Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory. How to get rid of it? Yan Shu, a wise man in the Northern Song Dynasty, wrote a very rare book, which is based on "Sheikh" and pays attention to its roots. It can be said that this is a China version of The Weakness of Human Nature. His viewpoint of "controlling emotions first, then controlling life" still has its incisive practical significance.
Cang feng Juan yi
People are the foundation of others. Walking in the forefront is also a fierce soldier. If you want to reduce it, it won't be obvious. You can easily finish the work if you seek talents in the world. Seek glory and get what you want. I don't know what to do, and it's hard to get me up and down. Benevolent people don't follow their names, and benevolence is expensive. A wise man does not love his position and abandons what he knows. A brave man does not fight for his own front, he is brave. Life is only hard, what is enough?
Dilemma is an inherent phenomenon in life. Exposing one's edge is the reason for the aggravation of suffering. If you want to reduce your difficulties, don't show off easily when you study. Those in power recruit wise men, and once they succeed, they will change their mentality. People with low status pursue wealth and are easy to be proud after achieving their goals. If you don't know how to avoid and be alert, your boss and subordinates will be embarrassed. Benevolence is the most precious thing. Wise people don't crave power. True wisdom is to know how to give up. Brave people don't try to be brave and don't work hard. True courage is to know how to be restrained. People's lives are full of hardships. What's there to boast about?
Typical case: Fan Li successfully took his beautiful family, and Tao Zhu lived in seclusion!
Hidden Wisdom Volume 2
Use smart people to benefit and cheat smart people. Invincible in dark battles, showing no success. If you don't do it for yourself, the wisdom of a gentleman is also. Don't let yourself suffer, the villain is also a traitor. Don't complain about lack of wisdom, loyalty and loyalty. Loyalty is the best, but energy is the second. The bottom is the truth, followed by surgery. If you don't know your heart, it's hard to stop. A fool who speaks wisdom is actually a fool. It is also a disaster for a wise man to speak wisdom.
Flexible use of wisdom is beneficial, but playing with wisdom is harmful. It is effective to use wisdom in the dark, but it is useless to show it off in public. It is the wisdom of a gentleman not to think for himself. It is cunning of a villain not to let himself suffer immediate losses. Don't complain about the lack of wisdom, but worry about the loss of loyalty The boss wants his subordinates to be loyal, and ability and talent are secondary. Being a subordinate should pay attention to sincerity, followed by politics. It's hard to stop without understanding their psychology. Stupid people show off their wisdom, which is an ignorant behavior. A clever man who tells a conspiracy can only bring trouble to himself.
Typical case: Yongzheng investigated and dealt with Nian Gengyao, which can eliminate the temporary merits and demerits.
Abstinence Volume III
Desire is big without roots, and heart is wide without hatred. The best is the worst and the strongest is the culprit. A gentleman cultivates himself and avoids disaster. The villain is unscrupulous and beheaded. Losing an idea can make the difference between life and death. Be strict with greed and don't be lenient with others. Punish evil and promote good, not hide it. Get rid of evil and be merciful. The desire for control is based on morality and aims at discipline. Enlightened people are enlightened, and fans are trapped.
People with strong desires can't take root, and people with broad hearts won't resent it. Don't overdo what you like, but stick to what you want. A gentleman's cultivation is to avoid disaster. Little people are reckless and ask for more happiness. A mistake in an idea may make the difference between life and death. The control of greed should be strict, not tolerant and indulgent. Punish lust, humiliate it, don't hide it. To get rid of evil desires, we should cut the grass and get rid of the roots, not be merciful. If you want to suppress your desire, you must turn to Xiude, so you must remember it. Enlightened people are successful, while confused people are in trouble.
Typical case: Even if the country is in my hands, I can't escape Hailing, a dissolute monarch.
Save the body of the fourth volume
A bosom friend is embarrassed, but a man who knows the world wants nothing. People are different, so is life. Things are transformed, and sorrow is greater than heart death. Treat yourself like a person. Wisdom is inferior to things, but it is not in the right place. How easy it is to remember, not how difficult it is to remember. Vulgar, not obscene People who worry about their health are innocent, upright and long-lasting. A worried person has no guilt; he is better than others.
People who know themselves will not be in a dilemma, and people who see through the world will not expect anything. People have different fates Things are different, and the modality is similar. Treat yourself like others, and you won't make mistakes. Wisdom often can't keep up with things, and it can't be grasped correctly without in-depth observation. People's minds are changeable, so it's hard to guess without deep thinking. Don't be too close to laity, it will be difficult to get along without strict etiquette. People who always make progress have no evil thoughts, take the right path and live in peace for a long time. People who are worried about losing their conscience will never feel guilty, feel at ease and be lucky.
