Looking at other people's magnificent, chic and elegant works, my works look very low and I can't wait to take them off at once. I finally understand what "no contrast, no harm" means.
I always thought I wrote very well before, and so did the people around me. Because they haven't studied calligraphy, my handwriting is very good compared with theirs, so I think everyone has a sense of superiority like them. Until the game completely shattered it.
In the previous chess game, I also lost to pieces. In my own circle, I played invincible hands all over the world until I stepped out of the circle, only to find that there were stronger hands among the strong.
We like to compare ourselves with others and think that we are very powerful.
I have read such a passage before: among the actors, singing is the best, in the music world, writing is the best, and in the screenwriter, acting is the best.
I think invincible in my own circle is invincible in the world. Only when you really enter the circle you are good at will you find yourself a frog in the well.
If you want to be a better person, you must find the circle in your field, and you will find many great gods. If you like calligraphy, you should pay more attention to things in this circle. If you like playing chess, you should play chess with a better player. Only in this way can we improve, instead of being complacent in our own circles.
I recently attended an interview and met many amazing people, only to find myself so mediocre.
Some of them can speak fluent English while others can speak Japanese. Some people are good at painting while others are good at dancing. Compared with them, I felt that I had nothing, and I was disappointed at once.
In high school, I got good grades and was among the best. It has been favored by teachers and envied by classmates. I went to college and met many amazing people, only to find that I was too mediocre, and my previous sense of superiority disappeared without a trace.
In order to improve my English, I joined a WeChat group for English learning and communication, and kept punching in the WeChat group every day. Force yourself to communicate in English, even if you can't. People in the group can basically punch in every day, even if they are busy, they dare not slack off, because they will be kicked if they miss three times.
With them, I can learn good habits. Some people get up at six and say "good morning". Some people still insist on studying until midnight. In this atmosphere, I have also become extremely hard.
Hard work will always pay off. After a period of study, I not only developed good habits, but also successfully passed the CET-4.
I think being with powerful people is not to learn their skills, but to learn how they become so powerful and cultivate their good habits. This is the biggest gain of being with them.
Always confined to our existing circle, it will hinder our vision. Sometimes we need to jump out of our current circle and go to the outside world to see if we are insignificant and mediocre, and then give ourselves a suitable position.
Some people say that your income is the average income of the people around you, because your circle limits your vision, and you need to get in touch with people with more strength, so you won't want to be yourself now.
Some people would rather be leaders in their own circles than be phoenix tails in better circles. I can't judge whether this idea is correct or not. I just think that if you think you are doing the best in this circle, you should find a better circle.