When Daiyu encounters sad things, she always likes to anesthetize herself with tears, suspect others with suspicious eyes, and likes to stare at her own "wounds" instead of seeking solutions. One time

When Daiyu encounters sad things, she always likes to anesthetize herself with tears, suspect others with suspicious eyes, and likes to stare at her own "wounds" instead of seeking solutions. One time, she went to find Baoyu, because the girl was quarreling and did not open the door for her, so she wondered whether Baoyu didn't take her seriously. From then on, she often cried alone and lamented herself. I think Daiyu's character is not very good. When faced with unpleasant things, she should first understand them clearly before drawing conclusions, instead of being too demanding on others based on her own one-sided guesses. I think only in this way will the unpleasantness disappear. Life is short, and it is inevitable that there will be many accidents in the journey of life, such as: the rise and fall of the four major families, Daiyu's death, Baoyu's becoming a monk, etc., these are all unexpected by us, and this sudden change Should we accept the changes that are coming, or should we be optimistic and positive? Lin Daiyu is the kind of person who accepts the changes, complains about herself, and is sentimental, but what will be her fate? Baoyu lost everything because of Daiyu's death. Life is pessimistic and disappointing, so the solution is to become a monk. Perhaps, at that time, this was the only optimistic solution. We have no way of verifying it, but from a certain perspective, Baoyu was against the feudal marriage at that time. Life is like a small boat, and the vast sea is as wide and boundless as the world. In this sea, how should the small boat I drive survive the wind and waves on the sea? I think that only by actively welcoming the erosion of the wind and waves and taking every step in a down-to-earth manner can I turn my small boat into a big ship and withstand it. create a bigger storm. There is a famous saying: "Life is a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile at you; if you cry at it, it will cry at you." If we are open-minded and optimistic, we will be able to see the light in life. On the other hand, even in the dark night, we know that the stars are still shining. This is the philosophy of life that "Dream of Red Mansions" eloquently told me. At first, I felt incomprehensible to Sister Lin's crying and sobbing. She is more or less a lady, so why should she shed tears over a trivial matter? demeanor and temperament. Seeing her always makes people feel depressed and dull. Is this what she calls "depressive beauty"? Slowly, I was surprised by her outstanding talent. She is full of talents, and her poetry and writing are unparalleled; her life experience and her tenacious temperament are also more innocent and pure... Her life experience is also sympathetic, although she was born in a government family. , but she has been weak and sick since she was a child, unable to go out. She was soaked in medicine at such a young age, and her already weak and sick body has become even weaker. Perhaps she is the "only child", and her parents love this "pearl in their eyes" very much. The rules and etiquette of the family are a little worse than those of the ladies, but this shows her unique character, her lack of scruples and her caution in everything. Daiyu's literature, poetry, composition and intelligence were unmatched by anyone. However, facing Baoyu's cynicism and lack of progress, instead of blaming her, she protected him. In fact, she did not like a family bound by ethics, and greatly appreciated Baoyu's cynicism. This should be a further development of the love between Baoyu and Daiyu, and Baoyu and Daiyu finally found each other's soulmate. While everyone advised Baoyu to study hard and gain fame, Daiyu showed her disdain for fame. Behind her weak appearance, there is contempt and contempt for the old feudal imperial examinations. I admire her most for this! Although Daiyu admired Baoyu regardless of fame, she patiently taught Xiangling how to recite poems and knowledge. She is not against knowledge and literature, she just hates fame. She is careful, patient, and wholeheartedly teaching Xiangling to recite poetry, in order to save the sisters from their fate. Who can compare with her? No one! Let’s talk about her purity and lack of scheming. Sister Lin read "The Romance of the West Chamber", which was considered a banned book at the time, especially for ladies, who could not read it. Sister Lin didn't think so much at all. She read "The Romance of the West" with admiration for Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying's persistent love, and to appreciate the beauty in it. Sister Bao criticized "How can Sister Lin read such a book? I told the old lady to go.""Baochai left the image of a good