Some time ago, my colleague and I had a dispute over a small matter and failed to manage our emotions, which damaged our friendly relationship. After the incident, I regretted it for a long time and felt deeply. The great hero Cao Cao once said to his sons, "Don't be angry, anger will reduce your wisdom." When people are angry and angry, they will become irrational, even lose their rationality, cannot control their actions, lose their ability to judge, and therefore do some wrong things.
There are many examples like this around us. Some people don’t let anyone go and take big action for trivial matters. This could have been solved through communication, but in the end the gains outweighed the losses, resulting in some very bad consequences. result. There are also people who, for some reasons, cannot control their behavior, causing catastrophe, and thus embark on the road of crime and regret for the rest of their lives, ultimately ruining their own future.
When Lin Zexu was a child, he was extremely smart, but had a strong temper and a quick temper. His father wrote the word "control anger" to Lin Zexu and hung it in Lin Zexu's study, and changed his name. "Zexu" means asking him to control his temper and deal with things calmly.
After Lin Zexu became an official, he kept his father's teachings in mind and personally wrote a plaque with the word "Control Anger" and hung it in his study and hall to warn himself at all times. Over time, Lin Zexu also realized some principles of controlling anger and maintaining health.
Anger often makes people do a lot of things that they regret. When they calm down, they will regret why they couldn't endure it any longer. Often their impulse makes them regret it. Sometimes too much anger is not good for the body. There is a saying that being too angry is harmful to the body, and it is not unreasonable.
(Feelings about small things in life)