you forward, it will make you forget fatigue and worry.
When you encounter difficulties, being positive will give you the courage to overcome them, make you believe that "there are always more ways than difficulties" and let you test the truth that "nothing is difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb". When things go wrong with you, being positive will make your mind more rational. When things go wrong with you, you should not be pessimistic and disappointed, but reflect on your own way of doing things and principles, so that you can change what you have and encourage what you have not, by going up one flight of stairs. When you are wronged, it will give you comfort and tolerance. It will make your heart as wide as the sea and your ambition as high as the sky. When you encounter misfortune, it will turn your grief into strength and make you feel that the laws of nature are inviolable, and letting nature take its course is the true meaning of happiness. It will make your eyes more profound, your ability to see the society more acute, your attitude towards life more natural, and you will be more confident in facing the road of life.
It's hard to learn to be positive and positive. It requires you to enrich your life experience, acquire more knowledge and have a more positive attitude towards life. It requires you to irrigate with cultivation water, support with diligence and care with tolerance. 2. Writing on the topic of practicing calligraphy
Encouraging autobiography
Encouragement is the pulp of breaking waves in the sea of learning; Encouragement is a crutch that depends on each other in life; Always give you infinite strength in the rough waves, and always enhance your confidence in the trough!
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Hello, everyone. My name is "Encourage" and I am an old friend of everyone. We have a long history, from the Xia Dynasty to the 21st century. Which successful person doesn't shine with my brilliance? What, "Lao Wang sells melons and boasts"? I'm not talking nonsense. The inscription above is the best summary for me. "There's nothing to say!" Ok, then I'll find some witnesses.
Look, the general in armor: phoenix eye, lying silkworm eyebrow, face as heavy as jujube, if his lips are coated with fat, it's Guan Yu with a dragon crescent moon blade in his hand! "Brother Guan", bowing, "I am encouraging. Do you think my role is great?" "Big, very big. Back in those days, I was just a nobody before I fought in the south and the north. I was worried all day and my ambition was hard to pay. Thanks to the encouragement of my brothers, I was determined and eventually became famous all over the world. I want to thank you very much! " "You're welcome, goodbye!" What's up? I'm not boasting! "One leaf is blind, and it is partial." Ok, we'll find it again.
Look, that old man with only one sock and messy hair is blowing soap. He is Newton. Let's ask him. "Master Niu, my name is Encouragement. Do you think I have an influence on you?" "Yes, I often failed the exam in primary school, but my parents always encouraged me and made me confident. Finally, I worked out the three laws of mechanics. Now, I am studying optics. Many people think I am stupid like this. If it weren't for the encouragement of relatives and friends, how could I persist until now? " "Don't bother, goodbye." How's it going? Are you convinced?
My role is great. I will help you up when you fall. When you are discouraged, light the fire of hope; When you are confused, I will clear the fog for you. What, am I too far away from you? Why, I am always around you: a glance, a word, a applause, a cheer ... Feel me with your heart, and I will bring you endless power.
Students, before the entrance examination of yet we called and urged a thousand times before she started toward us, I tried my best to serve you. "Don't panic, you will succeed in one room!" "I believe you ..." Isn't this warm and pertinent remark the embodiment of our friendship?
Praise: ignite the fire of others' hope and rebuild others' confidence. Students, believe in yourself, you are the best!
never say anything
everything comes to him who waits. I finally showed my grace in the calligraphy competition and won the long-awaited prize ...
Everything seems so beautiful after winning the prize, including the praise of teachers, the envy of classmates, the comfort of parents, the warm sunshine, fresh air, budding flowers, green grass, birds in the sky ...
I can't help shouting, "If you know me, it will be fine!" My mood seems to be driven by all these beautiful things, like the sweetness of eating honey and the heat of burning a fire ...
