The first story of being sincere to others: Liu Bei visited the cottage three times.
The yellow turban insurrectionary uprising at the end of Han Dynasty caused great chaos in the world. Cao Cao sat in the imperial court, Sun Quan sent troops to Dongwu, and Liu Bei, the imperial clan of the Han Dynasty, listened to Xu Shu (a native of Yuzhou in the Three Kingdoms, who was famous for finding soil) and (a native of Yangzhai in Yuzhou in the Three Kingdoms, who was also a famous counselor) and said that Zhuge Liang was very knowledgeable and talented, so he and Guan Yu and Zhang Fei took gifts to Wolong (now Xiangyang County, Hubei Province) to invite him. It happened that Zhuge Liang was out that day, so Liu Bei had to turn back in disappointment. Soon, Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei braved the snowstorm and invited them for the second time. Unexpectedly, Zhuge Liang went out for a walk again. Zhang Fei doesn't want to come again. Seeing that Zhuge Liang was not at home, he urged him to go back. Liu Bei had to leave a letter expressing his admiration for Zhuge Liang and asking him to come out of the mountain to help him save the country's crisis.
After a while, Liu Bei was a vegetarian for three days and was ready to invite Zhuge Liang again. Guan Yu said that Zhuge Liang may have a hollow reputation, but he may not have real talent and learning, so he doesn't have to go. Zhang Fei, on the other hand, advocated calling alone and tying the ground with a rope when he didn't come. Liu Bei scolded Zhang Fei and went to visit Zhuge Liang with them for the third time. At this time, Zhuge Liang was sleeping. Liu Bei dare not disturb him. He stood until Zhuge Liang woke up and sat down to talk to each other.
Zhuge Liang saw that Liu Bei was interested in doing things for the country and sincerely asked him for help, so he came out to help Liu Bei establish the Han Shu Dynasty. The Romance of the Three Kingdoms called Liu Bei's three personal invitations to Zhuge Liang "three visits to the cottage". This idiom comes from this, which means to visit talents and sincerely invite others.
Treat people sincerely story 2: Fleming treats people sincerely
Fleming is a poor farmer in Scotland. One day, he saved a child who fell into a deep ditch. The next day, a luxurious carriage greeted Fleming, and an elegant gentleman stepped down from the carriage. Seeing Fleming, the gentleman said, "I am the father of the child you saved yesterday, and I am here to thank you today." Fleming replied, "I can't accept payment for saving your child."
While they were talking, Fleming's son came back from outside. The gentleman asked, "Is he your son?" The farmer proudly replied, "Yes." The gentleman said, "We agreed that I would take your son and give him the best education. If this child is as sincere as you, he will be a person who will make you proud in the future. " Fleming promised to sign the agreement. A few years later, his son graduated from Santa Maria Medical College and invented the antibacterial drug penicillin, which became the world-famous Sir Fleming and Alexander in one fell swoop.
One year, the son of a gentleman rescued by Fleming from a deep ditch contracted pneumonia. Who brought him back from the brink of death? It's penicillin. Who's that elegant man? /He is old Churchill, a member of the British House of Lords before World War II. Who is this gentleman's son? He is the famous British Prime Minister Churchill during World War II.
Benjamin. Franklin once said that what a man sows, he will reap. If we treat others sincerely, others will treat us sincerely. Fleming gave his son a chance to become a success because of his sincerity. Old Churchill also saved his son's life because of his sincerity, making him a politician who influenced the course of human history in the 20th century.
Story 3: Honesty is business.
A customer walked into an auto repair shop and claimed to be the driver of the transportation company. "Write more parts on my bill. After I go back to the company for reimbursement, you will have benefits. " He said to the shopkeeper. But the owner refused such a request. The customer pestered and said, "My business is not small. I will come here often. You can definitely make a lot of money! " "The shopkeeper told him that this could never be done. The customer shouted angrily, "Anyone can do this. I think you are too stupid. " The shopkeeper was angry. He asked the client to leave immediately and talk about it elsewhere. At this time, the customer smiled and shook the owner's hand admiringly: "I am the boss of that transportation company. I've been looking for a fixed and reliable repair shop. Where else can you let me talk about this business? "
In the face of temptation, I don't feel heartbroken and confused about it. Although it is as plain as a cloud and as simple as running water, it makes people appreciate a kind of high mountain and deep sea. This is a shining character-honesty.
Famous sayings about treating others sincerely
1, one sentence is important. -Chen Yi
2. Stupidity and arrogance are the fruits of a tree. -Proverbs
3. A gentleman does not deceive himself, but is modest. -"Harry series"
4, sincere feeling, moved everywhere. -Wu Song Chuhou.
5, the line must be sincere, and the words must be believed; Laws must be followed and rules must be strict.
