Grandparents are two in one, and their contact and closeness with the babies are also different. Grandpa is mostly involved in external affairs, and he doesn't seem to fulfill his 1% obligation to take care of the babies. Where's grandma? But it is the hardest and most considerate one, and it is also the person who has the closest relationship with the babies.
My two babies are very close to grandma. Although my grandfather has done a lot, it is extremely hard, but it is far behind.
At present, because of the epidemic, all kinds of training and entertainment institutions in society are in a dormant state, and children's summer vacation life has become boring.
two babies, the only choice is to hang out with grandparents. Big baby is in the second grade of primary school, and the school doesn't assign any homework, but mom and dad won't completely let go. Big baby has to write two pages and do several math problems in "extracurricular exercises" every day. It seems that only in this way can he step on the starting line forever.
Grandma is a calligraphy lover, and she should practice her hand when she has leisure. At 9 o'clock every morning, I sat at the dining table and started my "homework" for the day. This time point is also the best "stepping" moment for Big Baby.
a table, one old and one young, one left and one right, cultivates different "lands" together. The difference is that grandma's work is voluntary, thinking of ways to squeeze time and watching the gap. Where's big baby? I don't really want to do it. It's my mother's mandate that I have to finish it.
Therefore, when grandma is ready, she will shout, "Baby, let's get to work!" " Big baby just put down his toys, or turned off the TV and sat down on one side of the table.
Grandma said, "I'll write a piece of paper. How much do you make?"
"what do you say? Grandma! " The big baby replied, as if it were a targeted protest, or a feeling of resistance. However, seeing grandma's serious face, she seems to feel a kind of spirit, and she has a trace of warmth and strength from the bottom of her heart. Say, "How about I make a unit?" The face is full of naughty muddy childishness.
grandma nodded and smiled.
they started separately. However, grandma's pen is moving, but her eyes are aiming at him from time to time. See him, write a line, write a paragraph, always want to "at ease" to stop for a while, as if thinking about something, and as if to breathe a sigh of relief, to have a bigger activity.
grandma smiled again, but said nothing. The eldest baby saw it and said, "Grandma, what are you laughing at?"
grandma didn't look up and replied, "I want to laugh! I am happy to look at you. "
"that's not right." The pen in the big baby's hand was paddling across the notebook, but he said slowly, "You are afraid that I will be lazy and dawdle, aren't you?"
"No!" Grandma stopped her pen and looked at him. Solemnly said: "my big baby is needless to say, the task must be completed very well." I feel inferior to you, why should I say you! "
Big Baby grinned, and "live" was done vigorously. Grandma couldn't help smiling again, but she didn't stop, still doing her own "work".
It's past 11 o'clock. Grandma has packed up the things on the table and is ready to cook. Big baby also hurriedly moved his books and pencils aside and followed grandma's steps into the kitchen. Baby said, "Grandma, I'll help you cook. I can't be a parasite! "
grandma said, "ok! However, you watch first, I need your help, you will, and I will let you do it. If you can't do it, don't move. Is it ok? "
"ok!" Big baby promised loudly.
grandma wants to make a thousand leeks. This is an ordinary home-cooked dish, but it pays attention to the temperature. If the cooking is not well mastered, the "image" and "taste" of thousands of leeks will be greatly reduced.
"Big baby, you master the rotor." Grandma said, "I'll turn on the fire and raise the switch." Turn on the small fire and lower the switch. "
"ok!" The big baby replied, and one hand conveniently rested on the switch of the gas stove.
Grandma put the pot on the stove and said, "Fire, fire!" "
Big Baby immediately turned the switch and turned it to the maximum position, but he didn't take his hand away, as if waiting for the latest command.
Grandma quickly said, "Move your hands and stand back!"
when the pot is hot, grandma pours in sesame oil first. Then, it was put into Jiang Mo. When the oil reaches a high temperature, the hand and the knife are put into pieces. Then, he copied it with a shovel a few times and said, "Turn it down."
Big Baby quickly reached out and twisted the switch to turn to the next gear, and the fire on the stove was much smaller. Grandma continued to copy thousands of pieces with a shovel, and put some seasoning on it. Seeing that the color was a little yellow, she copied it on one side of the pot. And he said, "Open a big fire." Big baby's hand didn't leave, so he turned the switch to the original position of the fire. Grandma just put in the chopped leek and quickly copied it with a shovel. Moreover, the frequency of copying is very high, three times five divided by two, just like playing. Say, "Turn off the fire!"
thousands of leeks are ready. They are original in color, fragrant and very attractive.
"grandma." The eldest baby said, "This is delicious food I made for you!" "
"not bad." Grandma said, "You helped me." Said, and looked at the big baby happily. Where's big baby? I am even more proud.
In the early 196s, before I was five years old, my grandparents passed away one after another. Deep in my memory, my grandmother's image is very shallow. I still remember one thing, that is, grandma went back to her family and took me with her. Grandma's maiden is next door to our village, almost one kilometer away. However, there is a big pond like a reservoir in the middle. A broad and towering pond ridge connects the east and the west, making it very convenient to travel.
My grandmother is short and thin, but she is quick and clean. There are many grandchildren, and they just let them play freely. It is said that I am grandma's favorite grandson, but I don't feel how she likes it.
Grandma took my hand and hurried back to her mother's house. I followed my grandmother, rather than running after her.
after more than 2 years, it's time for my son to go to kindergarten. My son's grandmother is about the same age as my grandmother, and there are also several children around her, some from my family and some from my sister's family. Grandma seems to treat all children equally, eating and sleeping like adults, with no toys, snacks and no special care. If you have a preference for your own grandchildren, you will occasionally pick them up from kindergarten and wait for us to pick them up at home.
time is like a blink of an eye, and it is decades in a blink of an eye.
Today and in the past, the material is rich, and people's spiritual world should still stick to the traditional "one acre and three points". However, a series of problems, such as the world situation, are undergoing earth-shaking changes.
Parents, especially grandparents, love their precious grandchildren ... The care in their hearts, the pity in their eyes and the indulgence in their hands seem to have never happened for centuries.
what about my home? The time between grandma and her baby grandson is continuous and happy.
written on August 29th, 221 in the north bank of Chaohu Lake, Hefei.