Turn on the TV, share all this with my bosom friend * * * on the screen, and talk about the difficulties of practicing calligraphy and the sweetness after winning the prize ... I'm enjoying myself, and the phone rings, so I pick up the phone-
"Hello! Who are you looking for? "
"Congratulations on winning the prize! But you must remember that there is still a long way to go to pursue the highest realm of calligraphy. Work hard! "
"hello, who are you? Who are you ... "
Who said that" good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles "?It is" good things spread thousands of miles, bad things don't go out "! However, this person is really strange. How did she know that I won the prize, and why did she persuade me to continue my efforts? Alas, I've had enough of the taste of "frowning at the pen tip and bowing my head to look down at the pen tip". Now that my goal has been achieved, what else needs to be done? After that, not only did I not insist on practicing calligraphy every day, but I also managed to do my homework.
one day, the teacher talked to me and gave me a good scolding. It turned out that the feeling of loss was so bad ...
I turned on the TV again, and I wanted to pour out my pain to it. The phone rang again-
"Hello, who are you looking for?"
"Hello, have you been scolded by the teacher? Please remember: perseverance is the true meaning leading to the highest realm of calligraphy. Believe it, success belongs to you! " I hung up after I finished the phone.
oh, I remember. isn't this her? it's her. it must be her-inexplicable. A little girl who is several years younger than me and has won the championship for five years in a row. At this moment, my heart is sweet, so I took out my diary and wrote down her words. 3. Write no less than 8 words on the topic of practicing calligraphy. < P > Practice calligraphy < P > As the saying goes, words are like people. The process of writing is to learn to be a man. In the process of cultivating learning attitude and habits, emotions will also be edified. After studying in Xiangnong School this semester, I have a new understanding of practicing calligraphy, that is, practicing calligraphy is to temper a person's character and practice a way of doing things. I sum up my experience in practicing calligraphy as follows:
First, I need to stick to my calligraphy. A good copybook is equivalent to a calligraphy teacher. We can always learn from it how to stroke a pen and how to master it one by one. For example, the word "disk" should be written in the shape of "and" to be smart and avoid being bloated; Pay attention to the middle line in the words with upper, middle and lower structures; Words with semi-package structure should be written in a symmetrical way and not biased. Most of these can be found in copybooks, but if we just practice calligraphy according to our own ideas, it is easy to waste time and go into the misunderstanding of practicing calligraphy.
second, make a little progress every day. It is by no means a simple matter to practice calligraphy well. The most important thing is that it cannot be achieved overnight. Maybe you keep practicing every day, but you don't make much progress, which makes many people discouraged and stops practicing, so you give up halfway and finally it is difficult to achieve anything. Therefore, in every practice every day, give yourself a little request, so that you can reach a level where you can make progress more or less and give yourself the motivation to continue, so that you can practice more and more vigorously and have more motivation. This also made me understand that people must make progress if they want to make progress. People can't just stop at the previous stage, and the new stage should have higher pursuit. In addition, in the process of practice, we should have a persistent attitude. Practicing calligraphy is a process of slowly grinding our temper. While dealing with other things, we should also have a spirit of not being afraid of trouble and suffering. At the same time, we also know that it is not easy to form a good writing habit, and the formation of habit is a process of continuous accumulation and spiral rise. Therefore, good writing habits can't rely on several writing classes. We should establish the concept of "writing is practicing calligraphy", and writing extends from class to life. 4. Write a composition on the topic of learning calligraphy
There are arts everywhere in life: playing the piano, calligraphy, sketching ... I also like one of them: calligraphy.
Because learning calligraphy can write well, it can also exercise your patience and make your temperament elegant. I remember when I was a child, my handwriting was always crooked, and the teachers in kindergarten couldn't understand my handwriting.
I remember once, I happened to see the idiom "get to the point". What I'm talking about is how the great calligrapher Wang Xizhi practiced calligraphy hard.
I was inspired and made up my mind to learn calligraphy well. In the future, I will write flowers like Wang Xizhi.
at first, I practiced writing my own name. But no matter how hard I try, the word will always fall down unconsciously, as if it doesn't work.
So, I took out a ruler to write. No matter what strokes are straight, I won't "hunch over" again. I am very happy. But the mother on the side said and laughed: "This is not a word!" I complained in my heart: "You are obviously picking bones in an egg, and you are still making fun of such a straight word!" So, my mother took out a copybook and compared it with my handwriting.
my god! It's a world of difference! My mother gently said to me, "Words can't be written with a ruler, and every stroke should be written in place." Pay special attention to the font structure, the big is big, the small is small, and the end can also be treated as a back front to enhance the momentum.
