The "greasy uncle" has not gone far, and the "Buddhist youth" has brushed the screen again. Don't get me wrong, this has nothing to do with religion. Just use this symbol to talk about a way to do whatever you want, not too distracted and look down on everything.
Regarding the car, the driver can come to the door or take two steps by himself; "Double 1 1", grab or not grab; If you are hungry, you can eat whatever you want, just make do; Work, saying that I am good, or saying that I am not good ... The all-encompassing "Buddhism" became popular overnight, which actually hit a pain point in modern society: fatigue. Fast pace of life, high career pursuit and great mental stress have become the norm. I felt refreshed when I read this article.
Even if I turn my head, I will change the copy again. I can't live like this, but I want to give it a compliment and forward it. In the circle of friends, the forwarding of a media buddy touched me: I really want to do this outside of work! -please note that he also yearns for it, but adds a premise.
This reminds me of Jobs. There may be more than a dozen pairs of jeans and T-shirts of the same style.
Change it when it's dirty, and ignore it. However, at work, if you are dissatisfied with a detail, you can toss yourself and your subordinates to death.
The same is true of Zhang Sanfeng in Jin Yong's works. Dressed in a green robe, he is called a sloppy Taoist, but he is unambiguous. If the clouds are light and the wind is light, you will be careless, okay? Great, but we must keep one thing: there must be a place to wander.
If you don't stick to it everywhere and follow the crowd, you can only drown in the crowd and lose yourself. The essence of "Buddhist life" after persistence is separation, minimalism and concentration.
It's about doing experiments, putting a pocket watch in a pot, apologizing for hitting a tree, ignoring details in an informal way, asking for more, and concentrating limited energy on one point so as to ask for a needle to penetrate the sky. In nature, there are also "Buddha animals".
For example, the eagle and the tiger, the eagle standing like asleep, the tiger walking like sick. They can watch at will, but once they lock the target, click on it and get struck by lightning, they don't sleep or get sick, and often die at once. In essence, it is also grasping the big and letting go of the small.
If you really don't care about anything, you can't pass the scissors of natural selection. I don't know. Turning a cake around my neck can only starve to death.
In addition to persistence and random dialectics, there is also a layer of appropriate limit truth. The ancients were also leisurely and carefree, but they paid attention to "stealing leisure", were not leisurely and lived too fast; Too leisurely, life is wasted, depending on the degree.
Being busy all day is not a good life, just relaxing and playing drums can't be achieved. Some people joke that "Buddhism" is ok and they are willing to be an "anti-Buddhism" young man.
On the way to the Western Heaven, that Wukong can play, dare to take responsibility, go forward and do great things. This is true for people with will.
2. Good Views of Buddhist Youth Recently, the "Buddhist style" has been blowing strongly on the Internet, and the concept of "Buddhism" is surging from Buddhist youth, Buddhist idol, Buddhist tourists, Buddhist students, Buddhist shopping and Buddhist love. Buddhism is not new, and it is rarely associated with fashion. However, in the Internet age, it has proliferated.
In short, Buddhism is: nothing is impossible, let nature take its course, no matter what it is, don't argue, don't grab, don't seek to win or lose.
Does the "Buddhist" lifestyle sound a bit detached? However, we must understand that the birth of Buddhism is a complete awakening after experiencing secular life, getting rid of the pain and troubles of life, eliminating greed and persistence, purifying the soul and getting rid of the awakened wisdom. Spiritual purification focuses on the purification of greed, emphasizing discipline and determination. Wisdom liberation is more important than consciousness and understanding, emphasizing observation and wisdom. Get rid of greed and persistence and realize spiritual liberation. In other words, before birth, it must be a life choice after experiencing a profound taste of joining the WTO.
Wilde said: "When you have youth, you should feel it. Don't waste your golden age, don't listen to boring things, don't try to retain hopeless failure, and don't dedicate your life to ignorance, mediocrity and low speed. These are the morbid goals and false ideals of our times. Live, live your precious inner life. Don't miss anything. " .
And we young people, at the beginning of a better life, have been clamoring to enter the "pit" of Buddhism. You know, how can you know the world and choose your life without some hard work and struggle? The premise of life is to join the WTO, otherwise, it is naive to live for ignorance and follow the crowd.
From the root, the Buddhism of our youth may be due to a kind of helplessness to real life and an escape from reality. We allow occasional small losses, but.
3. What does it mean to be a Buddhist youth? How to treat 800-word Buddhist youth? This is a misinterpretation of Buddhism and a misunderstanding of the external performance of those who study Buddhism.