6. Sincerity is an open mind. La Rochefoucauld
7. There is no dignity without honesty. -Cicero
8. Sincerity is an open mind. Laroche Foucault
9. Sincerity is the road to honor. -(France) Zola
10, sincerity is glass, prudence is diamond. -China Jin Yan.
1 1. Sincerity is the highest virtue in life. -(British) Chaucer
12. It is not easy for a husband to make a commitment. -"Purple Tongzhi Sword"
13. Keeping a promise is like defending your honor. -Balzac
14, sincerity can strengthen one's will, and sincerity can respect his virtue. -Hu Hong
15, honesty is the most touching. -(British) Shakespeare
16, a person who really knows himself will not be modest. anonymous
17. Sincerity is an open mind. Laroche Foucault
18, complacency, people lose it; A humble person is beneficial to others. -Wei just like
19, people who respect others will always respect others; People who love others will always love others. -Mencius
20. If you give up three points on the road of life, you can broaden your horizons. Carnegie
2 1, fear is thinking, and thinking is subtle; Fear is cautious, and caution is invincible. -Zhang
22, hoe an evil, grow ten good. -Song Bi's Biography
23. Integrity is the foundation of self-cultivation, and goodness is the foundation of integrity. Ju Hee Song
24. Arrogance (ego) is the medium of defeat, and people who fly with wings are getting lower and lower. -Kang Youwei
25. Sincerity needs no pen and ink, and beauty needs no makeup. -Shakespeare
26. Sincerity and simplicity are the precious qualities of genius-stanislavski.
27. Of all the moral qualities, a kind nature is what is most needed in the world. Bertrand Russell
28. The only constant test of friendship is long-term sincerity. -(China) Michelle
29. A sincere and calm attitude is much more beneficial than being wary of other people's attitudes everywhere. -Rogers (USA)
30. Sincerity is the most basic force to make a person great. It allows one's shortcomings and mistakes to be forgiven. -Roland
The way to get along with others
Spoor, a Jewish engineer, wanted his landlord to reduce the rent, but his landlord was in a dilemma. Many people have made efforts in this respect, but they all failed in the end. Everyone unanimously came to the conclusion that the landlord is unreasonable and difficult to contact.
Seder decided to give it a try. He wrote a letter to the landlord saying that the contract was about to expire and he was going to move out. In fact, he doesn't want to move out. If the rent can be reduced, he wants to keep it. A few days later, the landlord took his "secretary" to Strappa. Steele warmly welcomed him at the door.
Spoor didn't talk about rent immediately, but stressed that he liked his house very much and praised him for his good management. He hopes to stay for another year, but the rent is a bit expensive.
The landlord has never met such a warm and sincere tenant and simply doesn't know what to do. He began to complain to Steeper, and one of the tenants wrote him 14 letters, some of which were very rude and hurt his self-esteem. Another tenant threatened to withdraw the rent if he didn't stop the snorers upstairs.
The landlord said happily, "I'm really relieved to have a satisfied tenant like you."
Before Stafford made a request, the landlord offered to reduce the rent a little. Stepan wants less, saying how much he can bear. Without hesitation, the landlord agreed to Stepan's request.
When he was about to leave, he turned and asked steeper, "Is there anything to decorate?"
Later, when talking about this matter, Stuart said: "If I ask other tenants to reduce rent, I believe I will encounter the same obstacles. I can succeed because of my friendliness, sympathy and praise. "
Related arguments
Friendship of revolutionary pioneers: In China, there are many touching friendship stories among revolutionaries. As we all know, the friendship between Sun Yat-sen and Li Dazhao is very deep. 1920 August, warlord Chen Jiongming defected. When Sun Yat-sen was in trouble, Li Dazhao and Lin made a special trip from Beijing to Shanghai to meet Sun Yat-sen. During many contacts and talks, the revolutionary friendship between Li Dazhao and Sun Yat-sen increased day by day. In order to reorganize the Kuomintang and realize the cooperation between the Kuomintang and the Communist Party, Sun Yat-sen held the first congress of the Kuomintang in Guangzhou in 1924 and 1, and appointed Li Dazhao as the representative of Beijing to attend the first congress of the Kuomintang. Arrive in Guangzhou more than/kloc-0 months in advance to help him complete the preparations for the conference. During the congress, Li Dazhao was one of the five members of the presidium of the congress. Li Dazhao has great respect and support for Sun Yat-sen. He thinks that this great man is "the leader of Asians fighting for freedom and light", and the cooperation between countries is the need to develop the China revolution, which is also the great achievement of "Mr. Wang carrying forward the past and bringing forth the new in the history of China's national revolution". To this end, Li Dazhao worked tirelessly to cross the Yangtze River four times, go to Shanghai three times and visit Guangzhou two times. 1925, Sun Yat-sen left Guangzhou for negotiations to seek reunification between the North and the South, and Li Dazhao met him at Beijing Railway Station. In March of the same year, Sun Yat-sen died unfortunately. Li Dazhao led the party organization in Beijing and mobilized more than 300,000 people to participate in the mourning activities. At the funeral, he personally helped Sun Yat-sen, and Li Dazhao also wrote a 2 14-word elegy to express his deep condolences.
