Parental love: selfish and utilitarian, but spoiled by women all her life, but why do some people say that Mrding is a tragedy?

I feel a little sympathy for the role of Mrding.

Mrding is also the protagonist, but it gives people a visual feeling in the play.

From feelings to life, and finally to death, it is an understatement.

But for Mrding's mate selection line, the foreshadowing was laid from the first episode.

Although he had Wang Xiue, pestered Mr. Ge and finally married Dehua, he did not change his "like" for his wife An Jie.

Mrding is Jiang Defu's best friend, from comrade-in-arms to neighbors, and finally became Jiang Defu's brother-in-law.

Compared with Jiang Defu's career and love life, Mrding always seems to get what he wants.

Mrding is eager to get what he wants, which is more like our life.

Mrding always envied Jiang Defu for marrying a woman like Anjie, who was beautiful, educated, knowledgeable and able to handle things well.

Mrding and Wang Xiue were in a feudal marriage, and Mrding always wanted to escape but was trapped in it. Wang Xiue is a good woman, but she can't read or speak the same language as Mrding.

When Jiang Defu comes home, he can flirt with Angie.

And Mrding returned home, only daily necessities. Most of the time, what I see is Wang Xiue yelling, while Mrding is watching quietly.

This family with three eldest sons is also happy to outsiders, but for Mrding, there is only loneliness and burden.

The pressure of work and the depression of life, he has nowhere to tell. Even if he tells Wang Xiue, he may not understand.

Some people say that Mrding is weak. If he is as brave as Jiang Defu, he can get rid of the feudal marriage. But you forget, what are the conditions of Jiang Defu?

His parents died young and there was no pressure to support the elderly.

Have children with your wife? I'm not worried. He wants a divorce, and he has lost a lot of sunk costs. Besides, if Zhang Guiying hadn't done something wrong to Jiang Defu, he wouldn't have left this marriage.

On the other hand, Mrding is old and young, and he can't afford to lose, because he has to work alone to support a big family.

From another dimension, he was so eager to escape, but he still did his duty as a husband and father, which showed that Mrding was a kind and responsible person in his heart.

The gap between Wang Xiue and Wang Xiue could not be bridged, so he chose to accept it.

Of course, he was also jealous that Jiang Defu married a beautiful and educated wife and lived a colorful life. As a result, he often makes fun of Jiang Defu, and even makes a rumor that Anjie can't do anything.

He belittled each other in this way in order to seek inner balance.

Besides, he didn't do anything bad to the Jiang Defu family.

Even if you have a good impression on Anjie, it is also a matter of affection and politeness. Jiang Defu went to Songshan Island, taking care of Anjie everywhere, but keeping a sense of proportion.

Although Jiang Defu will miss Mrding, he also knows that Mrding is reliable at the critical moment.

So then Dehua married him.

The gap between Mrding and Jiang Defu is not a question of ability, but fate. Jiang Defu can bid farewell to feudal marriage and marry love, but Mrding is not so lucky.

After Wang Xiue died in childbirth, Mrding took her youngest son to Songshan Island.

The first thing he did when he arrived on the island was to find someone for himself. I wrote in yesterday's article that Wang Xiue's bones are not cold, and Mrding is anxious to find a house to fill. This is the coldness of human nature.

But on the other hand, I can understand him. If Wang Xiue hadn't died, he would have lived with her forever. But the accident, for Mrding, there is a chance to change his destiny.

For anyone, in the face of opportunities, it is impossible to let go. Mrding has never tasted the taste of love in his first half of his life, and his biggest dream in the second half of his life is to find a woman like Anjie and live a life like Shangjiang Defu.

So, he found Ge Xiamei. She was born as badly as Anjie, but fortunately, she was beautiful and literate. But Mrding's marriage with her was not approved by the authorities, so he had to give it up.

Many people say that Mrding is not sober enough to go out. If you want to get married even if you don't have an official position, as Jiang Defu did in those days, you will succeed. There is a conversation between Jiang Defu and Mrding, which is enough to get a glimpse of the answer.

Later, he found Wu's medical assistant. This woman is not as beautiful as Gesha, but she is also very good and educated. Unfortunately, Dr. Wu is not only arrogant, but also hides his marriage history.

This relationship is gone again. Finally, Mrding chose Dehua.

Not moved by Dehua, but resigned.

Mrding was disheartened. After he married Dehua, he put all his spirit into calligraphy and did not compete with the world.

Until one time, a painter, Mr. Xia, came to this island. This summer, the teacher appreciated Anjie very much, so she drew a portrait of Anjie. Unfortunately, Mrding admired Miss Xia very much, so on the eve of her leaving the island, he invited Miss Xia to have a drink at home.

After two people drank too much, Mrding took advantage of the removal and asked Mr. Xia for a portrait of Zhang Anqi. Later, Dehua saw it. Fortunately, Dehua was careless and didn't care about these details. After teaching Lao Ding a lesson, it was all over.

For so many years, in fact, Mrding has never forgotten Anjie. It can also be said that Do not forget your initiative mind hopes to have a woman as educated, beautiful and artistic as Anjie. However, he never got it.

However, although Mrding is a playboy, a closer look at the original works and TV series reveals that Mrding is actually a very traditional person who has the attention of a big man.