Buddhist youth, a popular word on the Internet, refers to the young people who advocate all lifestyles and lifestyles that go with the flow, are not demanding, advocate muddling along and don't care much. This word originated from a magazine in Japan on October 20 14, which introduced "Buddhist men", calling men who like to be alone, pay attention to their hobbies and pace of life, and don't want to waste time in love "Buddhist men". 20 17 12, the term "Buddhist youth" spread all over the circle of friends and the internet. There are a series of words related to Buddhist youth, such as Buddhism, Buddhists, Buddhist idols and Buddhist life.
4. How to treat the Buddhist mentality of composition? This year's online buzzwords like to summarize people. That was not the case. They have just labeled middle-aged people "greasy" and young people "Buddhist". Some netizens said that "Buddhist youth" is a portrayal of their own lives. Some netizens also believe that it is somewhat negative to hold the "Buddhist mentality" in everything. Different understandings of the same "Buddhism", is "Buddhist youth" negative or ridiculous? (65438+February 15 China News Network)
Recently, the first batch of post-90s monks spread the word "Buddhism", and subsequently, articles related to "Buddhism" became hot searches on the Internet. The focus of public attention is "post-90 s". Faced with enthusiastic comments from the outside world, this group of young people who were labeled with various topics soon after their birth need to calm down and seriously think about the advantages and disadvantages of the "Buddhist" culture.
After searching on the Internet, the core keywords about Buddhism are probably "calm and easy" and "take it lightly". For example, "Buddhist game-you win if you win, and you won't be sad if you lose your position." In this way, just call again next time. " From this, we can clearly feel the thought of "Buddhism". Winning or losing is just a game. Just be happy. However, this is a realm that many people outside the "Buddha Department" lack. Too much emphasis on the results will often lead to "black eyes and bruises" or even "broken heads" for victory. Furthermore, extending the scope of the game to real life, isn't it that many people lack a relaxed view of trade-offs? Blindly pursuing interests, but ignoring more important process experience and family friendship, so sometimes, we might as well treat life trivia with a little more "Buddhist" concept, which may turn depression into relief and feel happier.
Of course, "Buddhism" thought also has its negative side, that is, a slightly negative style of doing things. Of course, peace is good, but if you are carefree and mediocre, it is a bit of a waste of time and youth. Some people think that not everything can be labeled as "Buddhism", and trivial things in life can be ignored, but how can we talk about it if we don't leave our hearts in love? If you don't pay attention to your work, how can you achieve anything? Indeed, when dealing with important things, the "Buddha system" seems out of place at key life nodes. At this time, it is still necessary to return to "think twice before you act" and "do your best".
The meaning of life is that it seems simple, but in fact it is complicated. The key lies in what attitude we choose to face and how to operate. Each generation has its own label, but the surrounding environment is different. We can't judge the coordinates of the three-dimensional world from a limited two-dimensional perspective, which is unreasonable and meaningless. Besides, everyone has a "Buddha" side. Only by amplifying its advantages and narrowing its disadvantages can we make a wise choice.
5. What made students' Buddhist compositions popular? "Maybe I don't need to be admitted to Harvard or Peking University, as long as I am happy." "Not everyone can't stay in the corner, because everyone can show their talents." wait for
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"Maybe I don't need to be admitted to Harvard or Peking University, as long as I am happy." "Not everyone can't stay in the corner, because everyone can show their talents." "People are chosen as' useless people' before they can show their talents." Recently, the composition "I am hiding in the corner" by a primary school student in Nanjing became popular in the circle of WeChat friends. The author You Yi Xuan showed independent thinking, peace and mentality in his writing, and was called "a clean stream" by netizens.
This essay by an online celebrity, a pupil with a "Buddhist" mentality, is regarded by famous educators as a "big angle and small angle", with sophisticated language and telling the true heart of the child. Unlike many children who are struggling academically, this child who is willing to hide in the corner with his parents' permission is even more unusual, "atypical" and has become a "clean stream", which is instructive for current education.
The reason for the popularity of this "Buddhist" composition for primary school students has attracted social attention. In addition to the unique layout and language style of the composition itself, I am afraid that the more direct thing is the "Buddhist" attitude revealed in the article, such as allowing appropriate "backwardness" and "failure to shine", which pokes the pain point of current education and touches people's sensitive nerves.