sister in Daiyu's heart. But is Sister Baochai really good? She has a reputation of being dignified and virtuous, but when she was eavesdropping on others and was discovered by others, she said, "Sister Lin just came over." "To frame Sister Lin. This is so pitiful for Sister Lin. She can't find a confidant. No one can listen to her. She can only talk to Baoyu, so she often plays tricks in front of him. Sister Lin is so worth it. She sympathizes with her and comes to Jia's house alone. She is alone here and depends on others. She has to be careful about everything and observe others. She is afraid that others will laugh at her and say that she does not understand the rules. She is very sensitive to everything around her and her weak nerves are always there. Defending herself stems from her own strong and rebellious character. Her mouth is like a knife. Others say she has a "powerful mouth". "She had no choice but to do this. She is insignificant. She neither controls the financial power of Jia's family nor cares about daily chores. Therefore, the maids and servants don't value her very much, and no one protects her. So what if she faces Luo Hua? If she is not in a sad situation, how can she not shed tears when she misses her mother? Others do not feel this way and cannot understand her at all. They only say that she is crying, that her body is sick, that she is petty... Use tears to repay the thoughts of her previous life. After twenty years of shedding, so many tears must be shed, and so many debts must be paid off. Her fate is rough, and Cao Xueqin's "bitter tears" are very similar to her tears all day long. . Sister Lin left the world before she could enjoy the prosperity of the world. Maybe it was time to go, the debt was repaid, and the tears were gone... Pure, innocent, no. She is well versed in the complexity of the world, and is stubbornly resisting the web of feudalism. She is passionately and boldly pursuing her own happiness. Daiyu is made of water, pure water, but the cliff that can hit the rock is not a lake of stagnant water, but a lake of stagnant water. The flowing water in front of me. I just sigh that the big net of the old society has given Sister Lin too much depression and dullness. I just sigh that God is playing tricks on people. Lovers can't be together, and beautiful Daiyu can't get her own happiness. But she pursued it and tried her best. Dying before the big house in Jia Mansion collapsed might be God's compensation for her paper-thin life. She didn't have to watch the scene of the house falling, and she didn't have to experience that kind of pain. , she could no longer endure the pain! The greatest gift God gave her was to retain her beauty. Although it brought some desolation, Wang Xifeng was swept away by a broken mat and Baochai could only be left alone. Keep an empty room... Sister Lin is not a useless person who can only cry. On the contrary, her spirit of boldly pursuing her own happiness and resisting the constraints of feudal ethics is worthy of our recognition. She is indeed a pure and flawless "spiritual spirit". "Baoyu". Having said so much, we must not fail to mention Baochai. Although Baochai is not the protagonist, she still plays a decisive role. It can be seen from the [Introduction to Dream of Red Mansions], "Therefore, this 'Dream of Red Mansions' is staged with gold in mind and jade in mourning." "The theory of gold and jade seems to be the main line, but it is destined to be a good marriage between gold and jade. I only think about the alliance between wood and stone." "Fate. In the end," the sky is facing the crystal clear snow in the mountains. Never forget the lonely forest of the fairyland outside the world. "Those who see through it escape into Buddhism" and throw away both. Baochai is more than just a victim of feudal ethics! The theory of repaying tears leads to the debt of romance. If you want to avoid this debt, you must separate Baochai and Dai. Chai became the victim of this debt. In the eyes of the gods, she was just a tool. The gods used Baochai's happiness to avoid this disaster and left her when she became pregnant. It's like being abandoned. Not only abandoned by Baoyu, but also abandoned by the so-called god, a discarded product that has been used up. She was born for this debt, and after experiencing the vicissitudes of life, she could not have a happy ending. How humble people are! What’s more, in this feudal society, we end up with insignificant women! "Who can be beautiful with her beautiful face and moonlight?" "I always feel that Baochai is a strong person. She never faces difficulties or conflicts with others in front of others. Her talents are definitely not inferior to those of Mei. I admire her the most. She never makes mistakes when speaking. Never say too many things that you shouldn't say. Even if you say stubborn words, be extremely careful and even impeccable.

