Send love, stop the ceremony. It means that it happens because of reasons and ends because of moral etiquette. Affection means that people's emotions are generated between men and women. Stop at the ceremony, that is to say, this feeling is bound by etiquette. "Stop" here does not mean to stop feelings, but to stop within the scope permitted by etiquette.
Send love, stop the ceremony from the book of songs. Poetry originates from emotion, but the expression of emotion should not be too much, but should be restrained by courtesy. Its purpose is to achieve the effect of euphemism and irony. From the initial criticism of The Book of Songs, the theory of "expressing ambition with propriety and righteousness as the end" has developed into a universal principle of literary creation, which not only recognizes people's instinctive desire and the need to express and describe instinctive desire, but also emphasizes that it should be restrained and guided by Confucian moral norms, which cannot be purely natural catharsis and cannot surpass social, political and ethical norms.