Many teachers and parents admit that there are individual differences among students, and ability and understanding have priority. They should treat children with a comprehensive, developing and objective vision, educate and guide them, and give them affirmation as long as they work hard enough, but this is not always the case in practice.
6. The label of "Buddhism" has advantages and disadvantages for the growth of young people. Everything has its two sides and relativity. First of all, what is Buddhism is a way of life that doesn't matter how it works. We won't discuss whether this way is good or not. This way largely comes from easy management, social stability and reducing people's desires. In this respect, the advantage of Buddhism lies here. Since ancient times, Buddhism has always been one of the tools of ignorance of the ruling class. Disadvantages of Buddhism: a country is full of vigor and vitality, positive and tenacious, mainly because its young people are strong when they are young, and a nation that has lost the heart of thinking ahead and forging ahead is sad. Although sick Buddhist youths have the advantages of social stability, a young man loses his desire and enterprising spirit and becomes depressed, which is not the state that appears at this age. Such a group of young people is a group of harmless sheep, which is unfavorable to a social country and even human beings, so personally, it should do more harm than good. It seems that he who sees through the world of mortals is actually just escaping.
7. What do you think of the increasing number of "Buddhists" among contemporary young people? Usually fine, it doesn't matter. When you are really in trouble and something happens at home, you will find how ridiculous these so-called Buddhists are. In a sense, many so-called Buddhists are consuming our own sense of hardship.
The status quo is that many lazy people use Buddhism to disguise themselves. Generally speaking, I can divide Buddhist people into these categories: 1, those who have not experienced the great storms of life, in short, those who have not made themselves extremely sad for material reasons; 2. The competitive pressure in the industry is small, the salary is dead, and people live in small counties, such as some skilled fly restaurants and customers who have time to settle down; 3, lazy to do it yourself, muddle along; 4, a person is full, the whole family is not hungry, there is no family pressure, or family conditions are excellent.
If you don't have some inside information at home and some material conditions to resist risks, I advise you to be more enterprising when you step into society. Some people may say that Buddhism is an attitude towards things, but you have to understand that the external manifestations of enterprising spirit are mostly produced in the form of struggle.
Buddha is psychologically nourished, and man lives on the ground. One is suspended outside the three-dimensional world, and the other needs to walk in the world step by step. People will always be visualized by a deliberate thinking, especially when you stay in a Buddhist environment for a long time. When you face another cruel hotbed, many times, you will be like a waste and then change.
I'm not denying Buddhism, but if everyone is so Buddhist, the country can develop so rapidly. I don't object to people's attitude of returning to Buddhism after struggle, but please temporarily narrow the scope of Buddhism, pick up your Buddhism while visiting friends and family, and show your "cruelty" in the competition for survival.
It was a cold afternoon, and although the wind was not strong, it was still too cold to stretch out. I sat alone by the fire in the house to keep warm, and the doors and windows were closed, which was extremely warm. Suddenly an eager knock on the door broke all this. Afraid of the cold, I didn't open the door directly, but looked through the door. A man, indeed, is a man, holding his hands constantly, and his body is still shaking. He also saw me through the door and said, "Let me in, it's too cold outside." I hesitated, but I let him in and let him sit by the fire to keep warm. In this way, I talked to him about everything. More than an hour passed in the blink of an eye. At this point, his body has warmed up and his forehead is sweating slightly. He stood up. I thought he would give me a warm place. I sat in his seat, only to find that the fire had gone out. Oh, I forgot to buy carbon today. This weather is really bad. I cursed the weather in my mind. He went to the window, opened it and stretched his arms in the breeze, but I was shaking.
From this story, I want to tell you that when we are enjoying our quiet life, we may suddenly break into a person, disturb our quiet life and bring us great harm. There will be many such things in the long river of life. We rejected the idea of not letting him in or expelling him from our lives, instead of rejecting his intrusion. We reject ourselves, but we don't reject others.
This is especially true in terms of feelings. Maybe one day, there will be another person in our sight. For some reason, it may be because we are afraid of hurting others. Maybe it's to save face. We refused ourselves, did not refuse him, and let him break into our love life. At the beginning, it may be because of the entry of others that we reconciled the monotony and boredom of our previous emotional life and made it full of freshness, fantasy and fantasy. Maybe one day, he will suddenly tell us that he will leave or leave us alone. We will be at a loss, we will feel afraid, as if the sky is falling and we can't breathe, but we still fantasize that he is just joking and playing with himself. As time went on, this illusion was finally shattered. We are helpless, but we can't resent our love.
