Professor Li Meijin, a famous parenting expert, once said: There are many kinds of interest classes for children now, but not many are really beneficial to children. In fact, there are three kinds of interest classes that parents pay "IQ tax", which is a waste of money and thankless!
The first type: a child prodigy class with false propaganda.
That is, to cultivate "genius" and "prodigy" is like a "crash course for genius", exaggerating the role of interest classes and making false propaganda.
If you have time to give your child this kind of interest class, it is better to go to kindergarten in a down-to-earth manner!
The second type: large classes under the guidance of famous teachers.
Some interest classes recruit students under the banner of famous teachers or celebrities, which sounds attractive, but in fact, these famous teachers are not resident, but only come to class occasionally, or are instructed by large classes. Because there are too many people in class, children tend to be distracted and inattentive, and they can learn very little.
Besides, a teacher giving lectures to a bunch of students is more like attending a class than attending a class. No matter how talented a teacher is, it is impossible to take care of every child, and the effect of class is naturally greatly reduced.
The third type: interest classes with unknown qualifications.
With the popularity of training institutions, many people want a piece of it, so there are various interest classes in the market.
Therefore, before giving children an interest class, the business qualifications of the organization, the qualifications and abilities of teachers must be clearly understood and must meet the requirements of the industry.
So as a parent, how do you choose an interest class for your child?
0 1 should conform to the development law of children.
Many interest classes have age restrictions, taking into account children's acceptance and physiological development factors. Parents should not ignore these soft conditions for the first competition.
For example, it is best to learn calligraphy from the age of 5-6. At this time, the child's wrist strength can withstand daily practice and have a certain understanding of the text, so that it will not feel pain and will not cause too much damage to the arm.
02 should conform to the child's personality characteristics.
Different interests require learners to have different characteristics. For example, sports such as dancing or ball games require children to be lively and active, like to jump and jump, and full of energy. Painting and sculpture are more suitable for children who are quiet and can sit still. Their attention is relatively easy to concentrate and they are good at finding fun from static things.
Only by choosing an interest class that conforms to the child's personality characteristics can the child be better integrated, so as not to suppress his nature and erase his brilliance.
According to children's interests and talents.
Giving children interest classes once became the obsession of parents, but for children, the more interest classes, the better. Since it is an interest class, we should focus on children's interests. Instead of simply comparing with other children, I am afraid that children are not versatile enough, forcing children to learn a lot, causing their psychological burden and rebellious psychology.
Parents can help their children choose something to try according to their characteristics, help them find their own interests, and then continue to learn, turn their interests into an instinct, so as to win at the starting line.
In short, parents should choose interest classes for their children, think from the children's point of view and respect their opinions!
Dear mom and dad, how much did you spend on the interest class for your children? How many interest classes did the child sign up for? Come and share your experience!