2. When you hear the malicious slander of others, there is no need to entangle, just turn your head and put it down. If you keep thinking about it, it's as stupid as picking up what others spit out and eating it yourself.
3. Some things are destined to miss you, and persistence will eventually leave you; Some people can only be passers-by in your life If you linger on, all your expectations will eventually come to nothing. If it doesn't belong to you, then give it up. The world is vast and gloomy. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original happiness and happiness. If you want to catch anything, you can only catch nothing in the end.
4. There is no hurdle in life. You can't sit next to an obstacle and wait for it to disappear. You can only try to get over it and give up appropriately. This is an elegant turning point in life.
5. Time is changing and people are changing. So he who sees through the impermanence of the world, be the best of himself, and don't envy the happiness of others. Maybe that's not for you.
6. When you are in a bad mood, always ask yourself, what do you think? What don't you like? If you feel unhappy, just look out the window, where there are infinite scenery, look at the vast sky, and learn that the sky is not closed. There is no despair in life, only think impassability, life has no end, only can't see through. Why do new ideas care about old dreams? They will come back to life one day. Looking back is hope, and looking back is the afterlife.
7. People who come cherish it and those who go let it go. Life is a journey, and we can't take it together. It will exist forever. Meeting on the road is always beautiful, and the post station of breaking up is always bleak. No matter happy or sad, what should be gone is gone, and what should come will come eventually. The journey of life is mostly lonely. Know how to cherish, everything comes from beauty; Willing to let go, walking is not a burden. Let go of the past; Cherish the present; Believe in the future.
8. Letting go of yourself is also a kind of release. It is inevitable that you will encounter pain and trouble in life, but you don't have to torture yourself for it. If you keep staring at a few ink spots on the white wall, darkness will occupy your field of vision; If you always cling to certain fragments of your life, you will lose your whole life. Putting yourself down and not torturing yourself is also a kind of release.
9. Desire is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold on, the more you lose. Learn to let go and give up, and you can really get it. Gains and losses, but relatively speaking, when you think you have it, you may be losing it; When you feel lost, you may get it. The so-called willingness to give up is to give up the mystery and realize, to give up the small and get the big, to give up the fake and keep the true, and to give up the virtual and get the real. Look down on everything. Look on the bright side. Everything is fate. Whatever you want. If you don't want it, you don't have to lose it.
10. Hold on to an idea and you will be trapped in an idea; Once you put it down, it's in your heart.
1 1. In fact, nothing can't be let go. As time goes by, when you look back on the past, you will find that what you thought you couldn't let go was just a springboard in your life, allowing you to grow.
12. Many things in life are hard to find, and those that are deliberately forced cannot be obtained, and those that are not available often come unexpectedly. Therefore, we should have a carefree heart, and let everything go with the flow, without resentment, impatience, excessiveness, compulsion, pessimism, rigidity, confusion, ecstasy, joy in things and sorrow for ourselves.
13. There are no scars that will not fade and no wounds that will not heal; There is no despair that will not stop. Some things make us unforgettable; Some people are hard for us to let go. Along the way, we bid farewell to a past and walked into the next scenery. The road is extending, the scenery is changing, and life is not eternal. Looking back after going far, many things have been blurred and many people have forgotten.
14. Don't force shoes that don't fit, but grind your own feet; If the caller doesn't answer, don't redial again and again, cherish your call as soon as possible; Don't go all the way to the restaurant where you moved. You can't always spend time on the road. All people and things, just have a clear conscience. Don't force it if it's not yours. In fact, what is left is the scenery, and what is left is the life.
15. How far a person can go depends not on his body, but on his faith. In life, there is only a past that can't be returned, and there is no present that can't be passed.
16. In life, there is as much pain as there is concern; There is as much joy as there is tolerance. Pain and happiness are both reflections of the soul, just as what is in the mirror depends on what is in front of you. If you can't let it go, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens you have, the less happy your life will be. A caring heart is like a pocket, and a tolerant heart is like a funnel. Complex love care, simple heart is easy to be happy.
