Not many people in real life are optimistic about the divorce between husband and wife. As far as my true attitude is concerned, I am not optimistic about divorce and I am firmly opposed to it.
Divorce doesn't happen in modern times, it has a long history.
Back in history, divorce is not a strange phenomenon, nor is it anything new. It has a long history. But divorce. In different times, there are different views on this.
In the old society, it was called "divorced wife". If a man despises his wife or other people, he can get rid of his relationship with his wife with a piece of paper he wrote.
Times have changed, and the word "divorce" came into being after the founding of New China. The state has also written the divorce clause into the marriage law. Let "divorce" be justified and protected by law.
To tell the truth, no matter the "divorce" at that time or the divorce now. Both of them are double injuries, which will cause unforgettable sadness to men and women all their lives.
Second, divorce is a painful price.
Divorce is the greatest misfortune and sorrow for men and women in their lives. And this kind of pain and sadness, they bought it at a price. This price is incalculable.
The first is the mental torture of both sides of the divorce. Most divorcees have experienced many disappointments in their lives. When they are exhausted by mental torture, never take this step with talent. People's mental torture is more painful than physical stick and knife cutting, lack of clothes and food. It is immeasurable, immeasurable, and serious mental illness can also be life-threatening.
This is the child and the old man. Children will go to prison because of lack of a complete family, inability to grow up healthily, abnormal thinking and illegal crimes. Elders may also be depressed all day, get sick, affect their health, and die young …
In social life, there are many such examples.
Ms. Zhang is 42 years old. Divorced her husband at 34. A boy was sentenced by the court to be raised by the man. Men don't care about their families and children all day. When the child was seventeen, he was sentenced to eight years in prison for robbery and theft. The man's parents also died for four years because of excessive mental stress.
From the news media and various newspapers and magazines, we can see too many similar situations. This is the real success and cost of divorce!
Third, look at divorce through philosophy.
Although human affairs are numerous and varied, to understand them correctly, only by observing, analyzing and judging from a philosophical point of view can we get the final accuracy.
However, as far as divorce is concerned, from a philosophical point of view, it also has two sides.
On the right, it follows the laws of human thinking. No matter which side the divorce responsibility belongs to, it reflects the result of the development of things and the result of the thinking and behavior of both husband and wife. What kind of thinking mentality, what kind of results must be brewed. When the relationship between husband and wife is hopeless, divorce becomes the only inevitable thing. In a real sense, this kind of compensation is not a good thing!
Then analyze it from the actual heart of the divorced parties. If you can't be husband and wife and be friends, divorce is double liberation and double liberation. Why did the strange strange bedfellows deceive himself and ask for it?
From a philosophical point of view, divorce follows the development law of human thinking.
The other side of divorce is that one party will always be a descendant of China and follow thousands of years of marriage ethics. It is deeply rooted in the hearts of hundreds of millions of people in China. Phenomenologically, if the relationship between the two parties is not harmonious, they will divorce. Really contrary to the ancient traditional marriage ethics. Many people can't correctly understand the divorce between men and women at present, which is both realistic and inevitable.
& lt fourth > Three suggestions for men and women to divorce.
The first word:
Because people are not perfect, can you walk on the road with love when you enter marriage?
In marriage, use your own imperfections to unconditionally accept him or her who is also imperfect.
Long live the understanding of respect, mutual trust, frankness, tolerance, tolerance and communication in life? !
The second word:
Husband and wife have a hard life. Everything should be based on harmony, and heart-to-heart communication should be carried out everywhere. Chicken feathers are everywhere. Nine times out of ten, everyone is unhappy. Don't let small things become mountains, they can't be solved. Let frictions and contradictions be resolved in the bud and stillborn.
It is not easy to cherish love. If found in time, it will be repaired immediately.
The third word:
Don't say divorce easily! Do your best for marriage.
Key words:
Although divorce is inevitable, because in their own.
It's best not to leave when you get married. Divorce has a cost, and it is a double harm to life.
Never say anything about the divorce. Repair if you can, and repair if you can. Successful repair is still a good marriage between husband and wife.