Calligraphy or painting is more difficult to learn.
No, everyone has different talents. I am a man, too. I like painting, but I don't like calligraphy. There are also boys who draw pictures. It's not difficult to draw. Don't give up so soon. I used to draw badly, but now I draw much better through my continuous efforts. First, try to copy other people's paintings. As long as you are interested, you can practice calligraphy without thinking. I hope my answer is helpful to you. Please adopt it. If you want to draw, come on. Over time!