Method 1: Work hard during the day and video chat with your husband regularly at night. Du Mei is the financial manager of a listed company. He is busy with his work every day. She is a responsible and hard-working person. She has been well received by leaders and colleagues for so many years. During the day, Dumet will devote himself to his work. Although some people are in charge of specific things, as a department leader, she does many things alone. One is to keep abreast of the latest financial situation, and the other is to encourage employees to work better, so she is busy all day. In the evening, she made an appointment with her husband Chen Jianjun, that is, she wanted to have a video chat at nine o'clock. Talk about a day's work and interesting things that happened during the day. Of course, with the injustice, Dumet will also seek comfort from her husband. Although they are far apart, they both have each other in their hearts, and the video network also provides them with opportunities to meet each other every day.
Method 2: Cultivate a hobby and make life colorful. Du Mei is a person who loves life very much. In addition to her busy work, she has always insisted on learning calligraphy. By learning calligraphy, you can not only cultivate your self-cultivation, but also enrich your life. After a busy week, Dumet has a full rest day. No matter how busy she is these years, she will go to the calligraphy class to study. There are like-minded classmates and friends here, as well as teachers with exquisite calligraphy. Studying, discussing and practicing with everyone not only improves the calligraphy level, but also expands the social circle. After learning, she will also take part in a calligraphy competition. Actual combat practice is also an opportunity to exercise yourself and a good way to cultivate self-cultivation.
Method 3: Taking a part-time job as a sideline can broaden your horizons and increase your income. Du Mei is the financial manager of the company, with a monthly salary of 1 10,000 yuan. My husband works outside the home, with a monthly salary of around 20,000. They only have one daughter, so they should live a leisurely life, and they will not be short of money at all. But even so, Dumet is cautious in life. In addition, she also works part-time from the media. When she is free, she will create literature or shoot some videos and post them online. It seems that these things will make you very tired, but in fact, you will find that this is also a record of your life and an externalized way of your inner feelings. Over the years, making a cup of tea and enjoying my own articles and videos has a different kind of warmth in my heart.
Method 4: read more books, increase knowledge reserves, and escort children's learning and growth. Dumei's children are about to enter the first grade now, and she has a clear plan for their growth. This kind of planning includes how to let children learn and how to accompany them to grow up. At present, Dumei is teaching himself psychology so that he can communicate with children better in the future. At the same time, she also systematically studied all the knowledge before the third grade of primary school. According to the knowledge, I made my own study schedule. Now every day, according to the work and rest mode of primary school, let the children adapt in advance. Du Mei knows the importance of setting an example, so she has always attached great importance to the education of her children. She hopes that through her own efforts, her daughter can become an ideal, courageous and responsible person.
Summary: After reading Du Mei's arrangement, I feel that she is really busy and full. Although separated from her husband, she did not complain, but arranged family affairs reasonably, kept a good emotional distance from her husband, and tried to improve herself at the same time. Thanks to her efforts, their small family is harmonious and prosperous. On the contrary, some women cheat their husbands because they can't stand the loneliness during separation. They attributed the mistake to not being cared about by their husbands, so they made a mistake. In fact, this kind of woman also has her own problems, just like a saying: flies don't bite seamless eggs. If everything goes well with you, it's no use attracting the outside world. Only after enjoying the temptation of the outside world, they all ended in a crushing defeat.