Her intelligence is also rare. Unlike Sister Feng, she talks about everything. She seems to have no inhibitions when speaking. It is not an exaggeration to describe her as shrewd and ruthless, but her intelligence is not much different from Sister Feng. Baochai handles worldly affairs very smoothly and is loved by almost everyone, but it is inevitable that she will feel a bit hypocritical. She is like this to everyone, and does not easily reveal her feelings to others. She just seems to hide herself. In my opinion, no one voluntarily buries themselves. She may do it to establish status or win people's hearts. of. In front of her mother, she is considerate, in front of outsiders, she is sensible, and Aunt Xue's face shines. Maybe she was likable, but at the same time she buried the real Xue Baochai. In the whole book, she may be the most perfect on the surface, but I always feel that she betrayed her heart and soul, so what else is there to say about perfection? Maybe it is because of her family background that she has to be like this, and there is Xue in her family. Although Pan is a wine and rice bag, he is not his biological brother after all. She may want to endure it for a while, and when the time is right, she can find herself, but where can she find herself? Although she is a strong person, I personally think that burying herself is not an easy task. This is not something a weak person should do. came, but in the end she was not the real winner. Looking back at the climax of "Remembering the Prosperity of Fengyue", in the end, the scene of "the trees fell and the hozens scattered"... Although the family was restored in the end, how could the Rongguo Mansion, which "remains the same but beyond recognition", continue this extremely gorgeous event? It's ridiculous, just because the group of women who dominate the soul have long since disappeared. You - the woman who made this tragedy happen! This is exactly why I am so heartbroken! Indeed, this stunning work that has been repeated a thousand times in vain is a woman of joy and sorrow; a woman of softness and a woman of strength; A woman succeeds and a woman fails... It is better for a wealthy family to have a world supported by women! Mrs. Shi, Mrs. Xing Wang, Sister Feng, Mrs. You, all the sisters, all the girls, all the wives... Inside the Rongning Mansion There are probably no less than four or five hundred women with names. Those who are prominent, those who are in charge, those who work around, those who just follow orders... there are all kinds of things. It is true to say that this mansion was probably built by women. It's really wonderful that Cao Xueqin can make the women on the paper so flesh and blood, with sharp edges and corners! Let's talk about Lin Daiyu who sheds tears at the sight of flowers and feels love at the moon. People say that she is just like "a pool of living water flowing through the Qinfang Gate", "flowing" into the Jia Mansion with agility. Yes, it is she who perfectly explains what it means to be a "woman made of water". The beautiful woman is charming and delicate, timid, and has a clean eyes... She is really both loved and hated. I hate her sentimental life experience, I hate her resentment... I love her unparalleled talents, I love her for her gentle and passionate rebellion, resistance, interpretation and burning like a holy and hot epiphyllum in the dark world. Could it be that she is also the old spring that "writes Cui'e in a hundred-foot clear pool". With her unswerving determination, "it is not like a brocade bag to collect the beautiful bones, a handful of pure earth to cover the wind", "crushing ice into earth and jade into a basin, half a volume" The Xiang curtain is ajar and the door is ajar, "The immortal in the Moon Cave sews his manuscript sleeves, and the resentful girl in autumn wipes away the traces of her cry." There are even more quatrains like "The cold moon buries the soul of poetry"! What poetry soul is more likely to be forgotten than a frown? Xue Baochai is praised for her upright character, elegant manners, quick thinking, and beauty. She said "Cherish your beauty and close the door during the day" and "If you want to taste the white emperor, you must be clean"... She is full of ladylike demeanor. We are born with the reserved and sensible nature of a lady. There are also people who commented on her like this: "Mr. Hengwu is actually a fish swimming in the bottom of the cauldron, but he treats boiling water as spray and welcomes it everywhere, hoping to gain wealth." She loves Baoyu but has no courage to disobey the environment. Even if she is married, she still treats her as a fish. Love is deeply lost in regret and repays a lifetime of loneliness. There is also Wang Xifeng who has no time to be lonely and no time to regret. "The agency was too clever in calculating, but it cost Qingqing's life..." A good song "Smart and Tired" tells the story of Sister Feng's resolute life. Smart, beautiful, capable, vicious... but there are many, many more, "Xi Ren", "Qingwen", "Miaoyu", "Yuanyang", "Xiangyun", "Yingchun", "Tanchun", "Xichun", "Ping'er"... ...all these beautiful names, each and every woman in the picture album (Si Ming Album), how to describe them living in the same cage, the same "fate or fate", the same at the mercy of others, Times have robbed their freedom.

