Where should the focus of educating children be?

I hope my son will become a dragon, and my daughter will become a phoenix. No matter how cruel-hearted people are, they also hope that their children will grow up to be successful, be decent people, do the beautiful job of making money lightly and making more money, be intelligent and brave, be handsome and articulate, in short, be good and good, and shine on you is better than blue. Are there people who don't want to train their children to become useful?

among the young parents in their thirties, many have put the cultivation of their children on the consciousness agenda. Let children contact the society and the new environment early, and their intentions can be seen. Especially on Sunday, parents who work hard for their youth are impressed, admired and envied. There are many people who send their children to children's art schools. Some are sent to the city group art museum to learn piano or violin, some are sent to the children's palace to learn calligraphy, art, singing and dancing, and some are sent to the junior sports school to learn sports as athletes. In short, many parents are eager to make a difference for their children when they grow up. This makes me very moved and frightened. The father asks himself what I have done for my daughter. Am I willing to delay my child's future? I won't make great achievements, will I also make my children worthless?

how can we make our children have a bright future? This requires training, willing to work hard for her, willing to pay more intentional time for her, cultivating her enthusiasm for dancing if she likes music, becoming a calligrapher if she likes writing, and becoming a painter if she likes painting. The child is a young sapling, and what kind of art will be formed by casting. Children's education focuses on early enlightenment, and what kind of buildings are built on what kind of foundation. Reinforced concrete must be the towering Magic Sky Building, and the dilapidated bricks and tiles can only be the crumbling and dangerous houses where the poor people live. Parents are still the head of the family. It's the sun and rain. If the sun and rain don't spill on the children, who else will it spill on? !

if children like painting and writing, they should cultivate them. Isn't it good to train a painter or calligrapher? She should be sent to learn painting and calligraphy, no matter how she learns, just don't leave regrets for her children. I can't be indifferent to others' efforts for early childhood education. Parents have great responsibility for what materials their children will become in the future! That's all my life. Don't let the children be as worthless as I am.