Ye Zi, she is not only an excellent people’s teacher, but also an ordinary and selfless mother. She is a person who is never vague and conscientious in her work, but she has never slackened on her daughter's education. One thing she often says to her daughter is: "I'm used to you eating, I'm used to wearing you, but I'm not used to you studying." As a mother, she also pours all her love into her daughter unreservedly - Be careful in life Carefully take care of you, guide you patiently in learning, and open your mind carefully. In the eyes of parents, children are often a part of themselves, and children are their ideal second chance. Therefore, she has never underestimated her children's education because of her busy work, and has been flexibly adjusting the educational mechanism as she grows.
Time flies, time flies. As the child grows up amidst the ticking of the clock, she pays special attention to cultivating her daughter's interests in painting, dancing, calligraphy, and paper-cutting, so that the child can go through childhood in a colorful life. Looking back at Ruge's years, she couldn't help but sigh: "It was never as hard to raise ten children as it is to raise one today."
1. Be a guidepost for children on their life journey
Children It is the motivation for parents to work hard, and it is also the sparkle of parent education. In life, she is a mother who sets an example. For the sake of her children, she can accompany her daughter to study late at night with a solitary lamp; for her children, she can give up all kinds of entertainment activities to accompany her daughter to do homework and give necessary advice. The year before last, her mother-in-law suffered from cerebral thrombosis and was paralyzed in bed. She often washed her hair, feet, wiped her body... and took care of everything. Although I have been bedridden for half a year, there is always a refreshing smell when I enter the house. Her daughter saw her mother working so hard as a class teacher every day, so she also took some time out from her busy schedule (reviewing in the third grade of junior high school) to take care of her grandma. She smiled when she saw her daughter being so sensible and understanding, and told her daughter: "You grew up on grandma's back in your childhood..." In the days that followed, her daughter came to visit whenever she had time. In grandma's room, she took good care of grandma, made the old man happy, and coaxed the old man to smile that he had not seen for a long time. During the journey of growth, she was able to set an example and set a good example, teaching her daughter a vivid lesson and injecting an inexhaustible source of energy into her daughter's future.
2. Be a navigator for the children to learn rafting
Sixteen years have passed by in a hurry, and she has been accompanying her daughter as a navigator. In elementary school, she eliminated blind spots in children's learning by testing AB papers every day and helped her daughter improve her English scores. In middle school, as the subjects increased dramatically, her childlike daughter became "flying all over the place" and was very busy every day, but the result was at a loss. What shocked her the most was that in the first monthly exam, one of the "top picks" at school dropped to tenth place. What a tragedy! As a mother, she was anxious: "What should I do, what should I do?" The cries echoed in her irritable heart... After cooling down, she sorted out her thoughts and concluded that it was due to the increase in academic apprenticeship, improper study of methods, unreasonable time allocation and other reasons. Leading to inaction. To this end, she picked up subjects that had been neglected for many years, clarified the ideas of learning, turned difficulties into easy ones, solved them one by one, and guided children to learn independently. You know how much energy this takes for a class teacher who also teaches Chinese, but she actually gave up all her rest time to study mathematics and foreign languages. In order to rush forward the long-lost ideas, she always walked in front of her children... By persisting like this for half a semester, her daughter gradually fell into the state, absorbing the rain and dew of knowledge in a pleasant learning atmosphere, and by the end of the semester Finally won the championship again, and more importantly, her daughter was finally able to "get off the crutches."
3. Be the pruner of the tree of children’s thoughts
Singing all the way, her daughter entered adolescence while dancing. She was lively and optimistic and showed a vague rebellious character. Life in the third grade of junior high school is spent in a stressful and busy life, and every child is exhausted. Examinations are commonplace. After each exam, she analyzes the test papers with her children, provides timely feedback, looks for weak links, and improves herself. I remember once when her daughter did very well in an exam, with a proud smile filling her cheeks, and her pride was quietly growing. Her mother saw this in her eyes, was anxious in her heart, and severely criticized her.
Unexpectedly, this time she truly understood the power of the flash flood of rebellion in adolescence. Not only was the original intention not realized, but it resulted in a deadlock. That time she felt aggrieved. She had worked so hard and waited night after night, but not only had she gained no credit, but she was useless. She also realized the failure of her education. A mother's heart is an abyss, and in its deepest depths you will always find forgiveness. In order to bring the child back from the peak of self-esteem as soon as possible, she took the initiative to put down her majesty and let the dove fly. As always, she cared for her carefully, guided her carefully, and pruned the side branches with her warm encouragement. The child worked harder and finally passed the exam with excellent results. Admitted to key high schools. The moment she found out her high school entrance examination scores, her daughter hugged her mother tightly in excitement. Everything was said in silence, and silence was better than sound at this time.
4. Be the spiritual pillar of your child’s faith
Everyone is a friend when you succeed, only the mother is your partner in failure. The most unforgettable experience for her was when her daughter, who was in high school, failed miserably in a monthly exam and her fighting spirit was severely dampened, leaving her feeling at a loss. In the radio waves, the daughter cried out about her inner helplessness and confusion. The mother on the other end listened patiently with hidden heartache and carefully enlightened. The trembling radio waves conveyed the daughter's attachment and trust to her mother, and also conveyed harmony. Her mother's love fills the small and confused heart with brilliant sunshine, and another round of rising sun rises slowly from the mist... In order to strengthen her daughter's belief in pursuing her dream, she will send a text message every day to express her gratitude. This will dispel the timidity in the daughter and inspire her ambition to make progress. Time passed slowly with an ordinary heart... Her daughter gradually regained her confidence in the bath of mother's love, cut through the waves, and set sail...
As an ordinary mother, Although she has lost more joy in entertainment, she has gained the fruity fragrance of longing; although she has also experienced grievances and bitterness, the holiday gifts have allowed her to taste the sweetness of delicious food. The past has gone like the wind. High school life has made her daughter miss the warmth of family and the sweetness of maternal love. The chattering of the past has become the note of her daughter's longing.
Mother's love is like the wind, caressing the young heart lake, mother's love is like the sun to dispel the confused heart, mother's love is like water to nourish the thirsty heart, mother's love is like fire to warm the lonely heart.