How can parents believe that their father or grandfather can do such a nasty thing? Out of normal thinking, most parents would not believe it, and they may not have thought that such a dramatic thing would really happen in their own homes and to their children. 1. A 9-year-old girl was molested by her grandfather
9-year-old Lan Lan stayed at her grandfather's house because her parents were busy, and she was taken care of by her grandfather. But what Lanlan didn't expect, and what Lanlan's parents didn't expect was that her grandfather would molest her and offend her.
Lanlan was very disgusted with her grandfather's behavior. She cried to her parents to reflect on her grandfather's behavior. However, what she didn't expect was that her parents thought Lanlan was lying and ignored Lanlan's request for help. They also blamed Lanlan. orchid. Lan Lan's parents may think that their daughter deliberately lied to let them go home quickly, and they don't believe that their father, Lan Lan's grandfather, would do such a thing.
Fortunately, Lan Lan is smart. If it doesn't work to seek help from her parents, she has to rely on herself. When her grandfather touches her again, Lan Lan chooses to record it with her mobile phone. Moreover, Lan Lan went to the women's director of the village for help and asked the women's director to watch the video she had recorded. After seeing Grandpa Lanlan's behavior, the women's director decisively reported it to her superiors. After a thorough investigation by the staff, it was confirmed that Grandpa Lanlan was He behaved obscenely towards Lanlan and confirmed Grandpa Lanlan's guilt. 2. Thumbs up for Lan Lan, Lan Lan’s parents should reflect.
After Lan Lan sought her parents to no avail, she did not suffer in silence, but searched for evidence and asked the women’s director to help her, and finally succeeded. Save yourself. It's amazing that a 9-year-old has such a clear idea. Thumbs up to her.
However, Lanlan's parents did not do a good job in this matter. After hearing what Lanlan said, they did not think from Lanlan's perspective. They only relied on their own feelings. What they thought was to deny Lan Lan's appeal, and they lacked consideration.
Lanlan’s parents are lacking in both thoughts and actions. Even if she doesn’t believe in herself, she should ask her father for help. After all, the emperor is far away and is not with their daughter. Do they really feel comfortable that their daughter is alone with her grandfather? Is what the daughter said really lying?
Lanlan’s parents should reflect and carefully consider their responsibilities and obligations as parents. They should not think that it is safe to leave their children to their biological grandfather. Children are children and need to be loved and cared for by their parents.
Lanlan's grandfather should be severely punished, and Lanlan's parents should think about their own education and communication methods for Lanlan. I hope Lanlan grows up healthily. 3. Pay attention to children's sex education, and don't always think that children are young
Both in school and at home, we must pay attention to sex education. Don't talk about sex. We must educate children about sex knowledge scientifically and rationally. Let children understand how to protect themselves from being violated.
Both boys and girls must pay attention to sex education. Don’t use old ideas and opinions to think that boys don’t matter and will not suffer. In fact, both boys and girls need to be protected and learn to understand sex.
You don’t need to say many explicit things, but at least teach your children how not to be violated or offend others. Nowadays, there are many books and comics about sex education. Parents can buy them for their children according to their actual age to achieve the purpose of education.