In real life, you chase after me, or I chase after you. Our inner curiosity about "love" makes us ignore "who is the other person", paralyze our brains and exclude ourselves. It brought us together and started our fantasy of love, but ignored the coming disaster. Therefore, I hope readers will seriously consider rejecting the manuscript and not be careless.
One thing I may have overlooked is that I mentioned that I forgot to buy carbon. If I had bought carbon instead of hiding in the house or going to my neighbor's house, I might not have met him, and what happened afterwards would not have happened. God should play such a joke on people! I began to fantasize about many ifs. I began to complain about God and fate, but what's the use of these complaints? This is just a mistake in life. What is wrong is not meeting, but your own judgment of refusal.
Rejection is a kind of wisdom and requires courage. Learn to refuse in life!
9. Write an 800-word composition on the topic of "Learn to refuse"
Walk in the world, accept or reject, love or not, give up or persist. ...
Everyone should accept and tolerate, but also learn to refuse.
Refuse to be numb. Although the polishing of life has turned too much enthusiasm into clouds, it can't make feelings grind calluses. If there is no cloud to let your eyes fly and chase, then life is not fun.
I refuse sunny days forever. Because it is an illusory dream, pain can make me grow and make me strong. The rain and snow in my life make me see the road under my feet clearly in my spring dream.
I refuse to break the blooming flower, which is destroying beautiful life. How many struggles and pains does a fragile and slender flower stem have to go through before it can blossom into a beautiful flower? How can you have the heart to destroy the happiness of others for your own selfish desires? I just want to look at it from a distance and silently pray for the miracle of nature to open every corner of life.
I refuse to put my youth on tomorrow. How can you stand spending a lot of money in that precious season? You can get back a thousand dollars, but if you lose it for an hour and a minute, there is nowhere to find it. Youth belongs to you. Only by grasping it, using it and cherishing it can you reap the fruits of autumn.
I refuse to be the gentle flower on the windowsill that is afraid of wind and rain, so I can only sigh at the changeable weather through the glass window. One day, the wind swept through the window left unlocked, and the delicate heart withered, leaving a sigh of regret and sadness. I admire those women who stand side by side with men. With their intelligence and charm, they won the respect of the world and their position in life.
I admire that somewhat heroic woman who carried the burden of life on her shoulders and got out of the hall and kitchen. Rolling up your sleeves can kill the chickens and slaughter the sheep, but there are also thousands of soft hearts in Qian Qian that can create a kind of warmth.
I refuse the pain in life, although I can't stop what is coming. I once heard a story: someone went to the Zen master to find a way to get rid of the pain, and the Zen master let him experience it himself. On the first day, the Zen master asked him what he had realized. He didn't know, so he raised his ruler and hit him. The next day the Zen master asked again, but he still didn't know. The Zen master raised his ruler and hit him again. On the third day, he still got nothing. The Zen master raised his hand to fight, and it stopped. So the Zen master smiled and said, "You finally realized this truth-refusing pain."
I refuse to satisfy vanity and gain money and status without sacrificing my youth, beauty and even my feelings. Life is full of temptations as well as pitfalls and hidden dangers. The beauty of a woman is a gift from nature, the embodiment of truth, goodness and beauty, just like a flawless piece of jade, which can never be polluted by the world. Women should rely on their own abilities and talents to gain due status and respect.
I refuse to listen to the story of Romeo and Juliet. Although they love heroically, it is a tragic ending after all. I just want the real love to be romantic, breezy and thunderstorm. It will always be a dull and happy comedy.
I refused to pray to the years and complained about the ruthlessness of time with tears in my eyes. Although youth has disappeared silently in the calendar, life has written the experience in the corner of her eyes and dyed her hair, but I believe that a woman's youth lies in her state of mind. Beauty is fleeting, but charm lasts forever.
I refuse purposeful love. Love cannot be explained by words. An emotional experience that makes people feel deeply concerned and relatively silent when they meet. After many laughter and tears, it lingers and breaks up just to express an unspeakable word-love. I like to look at myself calmly in the eyes of my lover, face happiness with a smile, walk hand in hand, refuse to be hurt by love, and refuse to let the pale ashes be exhausted by disappointing winter.
Reject superficiality and accept profundity. Reject hatred, accept tolerance, care and tolerance, reject hypocrisy and accept sincerity. Reject the false, the evil and the ugly, and accept the true, the good and the beautiful ... In life, a road full of temptation extends under your feet. Only by learning to refuse will you not go astray.