Take Jerry Yan, who is still unmarried, for example. Jerry Yan is not a man who refuses to get married, but when his princess needs him, he cares about her in his heart, but the lack of verbal expression leads to his princess leaving him.
So how to change this kind of person's desires and fears? Take a blank piece of paper and split it in two. Write on the left what benefits marriage can bring you, and the other half what you are afraid of. Wait until you know what you are afraid of, find your intended marriage partner, and communicate with her/him one by one. Because marriage is the commitment and commitment of two people, he/she should work with you to understand what your problem is. So he/she won't worry, think or even miss each other.
In the process of solving this problem, both of us should be patient. This can also be regarded as a pre-wedding rehearsal. If you finish this project together, whatever problems you encounter in your future marriage can be solved. No matter who two people are, they should have confidence in each other and be patient. Because they are people who intend to spend their lives together, it is a very important process to understand each other's hearts.
All this is based on the premise that the other person loves you. If there is no love, or love dries up, just like a house built on the beach by the sea, it will collapse when it encounters a little wind and waves.
Life will not be kind to everyone, you should strive for your own happiness.