The reason why Xu Jinglei chose Huang Lixing: Xu Jinglei said that her character and Huang Lixing's character complemented each other to a certain extent. She chose Huang Lixing because Huang Lixing allowed her to be herself.
As the saying goes, good things come hard, as long as it’s you in the end, it doesn’t matter if it’s a little later. For Xu Jinglei, that’s the case for Huang Lixing. Since Xu Jinglei is impatient, Huang Lixing's lack of entanglement and anxiety has become a good medicine for her.
Xu Jinglei’s emotional path
For many netizens, Xu Jinglei made many netizens feel that she is a famous actress because she directed and acted in the movie "Du Lala's Promotion". A talented person, as her fame grew, her identity also switched between actor and director, and her love life also attracted the attention of the public.
Xu Jinglei had three ex-boyfriends before Huang Lixing. All of these three ex-boyfriends were both good-looking and talented. Although Xu Jinglei was born in a working-class family since she was a child, she was not familiar with her parents. It is said that her education is what they value, so she began to learn calligraphy, painting, etc. since she was a child. Xu Jinglei became a truly talented woman.
But for Xu Jinglei, she doesn’t want such a halo. She can become like this because her parents forced her to do so. Compared with the title of talented woman, she desires freedom more and hopes that There can be someone who can trust yourself, tolerate yourself, and love yourself.
When Xu Jinglei was still a student in the acting class of the Film Academy, Wang Shuo had already opened a film company in partnership with Feng Xiaogang. It was precisely because of this status that Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo gradually became familiar with each other. , as time went by, the relationship between Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo became increasingly close, even though Wang Shuo was married at the time and had a daughter. Although Wang Shuo is 16 years older than Xu Jinglei, the relationship between them can be said to be indestructible in the eyes of others.
Gradually, under Wang Shuo's recommendation, Xu Jinglei participated in Feng Xiaogang's movies, and her reputation became more and more popular. Xu Jinglei also lived up to expectations, transitioning from an actor to a director, becoming a A truly talented woman, but no matter how talented she is, she is also romantic. After Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo broke up, she began to fall in love with Zhang Yadong, which did not last long. Later, she fell in love with the director Han Han, who we are very familiar with.
Although her three ex-boyfriends are all very talented, for Xu Jinglei, they may not be the person she really wants in her heart. In the end, because of the filming of "Du Lala's Promotion", she She met Huang Lixing, who came to the mainland for development. As time passed, the relationship between the two became more and more quiet. Finally, she chose to fall in love with Huang Lixing.
For the public, they don’t know why Xu Jinglei chose Huang Lixing, but Xu Jinglei also said that she doesn’t actually care about the public’s opinions. She only wants what she wants. Besides, She chose Huang Lixing not because of how much money he had, but because she felt that this boy was suitable for her.
In short, the free and equal love between Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing makes netizens feel very envious, because whether it is Xu Jinglei or Huang Lixing, their love is evenly matched. There is no forward or backward in this love. Their three views With unity, marriage can naturally flow smoothly.
Wanting to have a happy love or marriage is an eternal theme that everyone wants to pursue, not to mention that each of us is born equal. In a relationship, there is no one who cannot live without the other, but who understands better and knows how to cherish the other.
The author's message:
Although daily necessities are very important in relationships and marriage, suitability is the key to long-term development of two people. For Xu Jinglei, this is the case for Huang Lixing , Huang Lixing may not be their best or most suitable choice for many people, but for Xu Jinglei it is just right.