A letter to myself.
Dear self:
People living in this world can't do whatever they want. When others encounter difficulties and troubles, it is also good to listen to others' suggestions. However, it is mainly up to you to resolve the inner contradictions. When you are upset, you might as well think about the following sentence, which may be helpful to adjust your mentality.
Don't worry,things can only get better.
God is fair to everyone. When it closes a door, it will definitely open a window. No matter how bad things are, the world has reserved a place for them. Believe that raindrops will not only fall on your own roof, believe in yourself, there is always a corner in the world that belongs to you; Having a positive and optimistic attitude is the first step to solve and overcome any difficulties.
Don't be afraid, the sky won't fall.
You can overcome almost any fear as long as you make up your mind to overcome it. When you are afraid, focus on what you have to do. If you are well prepared, you won't be afraid. Do what you are afraid of, and the fear will disappear naturally. Life is like hitting a nail. Touch a nail once and you will gain knowledge and experience. The sky is falling, and there are big people holding on. Experience it once! A person's life is actually an experience.
Don't regret it, anyone can do something wrong.
There is no one in the world who doesn't make mistakes. Do something wrong without regret. Regret is an emotion that enervates the spirit, causing a greater loss than loss and making a bigger mistake than mistake. Do it bravely, don't be afraid of making mistakes, it's no big deal; Frankly speaking, there are many people who want you to be defeated by your own mistakes. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
Don't be sad, life is beautiful.
In the short life, everyone will encounter the trouble of where you will go. You can cry when you are sad and wronged. After crying, wash your face, pat your face and give yourself a smile. Don't rub your eyes, or they will swell up the next morning. Live a good life, your life is up to you!
Don't be disappointed, there will be another chance.
Man can do it because he believes. A person's greatest bankruptcy is despair, and his greatest asset is hope. Life is often unfair, don't complain, try to adapt to it. Those who create opportunities are brave, and those who wait for opportunities are fools; If a pie falls from the sky, it will also fall into the mouth of a man with his head held high. Life is full of trial and error. One failure doesn't mean you are out.
Don't give up, there is hope if you persist.
The most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily. You have nothing, except * * * for life and hope for the future. There is only one way to choose in life, and that is the way to give up; There is only one way to refuse, and that is the road to growth. A great man is great because when he is in adversity with others, others lose confidence, but he is determined to achieve his goal. Hope always appears in despair!
Don't force it, just let nature take its course.
A person's life is like taking a shit. Sometimes you have worked hard and all you get is a fart. There are many things in life, and no matter how hard you try, you may not be able to do it, because a person's ability is definitely limited and restricted by various conditions. As long as you work hard and win, the result is not important; Some things are really impossible, forget it, don't embarrass yourself.
Don't be angry, learn to be generous and collect more.
There will always be people who will hurt you in life, so don't be angry. Anger is punishing yourself with other people's mistakes; Hold your horses and take a step back. Good temper is the best clothes a person can wear in social activities, and tolerance is a bridge of mutual understanding and trust between people. Optimism comes from tolerance, from generosity, from understanding, from being at peace with the world.
XXX
X.X
The second part of a letter to myself
XX:
In an instant, freshman life is over. How much have you gained this year? How much have you learned? How much has it changed? Last August, you came to the dream palace of going to college with infinite expectations. Now that a year has passed, have you found a clear direction?
Last August, you were full of ambition and wanted to shine here. Now that a year has passed, have you found your own stage?
Last August, you wanted to study a major that suits you one year later. Now that a year has passed, have you got your wish?
This year has really passed quickly. Have you grown, changed or lost your mind during this year?
In the face of this series of choppy problems, are you still driving?
I don't think you will be afraid, because you have been very serious this year.
When I first came to college, I learned that you can only choose your favorite major with the comprehensive scores of freshmen, which brings you great study pressure, but also creates more opportunities for you to make up for the lack of college entrance examination. You study hard this year. Although I sometimes don't understand it in class, I am comfortable with the exam after careful review, and finally I am among the best, and I have handed in a satisfactory study report for my freshman life.
Universities are institutions of higher learning different from middle schools. You know that studying in college is useless, so you also actively participate in student organizations, do student work and do various volunteer activities. In these jobs, you are constantly exercising yourself, exercising your abilities in all aspects, and striving to be an all-round college student.
University is a four-year period when youth blooms. There is no one who doesn't want to find his long-cherished partner in college and feel the sweetness of love. You also wanted to find her, but you didn't take this step. You think college time is short. Don't love because of emptiness, and don't love because of envy. Although I am alone, I have more time to do more things, and my life is ordinary and rich, busy and full.
In the face of major choices, you are already in a state of confusion. You don't know what suits you and what is more competitive, but you know very well that interest is always the most important thing, and interest is the driving force for your study. You finally chose XXXX. You have to believe that you will like her, that this will be a wise move, and that you can fight for her to the end.
You submitted your application for joining the Party in high school, and finally began to systematically study the basic knowledge and history of the Party here, and deeply understood the true meaning of the sentence "Without * * *, there would be no new China". As a party activist, you are constantly moving closer to the Party organization, striving to join China as soon as possible.
After listening to my story, you may feel that your life is quite "cheerful" this year. This year's college life is full of colors, but you should know that this life is far from enough, and college life can be better.