Of course, the most important thing is learning attitude, being serious and being patient. " After that, my mother taught me to write hand in hand.
after several months of hard work, my handwriting has made great progress. Words change from crooked to straight and generous, from weak to strong and powerful.
has been appreciated by teachers and classmates. In the fifth grade, my calligraphy works were also recommended by the teacher to participate in the school calligraphy competition.
I love calligraphy. I am growing up in the art of calligraphy. Calligraphy is like a melting pot, which has tempered my patience and perseverance. I didn't write the above, but I chose from other websites. If the landlord is not satisfied, there is nothing I can do. 5. Writing about the feeling and process of practicing Chinese characters
One day, after reading my composition book, my grandmother said to my mother, "Look at the word children, it's time to practice Chinese characters." My mother nodded in agreement. This matter was quickly settled. After careful selection by my grandmother, my mother strictly checked and my grandfather kept on inspecting and practicing. The teacher practicing calligraphy is a 73-year-old grandfather. Although he is so old, he is energetic, kind and humorous, which makes people like him from the heart as soon as they see him. There are two kinds of calligraphy: pen and brush. Brush is more difficult, so copy is used. Pens are relatively simple, and they are copied. Grandpa told us that when practicing calligraphy, we should sit up straight, keep our eyes on the book, hold the pen firmly, hold it tightly, hold it high and hold it upright. When writing brush, we should pause when turning the corner, write vertically, write obliquely, and write vertically. I wrote it according to Grandpa's instruction. Hey, I wrote it. It seems that I suddenly have a backbone. If I keep practicing like this, I won't be a calligrapher! On this day, the sun was fierce. I took the ice cream to the street for a few seconds, and it turned into gas. It also made my heart restless. I really wanted to finish practicing my words quickly, go home and play air conditioning and watch TV, so when I practiced pen writing, my eyes didn't look at the words on my notebook. I was looking away, and I was thinking about eating delicious ice cream! With a pen in his hand, he wrote quickly. Grandpa saw it, came over and kindly said to me, "Yangyang, you can't just do things with speed, but also with quality!" Only in this way can we do a good job. None of us can do things carelessly, but we must be careful. "This sentence made me suddenly wake up:" Yes, we must be serious in everything. If we are not serious, can we succeed? " Another time, I didn't practice calligraphy because my classmates came. When I practiced calligraphy the next day, my grandfather said to me, "It's a child's nature to be playful, but you shouldn't miss practicing calligraphy by being playful!" After listening to grandpa's words, I thought it over and over again, and finally understood a truth: "You should persevere in your study, and you can't fish for three days and dry the net for two days. 6. what's the name of the composition with practicing calligraphy as the topic?
since I studied, my handwriting is not very good.
Just in the winter vacation, the teacher assigned homework to practice calligraphy. I am determined to use the winter vacation time to practice calligraphy well. At first, I insisted on writing 2 pages every day, and I was very serious every time.
I didn't wander off. I copied it one by one according to the word. After a few days of persistence, I got impatient and threw my pen away. I thought, Forget it. I can't write well after practicing again. It's better to play for a while. There's still a long time. It's not too late to practice tomorrow.
Time flies. Am I such a quitter? No, I must stick to it. I picked up a pen, calmed down and began to practice seriously.
In this process, I finally realized the fun of practicing calligraphy. One word at a time is becoming more and more beautiful in my pen.
Now practicing calligraphy has become a habit in my life. If I don't practice for a day, I feel as if I have done one less thing. Whenever I get upset, I will pick up a pen and paper and practice writing quietly.
slowly, all the worries disappeared. After some hard work, my handwriting has improved.
I learned from it that perseverance will lead to victory. 7. practicing three-step composition
I'm not bragging. My teachers, classmates and friends all praise my good handwriting. Do you know how I write well? This is a bit embarrassing to say.
.. humph! "Xiaoxin, Xiaoxin" The teacher criticized me earnestly again. "Words are like people's coats, and people should be clothes.