Dare I ask if the Rongguo Mansion and Grand View Garden, which condensed all the events, are bigger than the coffin? The infinite scenery is just a lock for women of an era, and countless oppressed souls... The women of Grand View Garden, the women of Rong Guo Mansion, that era woman. What kind of righteousness can they achieve? Lin Daiyu's death for love, Xue Baochai's lonely life, Wang Xifeng's hateful words, Jia Xichun's Green Lantern and Yellow Scroll... The most perfect and complete tragedy I have ever experienced! It's just a woman's tragedy. Or is it the tragedy of the entire era, the entire history, and the entire human race! Whose thoughts are reflected, and after reading it, I am speechless and have no ideas. I feel like crying but I feel empty, as if someone has taken out my soul. Who is Cao Xueqin, who can write this eternal masterpiece "Repaying Tears" and lead to such a scandal. I don’t know how many idiots hate men and women. Their dreams are broken by the red building and their tears are shed in the underworld. When the song ends and everyone disperses, who of the people sung in the song can escape? I really don’t know what to say about this fateful arrangement. "Dream of Red Mansions" is really a dream and a nightmare. After reading "A Dream of Red Mansions", I felt a trace of sadness in my heart, and suddenly I realized that what Mrs. Qin said to Sister Feng was really reasonable: "When the moon is full, it will lose money, and when the water is full, it will overflow." Nothing in the world can be "protected forever." Just like this dynasty, it always goes from the early stage to the heyday and then to the decline. From the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Qin Shihuang unified the six kingdoms, Han, Three Kingdoms, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties, Sui... no one was spared. The same is true for the little things around us. There are always favorable and dark periods in life, so the feeling given by life is full of flavor... Some people often feel that life is miserable, but without this suffering, how can they feel the happiness when success comes? If a dandy only knows how to have fun and spend his whole life, he will regret it before he dies, "Life is so short, I will spend the rest of my life doing nothing." It is not a good thing that the family is in decline. At least before he dies, he can say, "Because I have lived such a miserable life." , So my life has not been in vain. "Now I realize that the biggest feeling after reading "Dream of Red Mansions" is not emptiness or confusion, but unprecedented peace and peace of mind. Only then can I deeply understand the feeling of "the heart is like still water". "Dream of Red Mansions" has a sad and desolate atmosphere, which often makes people want to cry, and the number of poems in it makes people have to be impressed. No wonder so many people are studying it. "Dream of Red Mansions". The story tells the rise and fall of a family, the story of a family. The protagonist is Jia Baoyu. He should be said to be a gentle man with a hint of strength. Part of his softness is due to his environment. Almost all the people in their family are women, and all the people in charge of the family are women. Naturally, There is a saying that goes, "Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black." Their family became prosperous because a daughter in the family entered the palace and became the emperor's favorite concubine, so they recited poems and had fun every day, and there were two women among them who had to be mentioned, namely Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu. Lin Daiyu was jealous and sentimental by nature, but Jia Baoyu just liked her. She was weak and her ancestors looked down upon her, so they deceived Jia Baoyu into getting married to Xue Baochai. Lin Daiyu was furious when she heard the news, but when Jia Baoyu opened the wedding dress, she found that it was not Lin Daiyu. , and Lin Daiyu died again. She was so sad that she became a monk. The right and wrong here are "constantly cut, and still chaotic", which allows people to see the flaws in ancient marriages. They are often all dealt with by the parents. What is "marrying with the fingertips"? What is even more ridiculous is that sometimes they never They got married in a confused way after meeting each other. Moreover, in ancient times, women were vying to enter the palace because it would make their families rich and powerful. However, the emperor had thousands of concubines. They were favored for a while, but soon they were forgotten, so why did they bother to enter the palace? The emperor's grandsons drank and had fun, and had no worries about food and clothing, while the common people had nothing to eat. The suffering of life was unimaginable. It is no wonder that there have been uprisings and "rebellions" again and again. The cause of the disaster is still On the emperor. This tragedy makes people feel chilling and angry. People can't help but hate the exorbitant taxes and levies in ancient times. They push the people step by step towards the edge of the fire pit. It is really disgusting and disgusting. The book "Dream of Red Mansions" made me sometimes happy and sometimes sad, sometimes angry and sometimes full of emotions. It also made me think a lot, maybe, everything cannot be perfect, and the same is true for people.