Full of confidence, you want to find your own stage on campus, just like a glittering sun, hoping to shine here. But when you come here, you will find that Shanghai University is full of talents, and you seem to stand out from the crowd here. Everyone around you has skills and inestimable ability and strength, and you have changed from a sun that you think can shine to a dim little star, unknown in the vast sea of people. I think it is not only a big school, but also the future world. Maybe you have the strength, but there are people outside, there are mountains outside, and all kinds of great gods emerge one after another. If you want to gain a foothold in a certain place and become indispensable, what you need is your unremitting efforts and unremitting struggle.
Fortunately, you didn't give up, and the initial longing didn't disappear. You start as a astrologer to be the moon, a moon that absorbs other people's light to illuminate the outside world, and a moon that keeps learning and releasing. Life is a process of continuous learning and progress. People here are so talented, but it doesn't mean you are useless. Learn from others, improve yourself, get rid of your strengths and spare your shortcomings. I believe that through continuous learning, you will make continuous progress and become radiant.
Finally, tell me how I feel about you:
College life is beautiful and short. Four years is only 150 weeks. Please don't leave too many regrets in college life. Learn to cherish every day and take it seriously. The study here is not utilitarian, the friendship here is pure and firm, the life here is colorful and the beauty here is only four years.
So, dear, please calm down and think about how to spend the next three years and how to spend the next time. Dreams don't stop at thoughts, please spread your wings in time and soar in this vast garden.
XXX
X.X
The third part of a letter to myself
Smart Ling Xinyi:
Hello!
I am the same person as you. Every day we go to school together and live together. You are me, and I am you. Today, I write to you to let you know your shortcomings and correct them as soon as possible.
You study hard and get excellent grades. But as a class cadre, why not set an example and serve the class more! This week is the fourth time to select outstanding class cadres. Look! Cadres in other classes were nominated by teachers or recommended by classmates, and were rated as outstanding young cadres. They happily took back a beautiful paper-cut work from their teachers. But what about you? Every time in the selection, there is no your name; Even if nominated, it was rejected by students. I am so sad that I cry silently on my desk every time. But then what did you do? Alas! I am ashamed of you!
You didn't set an example. As a vice monitor, you should have done your job wholeheartedly and set an example for your classmates. But you! As soon as you finish your homework at home every day, stay in front of the TV. Watching TV becomes your second homework. You stay up late every day, and if you can't get up in the morning, you rush to school, and sometimes you even step on * * * to enter the school gate. You are responsible for taking your exercise books home, but it's so late, how can you count the books? The teacher was so angry that she almost fired you. In class, your mind gradually wakes up and people become excited, so when the teacher is not paying attention, go to the back and chat with your classmates; A few times I was too focused, and the teacher patted you on the shoulder before I came to my senses. In the eyes of teachers and classmates, you are a disgrace. Where is it like a monitor? I blush for you!
You are always forgetful. Remember the calligraphy class this Thursday. That time, you forgot to bring a writing brush, and you were anxious because you didn't bring it a few times. You borrow pens everywhere. You asked everyone in the class, but you didn't borrow it in the end, so the teacher said, "Ling Xinyi, is your brush still in the process of making?" The students laughed, and we both blushed to the neck. That day, the brigade happened to come to our class for inspection. The camera in the teacher's hand keeps flashing, and you dare not look up. I also hope there is a crack in the ground. You have done something that shames us and the whole class!
The teacher always says that you are a talented girl in our class, beautiful and smart. Yes, you do make me proud sometimes! In math class, you spoke enthusiastically. Math class is a boy's field, and you have just become a little star in math class. Open your exercise book, how neat the lines are and how bright the red tick marks are. You always make friends with high marks and make your parents proud of you. But I always feel that you are missing something. I believe you already know! I also hope that you can get a beautiful paper-cut work in the next outstanding class cadre selection!
wish you
Good health and progress in study.
XXX
X.X
Letter to oneself 4
Zhu Yu:
Hello, you are still painting and calligraphy, and you are telling your rough life with pen and ink.
God has blocked all your roads, leaving only a rugged mountain road and a bumpy muddy path. However, as a child, you are not discouraged. Even harder than others, in the face of setbacks, you never let yourself fall, but face the difficulties, refuel on the mountain of knives and go on to your dreams. You always think you can win! You can continue to develop, but now you are down again.
Why did you stop again? Looking back is your greatest weakness! I understand your loneliness, xx years, give up? No, the top of the mountain is not the place you admire most. Isn't it the sacred and beautiful place you yearn for? Lonely? At the top of the mountain, there are a group of people who have worked as hard and succeeded as you, cheering for you! Stand up and move on! What are you depressed about? !
You lost two precious compasses, and you walked alone on the mountain road. As a child, you insist. You have climbed a difficult mountain, and no one can stop your difficult steps. But now, it has been pushed down by itself. Why? Life can't be repeated. As the saying goes, man struggles upwards and water flows downwards. Come on! The top of the mountain is not far from you, and that sacred and beautiful place is not far from you!
You see others walking briskly on the mountain road, but you are so tired and bitter? You are wrong, there is no wind and rain. How can you see the rainbow? You asked me, "I have suffered so much, suffered so much, and the rainbow still hasn't appeared." Why? " ? Why am I still like this? "I was silent, but I tell you, you will see it soon!
Hey, get up, the top of the mountain is not far from you. You stand up at once and walk hard on the mountain road.
Yes, come on!
hope
Early success
XXX
X.X