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Family members can put mung beans and red beans into the bowl at the same time, and let the children pick out one with chopsticks. This will not only make him aware of the consequences of making mistakes, but also temper his patience.
Nailing method
Prepare a children's board in advance and draw a picture that children like. Once the child makes a mistake, nail the board. As the number of mistakes increases, the board becomes more and more ugly, and children will notice that their favorite pictures are hurt by their own mistakes. At the same time, if children do well and conveniently, they can pull out the nails, but they will leave ugly nail marks. This method can make children increase their care and protection for their families and people or things they like.
Carton toy method
Parents can prepare a paper box, and let the child put a favorite toy in the box whenever he makes a mistake. After that, if the child behaves well, he will return the toy to the child. More suitable for noisy children who like to buy toys.
Practice writing or painting
Let children draw their own inner feelings, which is conducive to parents' deeper understanding and can also exercise children's painting ability and calligraphy. The most important thing is to calm your heart and think about your mistakes seriously. From an early age, I have developed the advantages of not being impulsive and calm in the face of major events.
Reward and punishment system
Tell your child that ten little red flowers can satisfy one wish. If you make a mistake, deduct one. If you behave well, you will be rewarded with a small red flower. In this way, he can realize that there will be rewards for his efforts, a philosophy that efforts will be rewarded, and at the same time, it can solve the problem that children don't want to attend classes and eat.