17. If we don't cling to happiness, happiness will come naturally; If we don't escape from the pain, the pain will naturally stay away; If you don't indulge in desire, the pressure will naturally be less. Peace of mind, everything will be calm; Put your mind right and everything will be smooth sailing; Let go of your heart, and eternal happiness will follow.
18. There will always be a lot of helplessness in life. When we are powerless to change, we choose to accept or let go. No one can predict tomorrow, but we can grasp today.
19. Life is neither long nor short. No matter what stage you are in your life, you should be less persistent and learn to let yourself go from time to time. In fact, many things you don't understand will become less important over time, so it doesn't matter. Give yourself a chance to breathe, let your heart really rest, learn to empty your wisdom step by step, and let life smile and say, "It's good to relax!" " "
20. Once you put it down, you will feel comfortable and clear. There is only one punch in the heart, don't think too much. If you are wrong, you will not be able to suppress business. Many people are busy every day and accomplish nothing, but pay too much attention to trivial details. Rice can be eaten and sand can build a house, but the two are mixed together and have no value. To be pure, you can be happy.
2 1. Don't be fastidious about everything, just come when you should; Don't care about anything, just pass it; Don't frown when you are in trouble, smile when you should; Don't force the result, just do it; Life is simple. When you are calm, you will be calm. Don't refuse to be busy, because it is a kind of enrichment; Don't complain about setbacks, because it is a kind of strength; Don't choose silence, because this is your greatest charm!
22. When you no longer need to prove yourself through the approval of others, you are really strong. Please remember to keep your heart calm and peaceful, so that you can enjoy the beautiful scenery in the endless journey of life.
23. Some unpleasant things happened to us, such as suddenly getting sick and the plane being late. These seemingly accidental things actually have inevitably complicated causes behind them. Knowing this, no matter what adversity you encounter, you don't have to complain too much.
24. It doesn't matter who hurt you in life, what matters is whether you can resolve your anger as soon as possible. Forgive, forget, or remain silent. The heart is calm, why do you need outside help? Practice in the heart, not greedy or angry.
25. Follow the fate, and it will be smooth. When you want nothing, you will have everything.
26. No one can bear it for you, and no one can take away your strength. The biggest sorrow in life is not that you can't get it or lose it, but that you don't know what you want at all.
27. Don't argue with others easily. When someone argues with us, let him win, because we have nothing to lose. What can he win by winning? What did you get? The so-called loss, what did you lose? Lose what? Fighting will only hurt each other's harmony and increase unnecessary trouble. Cautious silence is shrewd avoidance, dealing with impermanent life with a normal heart.
28. People are happy when they are simple, but they are aging when they are sophisticated. Keep a young heart, be a simple person and enjoy the sunshine and warmth. Keep a cheerful heart and be an optimistic person, even if it is cloudy, it will be sunny! That's how life should be.
29. People suffer because they pursue too much. Knowing that some ideals will never be realized, some questions will never be answered, some stories will never have an ending, and some people will always be familiar strangers, but they are still struggling to pursue, wait and fantasize.
30. Even if life is not what you want, learn to face it calmly. Even if the world is indifferent to you, you should repay it with warmth, because only when your heart is clear can you have a firm pace and distance.
3 1. Calm down and be simple. Don't indulge in fantasy, don't be at a loss about the future, take the road today and enjoy the scenery around you; Don't envy prosperity, don't pursue fame and fortune, be present and cherish the people around you. Don't be too stingy, don't be too persistent, and know how to choose.
32. Look at life calmly and be yourself quietly. Life is full of variables, and determination directly affects the direction of life. The so-called concentration is centering. When you are calm, life will naturally be stable, and life will naturally be stable. On the other hand, if you can't keep your inner peace, you will be controlled by your emotions. If you don't pay attention, you may go astray and delay your life. Therefore, instead of complaining about fate, it is better to sit still and raise your heart.
33. Even if life has a thousand reasons to make you cry, you should find a reason to make yourself laugh, because this is life. What we can do is to make ourselves stronger and better.