Girls should appear in front of everyone with a natural, fresh and generous image. "Natural to carve, clear water out of hibiscus", like water hibiscus, elegant and noble.
It is necessary to train girls to learn to smile, learn to show their sweet smiles and lovely smiles to everyone, and regard smiling as a compulsory course for girls and as a communicative language. Cultivate girls' natural generosity, true temperament, frankness and frankness. It is necessary to inject happy elements, fresh elements and frank elements into her growth, so that children can form good habits.
2. Cultivate girls' good character.
The first character of a person is kindness, and a kind person can win everyone's trust, support and help wherever he goes. "Heaven in the heart comes from goodness", and girls should be cultivated into a kind and caring person. Let girls love and protect nature; Let girls love and protect small animals;
Let girls love and care about children; Let girls care about society and dedicate their love to society; Let girls care about vulnerable groups and find ways to help them. Let a girl become a person who has love in her heart and can give and spread love.
3. Cultivate girls' gentle personality.
Men and women are different. When training girls, we should also train according to the laws of nature, not according to boys. The Book of Changes says: "Heaven is strong, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement; The terrain is rich, and the gentleman carries things with morality. The former "gentleman" refers to men, while the latter "gentleman" refers to women.
Women should be generous, kind and virtuous, and care for and influence others with the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Girls should be gentle, calm, steady and calm. Isn't there a saying "quiet as a virgin"? In other words, girls are quiet, unlike Aunt Zhao in A Dream of Red Mansions, who is "shocked at first sight" and "as if she had been stung by a scorpion", which makes people feel unstable and annoying.
4. Cultivate girls' artistic accomplishment.
In ancient China, special attention was paid to the cultivation of girls' cultural literacy, and "Qinqi Calligraphy and Painting" allowed girls to learn and practice.
Now we should pay more attention to cultivating girls' artistic accomplishment and quality. Let girls learn artistic skills such as playing the piano, drawing, singing, dancing, calligraphy, chess, music and singing from an early age. Even if children can't become famous and married in the future, they have at least certain artistic accomplishment and artistic cells, and their gestures are quite tasteful and artistic.
Let girls learn to appreciate beauty, discover beauty and create beauty, let girls become the embodiment of beauty, exercise and shape their temperament, and enhance their interest and taste in life.
5. Cultivate the cultural connotation of girls.
To make girls read more books, we should not only learn textbook knowledge well, but also let girls read more Tang poetry and Song poetry, and read more beautiful essays or novels, so as to continuously increase their cultural literacy and connotation. Not only should girls have profound cultural knowledge and be admitted to a good school, but they should also have elegant life interest and profound cultural accumulation, so that girls will not become "bookworms" or "female pedants" but become people with cultural connotation and taste.
6. Cultivate girls' manners.
The external image of girls is very important. External image not only means that a girl should have "fine eyes", but also should be civilized in language, behave appropriately and dress appropriately. The external image should be clear and clean, because the appearance is a "gift" of parents and cannot be changed; But being clean and generous is something everyone can do.
We should learn to be polite to people, know etiquette and rules, "stand up when sitting", "speak politely and never say an uncivilized word", and say "hello, please, I'm sorry, thank you, goodbye" all our lives, and practice and use it every day to make girls become respected people.
7. Cultivate girls' sense of independence.
Girls must let her learn "self-reliance, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-love", let her learn to be independent and learn not to rely on others. It is necessary to cultivate girls' self-confidence and sense of independence and believe that they can do it. Let girls have their own skills, the ability to live independently and create a happy life, their own careers and pursuits, and their own fixed income, so that economic independence can win the respect of others.
8. Cultivate girls' optimism.
Cultivating girls should have a good attitude and learn to understand, support, forgive, tolerate and tolerate others. "A good attitude makes a good life" and "A good attitude changes everything". A good attitude can make complex things simple and difficult things easy.
Let girls laugh at life, laugh at life, have a cheerful, open-minded and lively personality, study and live happily every day, and let themselves live in happiness.
9. Cultivate girls' strength and tenacity.
It is necessary to cultivate girls' strong character, so that girls dare to face difficulties and are not afraid of difficulties; Let girls dare to accept new things and change themselves; Let girls have ideals and ambitions, and work hard and struggle towards their own ideals and goals; Let girls accept the hardships and challenges of life, because nothing can be smooth sailing.
"People have joys and sorrows, and the moon has ups and downs." "Life is like four seasons, with wind, rain and sunshine." We should adapt to society, life, accept the tests and challenges of life, learn to persist, learn to be tough, learn to be strong, and face the challenges of life with a calm mind.
10, cultivate the noble temperament of girls.
For girls, we must cultivate her noble temperament. What is "noble"? It is a noble moral level; Is an excellent moral character; That is, high status and respect; Be generous and humble; Not condescending, not petty. To be a noble person is to have a higher and deeper pursuit, to be a man, to be a man and to cultivate one's morality;
It is a kind of filial piety to the elders, love for the younger generation, loyalty to the cause and sincerity to friends; Is to be a kind, lofty, sunny and grateful person;
Introverted, elegant in speech and dignified in behavior; Is broad-minded and caring. A noble person means that people will be in awe at first sight, and people can't bear to blaspheme and violate her. To cultivate a noble girl is to make her respected and loved by others and be happy and rich all her life!