When the ship rises in Yun Fan, it is inevitable that there will be storms when sailing across the sea; When young trees thrive, they will inevitably suffer from rain, snow, wind and frost; The stream runs forward, and there are not only springs, but also rapids and eddies along the way. ?
The same is true of the growth of teenagers.
The process of growing up is like climbing a mountain. It is inevitable to fall, be scratched by thorns, and be beaten and honed again and again. These are normal phenomena, so families, schools and society don't have to pay too much attention to them, just look at them with a normal heart. ?
Just like a boat sailing, it will become strong in the tempering of wind and rain. Too much care and protection will add unnecessary load to its narrow cabin and become a pressure and obstacle to progress. The days of seeking refuge under the wings of parents are long gone. We are eager to open our chest, embrace the thunderstorm and enjoy the natural sunshine. When children begin to take their own steps on the road of life, families should give them understanding and support. Please remove the shackles of your eyes and let the children fight the wind and waves in their own boat of life! At present, when children are frustrated, our family should keep a normal heart, don't rush to do it for them, don't care too much, and don't make a mountain out of a molehill. Just smile and watch the children get up, and Ye will naturally sail forward with trusting eyes. ?
I hope that the perfect school for children will not be too demanding. "People are not sages, to err is human?" Small mistakes are inevitable, in fact, it has set up a golden bridge to maturity. Don't focus on the child's small mistakes, and don't cast an accusing eye when the child wrestles. Treat children's small mistakes with trust and tolerance, let them become helmsmen with mature smiles, and bring back satisfactory answers from the other side of victory. ?
Finally, our society should also re-examine its attitude towards teenagers. From the early opposition to doting to the promotion of frustration education, the overall educational concept of society has undergone gratifying changes. Society should not pay too much attention to children's occasional falls, let alone hype. The maiden voyage ship, still trembling slightly, is a little afraid of knowing little about this society. Too many spotlights suddenly focus together, which will only make the ship in chaos and panic. If Yun Fan leans in the voyage, society can smile and put down too many worries, and a self-reliant generation will rise. ?
Jackie Chan's child, Fang Zuming, once wrote a song called "Please Let Me Fall", which expressed the distress of thousands of children in Qian Qian. It is inevitable to fall down on the road of life. What is terrible is that the eyes of family, school and society immediately flock to weave an airtight net, making children struggle in confusion and unable to stand up by themselves, so they have to become prisoners of their eyes in helplessness. ?
But look, the boat bound by eyes is desperately trying to attract Yun Fan in the distance. Please let your family relax the eyes of excessive care, please let the school put down the eyes of excessive accusation, please let the society shift the eyes of excessive care to understanding and tolerance, and let that Yun Fan help the sea! ?