The product of bonzi education is to engage in sideline business for his wife with cancer. Why does his son say that all Chinese learners are idiots?

Remember Dai Jianye, a "professor of online celebrities"?

With in-depth study and humorous explanation of poetry, Dai Jianye turned obscure ancient poetry into a series of grounded Macheng Mandarin, which attracted the love of a large number of young students.

With the fire of short video, someone uploaded his lecture video to the Internet. With the help of the communication power of the Internet, Dai Jianye instantly became a "professor network celebrity" all over the country, attracting more than 5 million powder on major social platforms.

Everyone must remember that the fear of being dominated by ancient poetry and various boring dogmatic teachings made us mechanically remember "Poet Li Bai", "Poet Du Fu" and "Shi Fo Wang Wei".

However, in Dai Jianye's mouth, these poets seem to be vivid images around us:

When talking about Li Bai, he said:

"Li Bai is the most complacent scholar in the Tang Dynasty. He thinks he is immortal ... except for those days in prison. "

When talking about Du Fu, he said:

"Don't think that Du Fu is honest, but he is also very arrogant. His' reading thousands of books, writing like a god', I thought it was written by others, and later I realized that he was actually talking about himself. "

When talking about Yuan Zhen, he said:

"This bastard fell in love with someone else in less than half a month. Now it is a love rat. "

This kind of storytelling is grounded, easy to understand, and always attracts bursts of laughter and appreciation. Many people listened with relish and commented, "It's like telling a story".

There are still many netizens who call it "magic", saying that if Chinese teachers give lectures like this, they would have been fascinated by poetry!

Not only that, his teaching methods have been officially recognized and supported, and even the People's Daily has forwarded them.

In fact, Dai Jianye's teaching method is not recent. As early as many years ago, he gave undergraduates an elective course of "approaching the great poet".

At that time, his teaching methods were sought after by many students, so the class was always packed.

Only in recent years, through short videos, his lecture style was noticed by more people, and was almost warmly welcomed by netizens.

In the face of sudden popularity, Dai Jianye is a little uncomfortable. He said,

"A person can't be red for too long, and being red for too long may be ruined."

In his view, "after being red for a long time, people are easy to get carried away and don't know how heavy they are."

But he is grateful for his current fame, because he desperately needs money. "One of the benefits of becoming a celebrity: it is easy to make money."

Friends who are familiar with Dai Jianye should know that his wife has lung cancer. Last year, cancer cells had metastasized to the brain. But their only son is not around, so Dai Jianye has been taking care of his wife personally.

At that time, my wife needed to take expensive targeted drugs for lung cancer, and she had to take more than 50 thousand targeted drugs a month, plus other miscellaneous expenses, at least 70 thousand to 80 thousand a month

Therefore, Dai Jianye, who always likes to study quietly and specialize in knowledge, can only start a sideline, "walk around" and give lectures in public.

Just at the beginning of this year, many netizens suddenly discovered that Dai Jianye seemed to have disappeared on the Internet: in fact, he was taking care of his wife.

Dai Jianye has always been very kind to his wife, saying "Baby, I love you" to her every night, but she unfortunately left.

Dai Jianye has never sold it badly, but people around him feel very sad about it.

Although he suffered silently behind his back, he remained optimistic and positive once he appeared in front of everyone.

This spirit is even more touching.

Although Dai Jianye is always optimistic and positive, his childhood is actually not happy, and he also passed this unhappiness on to his son.

My father was eager for success, so he forced Dai Jianye to study very early, killing his playful nature as a child.

Not only that, my father also believes in "stick education". Whenever Dai Jianye is not satisfied with his studies, he will be beaten up, so Dai Jianye still defines his childhood as "darkness".

But he didn't blame his father, because he only discovered after reflection:

"The way I educate my son is to inherit my father's' glorious tradition' without distortion ... Today I condemn my father, but I am actually condemning myself."

It turns out that he, like his father, was very strict with his son since he was a child, and he grasped his studies too tightly, which led to a bad relationship with his son.

Although I can write humorous poems outside, treating my son at home is no different from traditional parents in China. Dogmatic education disgusted my son.

Once, he forced his son to write, and as a result, his rebellious son actually left a cruel saying, "All those who learn and teach Chinese are idiots."

Hearing this, Dai Jianye's face sank instantly, and he realized how much harm his dogmatic discipline had brought to his children. That's why he said, "If you can have another child, swear to give him a happy childhood."

Although Dai Jianye always smiles, if you count his life carefully, you will find that there are actually too many disappointments in his life

However, as the ancients said, "life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten."

In fact, Dai Jianye's open-mindedness may be the energy gained in literature and poetry.

He always says, "What I write is more interesting than what I say!" In the final analysis, "speaking out" means improvising, and "writing down" means choosing words carefully and cautiously.