"Work hard now, and it will be easy when you go to college!" Many middle school teachers use this sentence as a mantra.
It can be said that "college" is a word that many high school students yearn for: after going to college, they can escape the "control" of their parents and make their own decisions on many things; what is even more fascinating for many people is , you can still date someone during the four years of college, and you can get along with the person you like day and night and fall in love reasonably, legally and sensibly.
Although college students can date each other, there are still many college students who do not choose to find their partner within four years of college. Some of them believe that it is difficult to "cultivate love" on college campuses. It is very likely that graduation season is breakup season; some people believe that college students still focus on their studies during the four years of college. If they have the opportunity to take the postgraduate entrance examination, they will further study in the postgraduate entrance examination instead of wasting time on "love for their children".
However, there are still some college students who are hastily looking for their “other half” as soon as their college life begins. Most of these college students are boys. Who are the people who are usually "anxious" to talk to someone during the four years of college? We can take a look at the following three types of college students. The first type: the "rich second generation" with relatively good economic conditions.
We know that dating a partner during the four years of college is a very expensive thing for boys: does it cost money to make "phone porridge"? Do you need money for living expenses for two people? Does it cost money to buy gifts for girls? Does it cost money to go shopping with a girl? ...These expenses are a long-standing problem for students from poor families, but for the "rich second generation" with better economic conditions, it will not be such a difficult thing to deal with, because this kind of "long-standing" problem, They can all solve it easily after they have a rich and good father. The second type: College students who think about "enjoyment in time".
"If you have wine today, you will be drunk today, and you will be sad tomorrow." The famous line in Luo Yin's poem "Self-dispatch" has become the "motto" of some college students. Therefore, including boys from disadvantaged universities, they do not even consider the specific financial situation of their families and "enjoy in time". In order to find a partner to satisfy their needs in certain aspects during the four years of college, they treat their parents as automatic teller machines. , and rarely consider the feelings of parents. Some of these college students have poor academic performance during the four years of college. It is very normal for them to become unemployed as soon as they graduate. The third type: college students with few hobbies and good looks.
Some college students enjoy reading during their four years at university, some have a "special liking" for online games, and some are obsessed with calligraphy... And for those who have no hobbies, at best they are only interested in the opposite sex. Interested college students spend most of their energy on finding partners. Of course, college students with this style generally have good looks, otherwise it is easy to "hit a wall" when talking about a partner.
After four years of college, college students don’t have to be too hasty when it comes to dating. I think they should still focus on their studies. After all, four years of college is still the golden period of learning. If you are unemployed immediately after graduating from college, that is A pretty embarrassing thing, don’t you think?