Tongbao: Do your homework!
I: Oh, there are six hours. Do you need to make a detailed plan? At this time, my intention is to hope that she can finish her homework for a single day quickly as planned and then have more time to go out to play.
Tongbao: Mom, can you stop studying? I don't want to talk about this topic.
me: oh, ok, mom knows that you don't want to talk about this topic now, so don't talk about it.
Tongbao: Mom, I just want to talk to you about something else, so you get angry and I don't want to talk! (looking very wronged)
I crouched down, took Tong Bao's hands and asked: You want to talk to your mother about something else, but you are a little unhappy that she talks to you directly about the plan without knowing it, right? (Nodding) The next time you encounter such a thing that we are not on the same chat channel, you can say it directly, and mom will understand that when you express it angrily, mom will be uncomfortable and sad! Can you express yourself well next time? (Nodding) Why don't you talk about the topic you want to talk about now?
Tongbao: I don't want to talk about it now. I'll talk about it later when I get home!
I'll turn on the pause button immediately. Now is not the time to talk more! Right or wrong, let her stay in her emotions for a while!
After lunch, Tong Bao said; Mom, I will arrange my homework and game time this afternoon, so you don't have to remind me! I'm going to sleep now!
me: ok! I just have a class in the afternoon, so I can concentrate on my study!
Tongbao went to take a nap. I listened to Tik Tok live broadcast and took notes. At 15:, I entered the nail group on time to listen to the dean's lecture! I looked at the time to wake her up, but I thought about it and didn't call. Although I know it may be wrong for her not to make a good time plan in advance, I must do it according to the agreement! By the time Tong Bao woke up, it was already 16: 4 (usually 11 hours at school every day is really hard) and she slept for three and a half hours. When she came out to look at the time, she was in a mood! Come up to me and say, Mom, why don't you wake me up?
I hugged her and asked? Wake up, baby! Did you sleep well? I didn't wake you up because we made an appointment in advance!
Tongbao: But I still want to go out to play.
I said calmly: Sure! Just do what you arranged!
at this time, I stopped the useless language mode:? Didn't you say you could arrange it yourself? Why can't you get up when you sleep? You still want to ask me if I'm not calling you? Can't go out to play without homework? ..... Tongbao thought for a few minutes on the stool, went over and picked up his bag to do his homework! I went on listening to the class and kept silent! No matter what she thinks now, leave her alone for a while, which is also an unbalanced technology! ) In the end, Tongbao didn't go out to play and wrote his homework page after page. I took the opportunity to praise her:? Why do you love learning so much? The teacher asked you to write one lesson and you have to write three lessons ... The more Tongbao wrote, the more she lost her mood!
Before going to bed at night, Tong Bao said: Mom still writes a schedule, so you can type it for me!
me: ok! What do you want to plan? Say, I'll write it down and print it tomorrow! When Tong Bao finished, I asked again: How many days should this plan be tried out first? 3 days or 5 days, now you don't know whether the planned time is reasonable or not. You can make changes to the unreasonable places after the use period.
Tongbao: Three days!
sentiment:? Everything is child-centered, let her experience and feel, and leave her blank! The gains from not preaching are far beyond your imagination!
Diary of growing up:
1. Ask Tongbao's tutor for help, don't pick up at noon, and help order fast food for Tongbao;
2. The customer temporarily added 3 copies, which have been arranged!
3. The finishing work is busy and orderly!
4. I sorted out the documents in the office, and it was another parting!
5. Tomorrow's work has been arranged.
6. Yesterday, the dean said, Look: Mind Secret Service Team, remember it, Tongbao, let dad find it out at night, and we will watch it together!