After the explosion, Tamia Liu turned over successfully after "playing tender". Tamia Liu's career has entered a short period of low tide after the broadcast of Song Gong Ci, and the overwhelming audience seems to deny all her strengths. But this time, Tamia Liu finally turned over and landed the first new drama for three consecutive days.
The market share of the new drama Growing with You is very high, always above 1%, and Tamia Liu has regained her reputation by virtue of her heroic status as a professional woman and mother. The Excellence of this play is self-evident. So what makes this play so outstanding?
Poverty will not make smart children fail, but money can make smart children stronger.
Xiang Li stood in front of the bulletin board, watching the news of the school district change. He is only one day away from settling his children, and because of this day, the children are diverted to other primary schools.
Xiang Li and the people around him loudly denounced the contents of the announcement. The most valuable things in his body are the school district of xia yang Road Primary School and his household registration.
Suddenly, a hand reached out and grabbed Xiang Li's arm. The man across the street borrowed 2 yuan from him.
In public, such scenes will undoubtedly make men lose face, but who is Xiang Li?
He is a gambling bastard, a husband who can't afford an English tutor, and a father who wants his talented son to give up his studies.
Xiang Li is one of the key figures in Growing Up with You. This TV series starring Tamia Liu and Calvin has always attracted the attention of the audience as soon as it is released. Every point involved in the play has a lot of depth space. The school district, registered permanent residence, discrimination against women in the workplace, cram schools ... these topics are the capital of this drama.
The whole city of Shanghai wants to take root as an adult and let children enjoy the bonus of big cities. Ordinary people want to do this, either just like waking up to become a leader in the industry, or like marrying a local or a rich man like Lin Yun, or like Li Xiang is born indigenous.
Growing Up with You does a good job in characterization. Through the stories of four families, it shows the story of children growing up. Childcare works have always enjoyed a good reputation in the market. For example, Little Farewell and Little Joy have achieved great success, but Growing Up with You is an exception.
It is said that "the triangle is the most stable", and many TV dramas will choose three protagonists or three characters. From the perspective of script design, the three narrative subjects can not only tell the story three-dimensionally, but also avoid the disorder of the main story caused by too many characters. Therefore, the design of four families in Growing Up with You makes the audience curious.
when I saw the story was brief, I became curious. I thought that so many leading roles would make the story difficult to distinguish.
However, as the fourth family, and their child Li appeared in front of the audience, and it was their existence that gave the drama the confidence to touch the hearts of the audience.
Among several children, Gu's family is the best. His parents try their best to educate "Chicken Baby". He is proficient in chess, calligraphy and painting. Wang Xijia practiced "happy education" and his parents were intellectuals, who made great achievements in the industry. Although Jiang Siyuan's parents are not as rich as the first two families, they are also well-off families.
Only Li's family is the most miserable. His mother works in a shop during the day and delivers food at night, while his father only gambles all day. If the parents of the first three groups are all "urban people", then Li's family is a complete "rural people".
ten or twenty years ago, when most people were children, many rural children, including me, had a similar life. Looking at the hard work of mothers inside and outside, they can only bury themselves in reading, eager to change their present destiny and live a different life alone.
Li's family is similar to Jiang Siyuan's. His father is incompetent and the family burden is borne by his mother alone, but they are fundamentally different. Jiang Siyuan's parents have some love, and the family can take photos in a happy atmosphere under the heavy burden of life, but Li's family is doomed to be full of quarrels.
That's why the director added a fourth family. The first three groups of families belong to the inherent "template" of film and television dramas, but only Li's family can represent the most realistic and lowest family relationship, and the other three groups of families can pull back to the ground through "comparison" to truly show "everything in the world".
The marriage life of parents will directly determine the starting point of children.
When a child goes out, his or her every move reflects his or her family. Wang Xi has a good family relationship. He and his parents know each other from college to marriage hall. The "little happiness" of working during the day and driving at night masks the external pressure. Only in such a carefree life can Wang Xi keep his simplicity at this age.
Every time we see a child like Li in our life, we can have a preliminary understanding of his family. This is a clever boy who can play Rubik's Cube in kindergarten, but he must have a poor family or make him feel inferior.
Genius is proud, because from the day when he can remember, he knows his superiority in wisdom and can easily feel the real world. But it is precisely because of this wisdom that they are overly sensitive, which is manifested in analogical learning and analogical wisdom, and in realizing the existence of "class" in advance in life.
If Li's father is Gu Jiawei, he should be an extrovert, and the child Gu Jiawei expects is Li's genius.
This world is ridiculous. We can't find a life that matches us, even if it's just a child.
Li knows what his family is like. When I was young, I didn't know the specific appearance of social class. He can compare other people's parents with his own by comparing with the children around him. He has a preliminary understanding of his family, which is not good.
So Li imitates technology on one hand and is modest on the other. He is obviously a child who has never been to primary school, but he smiles and reveals the bitterness that belongs to adults. His parents' unhappy marriage life is directly reflected in his starting point of life and will inevitably become the shadow of his life.
