Tonight, my father read the picture books "Little Black Fish" and "The Turtle" to my brother on my behalf. My father sat on the beanbag and my brother sat in his arms. It was very warm to read the picture book together. I didn’t take any photos, so I remembered that I had long planned to write about my father’s shining points, so I’ll write them today.
People often say "Father's love is like a mountain". I used to use these four words to tease my father. He said that his father's love is like a mountain, and he also said that his father's love is like a "mountain" - a mountain is like a mountain. Unmoved. He is the confidant at home, and both children are afraid of him.
In fact, I used to like to make my own decisions in everything. It didn’t matter if he didn’t interfere or objected to reading. It's also nice to be able to help only when you need help. When the children are naughty and mischievous, come and refresh your father's majesty. It is also very important for children's growth. After all, a loving mother often fails, so it is necessary for a strict father to establish his authority.
Since I came into contact with family education, I have also learned that real education is never a skill that turns stones into gold or instant Buddhahood, but a process of natural inaction and spring breeze. The best education is influence. Only if parents lead by example and become role models for their children, can their children grow up to be what their parents expect in a subtle way. The meaning of parents' existence is not to give their children a comfortable and wealthy life, but when you think of your parents, your heart will be full of strength, have the courage and ability to overcome difficulties, and have the confidence and motivation to explore unknown life.
As children grow up, especially boys, the role of the father in the family becomes more and more important. In fact, my father also has many advantages. In addition to town houses, there are other functions worthy of development, and many advantages are worth boasting about.
Highlights 1. Dad works very hard and sets an example, which is beneficial to the growth of his children. Since he changed his job, my father works hard every day and often talks to me about his work when he comes back. When parents work hard, their children will actually see it. I often take the opportunity to tell my children that our parents work very hard at work, and their work also brings us happiness and satisfaction. You and your brother should go to school and grow up healthily and study hard. Studying will also bring you achievement and happiness.
Highlight 2: My father is a strict father, but he is also a father who appreciates his children from the bottom of his heart. Although sometimes I complain about his workaholic and lack of company for his children. I often take care of two people by myself. However, in order to support his work, I am just saying this. But I found that when he praised his children, he was also very distracted. One time, Jiabao participated in a calligraphy competition. When he was practicing at home, his father praised him for his good writing. He said: "Writing calligraphy, if you just write casually, it is just coping and can only be regarded as homework; if you write seriously, you can write well." level, that’s a work. I think your article is very good, it’s a work!” The children enjoyed it. A father's heartfelt appreciation is the best motivation for his children.
Highlight 3: Show care in small details. Because I have night blindness and am afraid of the dark at night. My father installed voice-activated night lights in many places in the house. If you get up to go to the toilet at night, you don't need to turn on the light to get the light wherever you go. I am very grateful to my father for his thoughtfulness.
Highlight 4: Leave all electronic product issues to him. Dad himself has always been interested in studying computers and the Internet since he was a child. No matter at home or at work, if you have any problems with electronic products, you can always come to him and he will basically solve them. So I have always relied on him in this regard. I don’t have to use my brain. I go to him whenever I have any problems. I also go to him for the water, electricity and gas network at home.
Highlight 5: He is a good father who remembers to buy gifts for his children. In addition to Lego, my father buys many gifts for his children every New Year and holiday. Some are so big that they give grandparents a headache. There are so many toys that it’s hard to clean them up. They probably need a room to store them, haha. But what the heck, they'll grow up soon. Childhood is really short. It needs mother’s picture books and books, and it also needs the happiness and satisfaction brought by father’s toys. Dad’s toys must be wonderful memories from childhood.
Highlight 6: He is the father who supports me in front of the children.
When the children are naughty and don't listen to me, my father is always very angry and teaches them: You have to listen to your mother, and all fathers listen to their mothers. If any of you dare to make your mother unhappy or disrespect your mother, I won’t spare you!
Highlight 7: Love beauty and cleanliness. Dad washes his hair and bathes every day throughout the year, spring, summer, autumn and winter. You must blow dry your hair before going out in the morning. Making the bed is much easier than me, so I always let him make the bed and fold the quilt. It's really a good thing that men like to be clean.
With such a compliment, there are quite a few advantages, and it’s a bit overwhelming. Recently, he has helped his younger brother take a bath, and today he even read a picture book to his younger brother. Although my younger brother always chooses me to read to him and give him a bath, I seem to have read a study somewhere that said stories read by a father’s male voice are more attractive and influential to children. I hope dad will participate in more parent-child reading in the future.
Well done, Dad! Continue to shine in 2022, we love you!