Many people write the word "honesty" in calligraphy and hang it in the office. Like the slogan of the enterprise, this is not only to ask others, but also to ask yourself.
Honesty is a correct attitude people choose in interpersonal communication.
Although everyone recognizes honesty in consciousness and mouth, it is not easy to be honest, and not many people can always be honest. This should be the sentence again: the more you lack something, the more you shout.
When we talk about honesty, we generally hope that others will be honest with us. On the other hand, when we ask ourselves, it is easy to let go. After all, there are not many people who are strict and self-disciplined, and most people are always tolerant of themselves.
Honesty is not only a moral flaunt or moral requirement, but also an inevitable requirement of human division of labor and cooperation system.
Honesty is initially the responsibility of the related parties in the relationship, and it is the value of altruism and self-interest.
For example, the two sides have reached an agreement that if one party is dishonest, the other party will suffer time loss, interest loss and psychological loss, and at the same time, the dishonest party's reputation will be damaged.
Therefore, honesty is altruistic and self-serving, while dishonesty is detrimental to others and yourself. Honesty is the touchstone of a person's true values.
Honesty is the most efficient way of cooperation in interpersonal communication.
after the two sides reach an understanding, any behavior that damages the integrity will lead to the waste of cost and time, as well as a series of expected joint consequences, which will cause subversive damage to efficiency.
if both parties maintain integrity, everything will be smooth, and the above-mentioned damage will not exist. Efficiency without retrogression is the best efficiency.
Honesty is a high requirement for personal ability.
Honesty is more than just agreeing with values. For simple promises or agreements, people are easy to be honest, but whether they can be honest in difficult situations, situations where the parties are not sure and the strength is not enough to realize their promises becomes a question of ability.
I made a promise, but I didn't finish it; Sincere, but unable to achieve. This is the ability trap of losing honesty.
Honesty is not only an idea, but also a result.
Honesty is the connection ability in the division of labor system and the basic ability to maintain the relationship.
Therefore, honesty is bound to expand from the relationship between people to the relationship between people and organizations, and become the basic requirement of social ethics. Furthermore, honesty has become a universal moral requirement of society.
However, the moral requirement of honesty is only the superficial result of the social system.
Honesty is the core value of interpersonal relationship. For individuals, honesty is the compass of interpersonal relationships, although it is difficult to do so.