When a child is pecked by a chicken as a child, he will have an inexplicable fear of pointed-billed animals, and this fear will accompany him all his life. A child who knows the "gap" from an early age needs to spend most of his life getting rid of the shadow imposed by his family.
children like Li are both strong and fragile. He realized the "gap" too early in his unfortunate family life, so he passively learned to "mature" by instinct protection, but he was unfortunate. The only thing he can rely on and dare to rely on in this world is his own talent. After all, he doesn't want to leave his hard-working mother, but once he is frustrated frequently, he will become the most vulnerable child.
as Li's father, how can he be criticized?
in the quarrel with Shen Xiaoyan, Xiang Li was very self-aware. He directly pointed out that Shen Xiaoyan did it for her Shanghai hukou, which is exactly the case. Although Shen Xiaoyan divorced Xiang Li in time, she and her children have no place to live in Shanghai. In order to give her children a better life, she can only continue to live under the same roof as Xiang Li.
With the help of TV cameras, we sometimes smile at Xiang Li's behavior. He is simply a typical loser and will naturally be loved by the audience.
For Shen Xiaoyan, the story that others are interested in is the desperate situation.
Do you still find it interesting that women have to live under the same roof with men for the sake of their children, that women have to worry about being climbed by irrelevant men when they sleep, and that women need to work to qualify for a normal life?
From the perspective of human body design, Shen Xiaoyan and Awakening belong to two extremes, but they are both the same kind of people. The former is the evidence of the latter, and the latter is the extension of the former.
The difference between The Awakening and Shen Xiaoyan lies in her educational background. She is also a self-reliant woman. Because of the difference in knowledge level, one is an industry gold medal designer, and the other is a salesman and part-time takeaway.
the first highlight of growing up with you lies in the opposition with gu Jiawei. In the face of Gu Jiawei's view that "a woman can't take care of her job when she gets married", she woke up and fought back neatly, winning applause from the audience by saying that "your wife lost her career because of you".
It is worth mentioning that the fate of a housewife in Lin Yun is her best destination, and her wisdom is not enough to nourish herself in a dangerous workplace. When we encourage "having our own business", we can't use this as an excuse to prevent others from living a comfortable life. After all, in many cases, the struggle is either an outstanding figure like The Awakening or a person with no way out like Shen Xiaoyan.
the importance of Shen Xiaoyan is highlighted again. She makes the waking lines not only cool for the audience's collective excitement, but also make the lines fall into reality instead of becoming a beautiful slogan.
There are many things in the world, and individuals have their own way of life. We can all find our own comfort zone, and many parents can live well without children, which is why many young people are reluctant to have children.
once you understand that inheriting children is only the influence of culture, once you know that having children will make your life decline, once you know that you can't give your children a good starting point, will you still want children? Just as you can't choose your own career and income, you can't guarantee your child's future. You know how important you are to your children. Growing up with you makes you understand how important your life and career are to your children.
the occupation is not noble, but the people are noble. When projected on children, the influence of parents' occupation is immediate.
Shen Xiaoyan tried her best to give her children the best, but the 38 English class exceeded her limit. What a good boy Fei Li is. He not only has first-class talent, but also has the initiative and curiosity to learn. He may not know the practical significance of knowledge, but learning is the only area where he can feel pleasure.
Under the director's deliberate arrangement and the necessary beautification of his artistic works, it is difficult for Li to show more real things, but we can completely rely on our own social experience to speculate: the comparison between children's parents, the gap in learning hardware configuration, and the social convenience brought by parents' communication ...
For Li, the most tragic thing about Growing Up with You is that although the director has never explained it, we all understand one thing, that is.
If the story continues to be filmed, it seems that we can all see the future story: Gu, who has low emotional intelligence, becomes a naive woman who has no emotional intelligence at all in film and television dramas, and becomes a favored son of heaven. She has to struggle from the bottom of society and make up the gap between the starting points with day and night struggles, which comes from the official careers of several parents.
actually, I can't bear to watch it. Once you see the logic of several big families, a kind of pessimism arises spontaneously, and a sense of class bondage binds every audience together. We don't want to bring it in, but real life forces us to do it step by step.
The four families selected in Growing Up with You only refer to the four social classes, and Gu Jiawei is the Awakening Party A. Even if the Awakening Party can verbally counterattack Gu Jiawei, it still cannot make up the identity gap between them, and the Awakening Party is the "Party A" position relative to the other two families.
If Jiang Siyuan's label of "devil in the world" can't be eliminated, he can't use his children to break through class restrictions, and Li's current life goal is probably just to have Jiang Siyuan's family life. This is my feeling about Growing Up with You. Every audience can feel the pressure of social class. Your efforts will never reach the peak. Maybe you are gifted, but it will take a long time to make up for the gap at the starting line.
No one can deny that he is a clever boy, but we must admit that if Li can have a rich family, he will have a bigger stage, so that he can learn English anytime and anywhere, and he can release his talents to his heart's content.
I prefer to think that this drama is an inspirational drama, which inspires the audience to struggle in a certain sense, even if it is only to let the children stand at a higher starting line.
in the comfort zone. He is not qualified to be a father, but as a person, he is quite comfortable after abandoning his face and dignity. His life is not oppressed by his boss, but he can't afford the cost of children wanting to learn English, so that they will have a "boss" in their later lives.
The score of Growing with You hasn't come out yet. I don't think the score of this play will be lower than 8. Only the Li family can give birth to endless feelings, not to mention the awakening family as the protagonist. This play is closely related to the real life of many audiences. After reading it, it is difficult for us to ignore the relationship between ourselves and our children and how important we are to our children.
are you willing to work hard for yourself, or do you want your children to be employees of the boss and children?