Thoughts after reading Dream of Red Mansions: Looking at Red Mansions, a tragedy with laughter. I always think that the greatness of Dream of Red Mansions is that it embodies a trend of decline. Whether it is family, love, or career, they are all heading for decline. , there are not many Chinese classical novels that like happy endings. I have to thank the successor Gao E. Although he could not keep up with Cao Xueqin's thoughts in many aspects, he at least let Daiyu die. Regardless of whether she became an immortal or died, at least she said goodbye to Baoyu, which is very good. It’s not that I’m naturally cruel and like to watch other people’s tragedies, but isn’t there a saying? It's a blessing in disguise, isn't it a blessing? For a fragile feudal girl like Daiyu, death is her liberation, the end of all her tragedies, and her happiness. When she was sleeping quietly underground, looking at Baoyu still looking for a way out in the mortal world, she had to say that she was still happy. Maybe two people are romantic people, and romantic people should not meet each other by nature, because life is not romantic, and life will consume all romance. In the end, the red roses become mosquito blood on the wall, and the white roses become White rice stuck to chest. So, let the romance come to an end at the most beautiful time, leaving happy memories in each other's hearts. "A Dream of Red Mansions" takes the upper-class aristocratic society as the center of the picture, and very realistically and vividly describes all the life in China's late feudal society in the first half of the 18th century. The whole book is grand in scale, rigorous in structure, vivid in characters, and beautiful in language. In addition, there are some The obvious artistic characteristics are worthy of taste and appreciation by future generations. The author of the novel makes full use of all the excellent traditional techniques of our country's calligraphy, painting, poetry, poetry, music and other types of literature and art to show a tragedy of social life. For example, Jia Baoyu , Lin Daiyu *** reads the West Chamber, Daiyu buries flowers, Baochai flutters butterflies, Qingwen mends fur, Baoqin stands in the snow, Daiyu burns manuscripts, etc., they are also reflected in the character creation, such as Lin Daiyu's floating figure, poems Beautiful eyebrows, intelligent expressions, meaningful smiles, touching sobs, refined taste, and unrestrained literary talent... all of these were cultivated by the author with the rich artistic quality of my country's excellent traditional culture, which made her stand out in the ten years. There is always a special charm full of poetry and painting in the fragrance of Erchai, and the fragrance of oriental culture is floating around. Cao Xueqin truly reproduces the complexity of the characters in "A Dream of Red Mansions", making us read as if the characters in the work are the same as the characters in life. Jia Baoyu in "A Dream of Red Mansions" "cannot be called virtuous, cannot be called foolish, cannot be called good, cannot be called evil, cannot be said to be upright, cannot be called bastard and scoundrel, cannot be called smart and talented, cannot be called vulgar and ordinary", which makes people comment. .Not only Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, the protagonists who entrusted the author's personality, spirit and ideal beauty, are like this. Even a notorious figure like Wang Xifeng did not write her as "all bad", but as "hateful". There is some "cuteness" intertwined in it, thus showing various contradictory and complex actual situations, forming a "charming reality" of the character. The author is good at revealing the hidden meanings contained in it through artistic descriptions of daily life that seem very ordinary. Unusual aesthetic significance, and even some unwritten and unrecorded social habits and details, are all vividly described in Dream of Red Mansions. The outstanding achievements of "Dream of Red Mansions" in terms of ideological content and artistic skills have not only become a famous novel in China. "The unconquerable pinnacle of Chinese novel literature". It has also been valued and studied by scholars from many countries internationally. A French critic praised: "Cao Xueqin has Proust's keen vision and Tolstoy's sympathy. Musset's intelligence and humor are matched by Balzac's insight and ability to represent all levels of society from top to bottom.