2. Du Li's poems: Li Bai, the greatest romantic poet in the Tang Dynasty, and Du Fu, the greatest realistic poet, stood side by side in the ancient history of our country, shining in history. The friendship between them is praised by later generations. Li Bai is older than Du Fu 1 1 years old, and the relationship between them is forgotten. They stayed in Tianbao for three or four years and in Shandong Army for more than one year. Later, Du Fu bid farewell to Li Bai and went to Chang 'an. In memory of Du Fu, Li Bai wrote two poems, Send Du Fu to East Shimen in Lujun County and Send Du Fu to Dune Gate. In many poems, Du Fu also vividly described and enthusiastically praised Li Bai's fearless personality and outstanding and elegant peerless poems.
3. Lifelong friendship: During the Northern Song Dynasty, Wang Anshi took a post in Yangzhou after he was admitted to the Jinshi. My friend Ceng Gong introduced some of his manuscripts to Ouyang Xiu. At that time, Ouyang Xiu was a bachelor of Longtuge in Kaifeng, the capital, and was famous all over the world. Despite the disparity in status, he still appreciates the manuscript of this ordinary young man, "Love to sigh and write, too diligent". He also included it in the catalogued masterpiece "Lin Wen" and recommended it to the society. Ceng Gong also took care of Wang Anshi, asking him to be modest, not to invent words or imitate them. Ouyang Xiu and Wang Anshi really want to meet, and * * * will comment on contemporary works. However, the personnel are unreasonable, and the fate is one side. It was not until Wang Anshi was later transferred to Beijing that the two "friends of ten years" met for the first time. The friendship between the two men lasted into their later years and stood the test. Wang Anshi implemented the new law when he was in power. Ouyang Xiu disapproved of some new laws, but he didn't shy away from them because of his personal relationship. He went to see the emperor twice to state his opinion on the young crops law. Wang Anshi did not affect his respect for Ouyang Xiu. Soon after Ouyang Xiu died, Wang Anshi personally wrote a eulogy to express his deep condolences to his friends.
4. Teachers and friends are very important: Huang Tingjian is famous for his poems. Historians equate him with Su Shi and call him "Su Huang". There is indeed a profound friendship between these two literary giants. Once, two people sat together to discuss calligraphy. Su Shi said: "Lu Zhi, although your handwriting has become more and more vigorous recently, it seems too hard and thin in some places, almost like a snake hanging on the treetop." Talking and laughing. "Brother's criticism, hit home, heartbreaking. However, my brother thinks that there are still some words written by my brother ... "Huang Tingjian hesitated and didn't go on. "Go ahead, go ahead," Su Shi said. "Why are you hesitating? Are you afraid I can't stand it? " "Well, I'll be bold." Huang Tingjian swallowed and said, "Brother's handwriting, iron-painted silver hooks, is vigorous and powerful. However, sometimes it is a bit shallow, just like a toad crushed by a stone. " Perhaps the image of "Toad with a stone" is a bit funny, and both of them are laughing their heads off. The two writers often learn from each other, hone each other and criticize each other, just like the spring breeze melts the rain, making the tree of friendship more Aoba Shigeru.
5. In memory of Nikolai Nikolai Gogol: The great Russian writer Nikolai Nikolai Gogol passed away. His best friend, Turgenev, prone on his desk, wrote an article mourning Nikolai Nikolai Gogol with a heavy pen and his own sad tears. However, the czar ruler was afraid that the name that the Russian people loved would appear in the newspaper at this time. The book and newspaper censorship authorities in Petersburg banned the publication of all articles mourning and praising Nikolai Nikolai Gogol, and claimed that Turgenev would be arrested if he forced to publish articles regardless of the ban. Turgenev, who is upright and brave, is not afraid of the threat of absolutists. He would rather go to prison than comfort the souls of the dead, and try his best to make friends. Therefore, he cleverly avoided the surveillance of the czar detective, left Petersburg, sent the article to Moscow, and published it in Moscow News before receiving the ban there. The third hall of the czar's secret service quickly saw this article, and they summoned Turgenev. The tsar has long hated this writer who often published "hunter's notes" in Modern People magazine. After imprisoned Turgenev for a month, the czar personally ordered Turgenev to be exiled to Spartacus.