People often cling to their own hearts. And this couplet not only wants you to hug yourself, but also makes you bow your head and take a step back. Can not be said to be the ultimate summary of life wisdom!
Needless to say, everything is fate.
China people like to use "fate" to comfort themselves and free themselves. However, Zeng Guofan's words hit the nail on the head: "If you achieve great things, people will live half a life, and God will live half a life." Luck and personal efforts account for half the success, and no one is more important than anyone else! If you attribute everything to bad luck and bad life. Sorry, such an excuse is too low and watery. Please come up with something decent to bluff.
Speaking of luck, no one can say that he is worse than Zeng Guofan. After years of failure, others will give up their helmets and resign themselves to fate. But I just didn't bow to fate.
Fate has abused me thousands of times, and I regard life as my first love! This is the secret of Zeng Guofan's persistence in the end after repeated wars and defeats, and finally winning and becoming a big winner in life!
Everything depends on people's efforts, which is the cry and unyielding of the strong, the spirit and unwillingness of life and fighting. Only with this spirit can you become a winner.
Take a step back, naturally wide.
Is it really enough to work hard in life and be hard on yourself? That's not true. We should also leave some room for ourselves and give ourselves a chance to breathe.
The environment is created by the heart. Mood is an important factor in a person's happiness index. In this world, unpleasant things often happen. If you keep your eyes on these unpleasant things, your life can only have two words: "sad reminder"
Su Dongpo is a person who deeply understands the true meaning of "the environment is created by the heart". Go home, there will be no rain or shine. Yes, how can the storm in the imperial court get worse? Apart from not being a senior official and not getting those generous salaries, what are the disappointments? On the edge of the West Lake, you can also build dikes and bridges; Inside Dongpo Gate, you can eat as much as you want. Why do those troubles bother me?
This is the role of emotions. Let nature take its course in the predicament, just work hard, enjoy the process of struggle no matter what you gain, and face your destiny with a free and easy attitude. This is the real wise man!