Typical case: Zheng Wen was able to assess the situation and quickly retreat, and once became a country and a vassal.
The fifth volume of Qiushi
Those who are far-reaching are real, and those who are close to benefits are virtual. Those who follow the crowd enter cautiously, and those who are proud enter. If you don't stick to books, you won't lose them. If you don't seek perfection, you won't lose reality. No one is cheap, but he gave up on himself. Great wisdom is not deceitful, but also suitable for heaven. Xiao Zhi has no virtue, and his back is full of affection. Don't worry about knowing, worry about learning. It is not a real mistake to work hard and get less. Leisure and more is the real purpose.
Those who have a long-term vision are pragmatic, while those who seek near profits are vain. Be cautious about what others pursue, but be bold about what you like. If you don't stick to book knowledge, you won't deviate from the reality of things. If you don't pursue perfection, you won't be blinded by facts. People are not meant to be mean unless they give up on themselves. Great originality is not a lie, because it conforms to law and justice. Xiao Zhi doesn't talk about benevolence and righteousness, because it goes against things and human feelings. Don't worry about lack of knowledge and insight. When you worry, you don't study hard and make progress. It is not the fault of seeking truth from facts to work hard but get little. It is the original intention of seeking truth from facts to feel at ease but get more.
Typical case: talent is the only place to use, and Cao Cao is in power in troubled times.
Pay attention to volume 6
The curse of words, regardless of advantages and disadvantages. The disadvantages of language are people's choice. A gentleman doesn't talk empty words, but it's ugly. The villain is not sincere, and the fake is blind. See what you say and see what you want, and the line is broken. You should be modest, not proud. Humble people should be respectful and should not be released. If people don't believe it, don't listen. I don't know the machine, I'm safe. If you don't avoid your relatives, it will be a great disaster.
Words can cause trouble, and good words and bad words can lead to bad results. Speech can bring harm to people, all in people's choice. A gentleman doesn't talk nonsense, but telling the truth makes people uncomfortable. Villains are not sincere, and often disguise themselves, so that people can't see their true colors clearly. By listening to his words, we can know his thoughts and judge his behavior. The rich should be modest, not arrogant. Modest people should be modest, not arrogant. If a person loses trust, then others will not listen to what he says. If you don't know the secret, you won't reveal it. This is a very safe thing. If you don't avoid talking to your relatives and let the secret out, it will be a catastrophe.
A typical case: The troubled times of the Three Kingdoms began with smoke, and they all failed to get the opportunity because of their hard work.
Festival Volume VII
Know the book and then forget it, restrain sexual desire and then be upright. Personal relationships with relatives are not allowed. It is unwise for a friend to see his own shortcomings. Poor and naive, not thick. Anger from heaven is a disaster, and anger from people is a disaster. Gentleman abstains from worries, while villain abstains from worries. Don't give up, too. Fortunately, I don't rely on color, I am proud of my product. Justice does not depend on flattery, but on faith, which determines its harmony.
After knowing the truth, you will not be influenced by emotions. Only by restraining your own nature can you stand upright. Protecting the family will expose selfishness and bring intolerance. Indulging in friendship will show stupidity and ignorance. Excessive sympathy will appear childish and disloyal. God's anger is a disaster, and people's anger is a disaster. A gentleman is jealous of sorrow, but a villain is jealous. The emotion of refusing to give up binds people's body and mind. You can't be favored by appearance, but you can see your character by bearing honor. Love cannot rely on flattery, but loyalty can maintain harmony.
Typical case: It is important to know that Qilu is sitting next to him, so that relatives can avoid him.
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The edge wood seeks fish, and the edge wood seeks fish. God bless those kind people, whose thoughts are open-minded. Good words are not necessarily good, but what you do is also good. Saying evil is not necessarily evil, but judging its heart. Don't believe your name, but don't be lazy. It is not too much for a gentleman to complain. Little people are friends. They never stop fighting. Profit can be sought, and the road can be kept. Evil confuses fools, but not wisdom. Good is expensive, honesty is not expensive, and law is also.
Lucky for a reason, happiness is active. God bless those who are loyal and kind, because they know how to do good. A person who speaks well is not necessarily perfect. Observe his behavior. People who talk rudely are not necessarily fierce, but they should look at their hearts. Don't take a false name easily, be pragmatic. Gentlemen will complain, but they will not delay business. Little people will have friends, but they will not stop fighting. Benefits can be obtained and morality must be adhered to. Evil thoughts can confuse fools, but not wise men. Kindness focuses on sincerity, regardless of methods.
Typical case: There was once a strange man named Feng Dao, who lived in four dynasties and ten kings.