how to get rid of the bill at the university?
Foreword
The most beautiful appearance of love is that two people in one room, three meals and four seasons, are devoted to both sexes, want to study with you, sit side by side, lie prone when you are tired, turn your head to you, look at your serious appearance, want to have dinner with you, give you food, and giggle at me, want to walk with you and hold hands.
Listening to you talk about the trivia of the day, when I step on your shadow, I look at your angry appearance and want to watch a love movie with you in the spring, sitting in the last row and secretly watching the love of the couple in front of me in college. Although there is no trivial flow, they are simply happy. But how to get rid of the bill in college? How can we have a relationship?
first, broaden the social circle
the premise of getting out of the order is to have a source of the opposite sex, that is, to expand the social circle and make more different friends. According to the survey results, in universities, the main sources of friends are classmates or classmates, friend introductions, club activities, online friends, etc.
Therefore, if you want to get rid of the order quickly, you should first start with people around you, actively participate in class activities, serve as the class committee, and let more students know themselves. Secondly, you can join the student union or community organizations, so that you can not only know your seniors and sisters, but also make like-minded friends.
Besides, you can know more about the opposite sex by playing games, fellow villagers and alumni groups. In short, if you want to get rid of the order, you must definitely take the initiative to "attack". Don't be bored with roommates all day. Roommates are not of the opposite sex. No matter how good the relationship is, they are just buddies or sisters, and they can't become objects!
2. Attracting the opposite sex
It is not enough to have the source of the opposite sex. We also need to release 1, volts of electricity like Pikachu to attract the opposite sex.
1. Appearance
Appearance is the first impression of others on us. Many scientists' studies have shown that the seeds of love often germinate within a few minutes of their first meeting.
When we first see beautiful people, we can't get close to them. The so-called love at first sight is all about seeing the color.
A university is a plastic surgery hospital, and four years is enough to thoroughly remould many people. Therefore, if you want to take off the bill, both boys and girls should pay more attention to their dressing and find their own style. Girls can learn to make up and wear: boys should wear simple and generous clothes, which can be matched with hairstyles and accessories.
2. Internally
It's often not enough to have a beautiful appearance, because we often say, "It starts with face value, falls into talent, and is loyal to character", so we need to enhance our charm by enriching our insides. Intrinsic mainly refers to a person's inherent internal advantages, peaches mentioned here are only a person's temperament and talent.
what temperament shows in society is an inner personality charm of a person from the inside out and then the sublimation of the quality of a person's inner charm. There are many personality charms, such as self-cultivation, morality, manners and behaviors, the feeling of treating people and talking, etc., which are elegant, noble, quiet, gentle, unrestrained, informal and immediate.
so how do you change or improve your temperament? The first way is to increase your own connotation or knowledge, such as reading more books. Those who don't like reading can watch some old movies or pay attention to some valuable current events.
The second method is to cultivate hobbies. Interest is the starting point and source of forming abilities, generating talents and creating achievements. Different interests have different characteristics, which can often subtly change our temperament or character. Such as flower arrangement, painting and calligraphy will make us quiet and gentle; basketball, football and other sports will make us outgoing and bold.
Third, communication
After attracting the opposite sex to our side, we enter the stage of communication. The main purpose of chatting between two people is to get information, find a topic and arouse each other's interest.
Therefore, we can talk a little more and have a wider range in the first chat. However, if you already know each other well before chatting, you can directly talk about the topics of interest to each other. If you don't know what to talk about for the first time, you can start with the other person's avatar, signature, circle of friends, space talk, etc. With the topic, after learning the information of the other party, you can expand the topic and increase the frequency of chatting at the same time.
However, when chatting, you should pay attention to keeping mysterious and distant, and don't ask and answer anything, and don't agree to each other's request too early. The harder it is to get something, the higher its status in people's minds, the greater its value, and the more attractive it is to people. The value of what is easily obtained or what has been obtained is often ignored by people.
IV. Action
Never just talk on paper, especially girls hate boys' words and deeds. After getting to know each other for a while, you can be concerned about your actions appropriately.
For example, classmates can share seats with each other, help each other submit their homework, and buy breakfast by the way. Usually, you can make an appointment for self-study together, and you can eat by the way after self-study. When you make an appointment with each other for the first time, you can bring your friends to avoid embarrassment. After such a serious excuse comes close once or twice, you can try to ask the other person for a walk or a movie directly, but you must pay attention to the time and place and don't embarrass the other person.
V. Making use of psychology to generate love
The beginning of love is a heartbeat. Learning to use the following psychological effects can bring our relationship closer. Suspension bridge effect: it means that when a person crosses the suspension bridge in fear, his heart will beat faster involuntarily.
If you happen to meet another person at this time, he will mistakenly understand that the heartbeat caused by this situation is a physiological reaction caused by the other person's heartbeat, so it breeds love for the other person.
With the aid of the suspension bridge effect, let the other person have a heart-stirring, "Love, fuck us. Exciting entertainment such as riding a roller coaster, playing a jumper, watching horror movies, going to haunted houses and so on can make both men and women's hearts beat faster.
In the process of getting along, girls will feel insecure and want to rely on them. At this time, boys must not be afraid! Be brave, don't laugh at the girl's cowardice, try to care about her, use more language to divert her attention, tell her that it's okay, I'm here, "to alleviate her fear, and when she is afraid, she can casually hold hands and hug her to comfort her.
after the date, the girl will definitely remember your meticulous care and protection for her and have love for you.