"I don't argue with anyone and I don't care who fights with me. A simple life and a noble soul are the highest realm of life. "
A person's best upbringing is: simple life, peace of mind, consistent words and deeds.
Only by knowing how to hide others can we gain something.
The material is extremely simple and full of energy.
As the saying goes:
"Only frugal people prosper, but diligent people advance; At the beginning of extravagance, it is getting dangerous. "
People can live frugally, but they must be full of energy.
Living in a humble room is blessed.
Educator Zhang Boling said:
"People can be unlucky, but not bad."
The more unlucky you are, the more you need a clean haircut. Bad luck will soon get better.
Zuo was a famous minister in the late Qing Dynasty, but his family was poor since childhood, and his father taught him to be frugal.
When Zuo was governor of Shaanxi but Gansu, his salary was already high, but he was still frugal.
Because I often write and change documents at my desk, my sleeves are worn out, and I haven't changed my clothes. I just added a layer of "sleeves" to continue to wear.
His son wanted to spend money to transform his hometown, but Zuo strongly opposed it and gave him a good lesson.
In letters to children, he often suggests:
"If children want to be adults, they must always start from difficulties and hardships, brew more generations, and delay more generations."
Therefore, Zuo's descendants are prosperous, with dozens of experts and scholars.
The material is extremely simple, and you can cultivate your self.
Only when the spirit is full can the world understand.
As the saying goes:
"The water flows forever, and there is no worry about disasters."
The best state of life is material thrift, but spiritual enrichment.
Words and deeds are consistent, and emotions precipitate.
The motto of "housekeeper" reads:
"If you talk too much, you will lose."
People who talk sweet words are often not smart.
Judge a person's character not by what he says, but by what he does.
Chen Guo, a teacher at Fudan University, said:
"Communication between people, language is the lowest. When you can only communicate by talking, you two are far apart. When the relationship is close, you know me. A look and a handshake are enough. "
People over 50 can see through without saying anything, knowing whether to ask or not.
A lot of things, you don't have to ask after knowing.
If you have to win or lose, you will hurt yourself in the end.
In life, there are three "don't say":
Don't say if you are angry;
Show off, don't say it;
Don't say right or wrong;
This mountain-like thing wrote in "A cup of tea dirt":
"In this world, everyone snows, and everyone has their own obscurity and lightness."
Sweep the snow in front of your own house, and don't worry about the frost on other people's tiles.
Don't judge others' right and wrong before you have experienced their pain.
In the second half of life, restrain words and deeds and precipitate emotions.
Peace of mind, not afraid of obstacles.
I like this sentence very much:
"The height is not enough, and all I see are problems. The pattern is too small and tangled. "
When you have experienced ups and downs, you are no longer afraid of small things.
When you practice a suit of armor, you will be at ease.
Writer Bi Shumin said:
"You can't ask for an ocean without storms. Not the sea, but the mire. "
The best diamonds must be cut.
You can't succeed if you don't learn.
Real mature people, the pattern is opened, the mentality is more peaceful, and they are not afraid of the unknown ahead.
Huai Su, a calligrapher in the Tang Dynasty, was known as the "sage of grass" in history.
Because his family was poor and had no money to buy paper, he practiced calligraphy on the walls, clothes, utensils and banana leaves of the temple.
Later, he found a wooden plate and a wooden board, painted them in color, and used them as inkstones and writing boards.
Grinding ink every day and writing every day; Wipe it after writing, and wipe it before writing. Day after day, year after year, the boards are worn out and worn through.
When others were obsessed with fame and fortune and took part in the imperial examinations, Huai Su went all out to practice calligraphy.
Later, Huai Su's calligraphy was superb, and Li Bai praised him as "cursive chinese odyssey".
There is a saying that:
"Don't panic, live in the present, the road is still long; Don't be disappointed, the world is worth it and the future can be expected. "
Life is not a fairy tale, you have to rely on yourself.
Do a good job in the present, and future achievements will naturally follow.
"The road is long and Xiu Yuan is awkward, and it will be dead."
Be a man with a big picture, don't dwell on trifles, and move towards further goals.
Li Xianyong, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, said:
"There are many good things to grind, and teenagers are eager to learn."
When people are in the trough, don't be afraid of obstacles, practice quietly and carry lanterns.
The material is extremely simple and full of energy;
Convergence of words and deeds, precipitation of emotions;
Peace of mind, not afraid of obstacles.
Accept the impermanence and loneliness of the world, and we will eventually become what live high wants.