On the other hand, the way adults learn now, and it is no exaggeration to say that some people even go to college. If they don't have good self-control, study habits and independent thinking ability, I believe they can't compare with high school students in Hengshui.
It is said that it is not the first time that students of liberal arts class 72 1 in Hengshui have made a summary. These children usually watch the news, pay attention to what is happening in the world, and then make a summary. What makes them consciously study and think? Look at his lazy nephew, playing games. His parents didn't remember the senior high school entrance examination, so he can get extra points by taking special exams. I don't think he can even go to high school.
Reflection on 1 Why can these children do impressive things?
Before the Spring Festival, the class teacher reminded the students to watch the Spring Festival Gala carefully, and proposed to summarize the main points of the Spring Festival Gala. A child said, "In fact, the teacher will do the same without reminding us." On the day of the Spring Festival Evening, the squad leader and the Youth League Committee took the children to summarize the test sites, and finally the summary records of the Youth League Committee were sent to everyone. For children, "being good at thinking" is particularly important. Only diligent people love to think. Once inertia is generated, it is difficult to reverse the situation. Think about these children, not only did they get high marks, but their abilities will be of great help to everything they do in the future.
I began to think about my education for children. In the past, when a group of children mentioned Xueba's learning methods, everyone would grin and say, "A child is an example. Where there are so many Niu Wa, don't let the children be too tired. " But now, how to explain these excellent children? Regardless of academic performance, let's talk about the admirable learning atmosphere and proactive attitude.
So I can't help blaming myself for not being strict with children before. It suddenly occurred to me how my mother "forced" me to study when I was a child: "Think hard, study hard, have good habits, form good habits, take notes, keep them in mind, and check them after the exam ..." The old lady's three-character classics are not unreasonable.
Good study habits can help children improve their abilities and grades, and at the same time liberate our parents, so I believe it is worthwhile to work hard.
Reflection 2. What kind of learning environment have I given my children?
When a child is born, he can't choose his parents, but I have the choice and the ability to help him choose the learning environment. I thought I would be satisfied as long as my children grew up happily and healthily. In fact, this is just a fantasy. If you make your child happy now, will he be happy when he grows up and faces the real society? Parents still need to give some guidance, at least I think I have to be self-disciplined first.
In ancient times, Meng Mu moved three times, but now there is an army of choosing schools. Why is it so difficult to choose a school, or are there many parents desperate to squeeze into a good school? Faced with the current situation of unbalanced education, seeing these children in Hengshui, I have to force myself to rush up and try my best to win good educational resources for the children. Whatever the outcome, at least I tried. Because I realized how important the school environment and classmates and friends around me are to children.
Reflection 3 What kind of guidance do I give my children every day?
"How did you do at school today?" "What's the score of this exam?" You must have asked the children these two sentences, just like me. Only pay attention to children's grades and performance in school every day. Actually, I feel bored. A mother who even looks down on herself believes that her children will not have any patience with me. If I insist on letting my children study for high marks in the future, then I am really stupid.
I will try to ask, "What did you learn today?" Will this lead children to summarize what they have learned today? I will also ask her, "What interesting things happened at school today?" Whether it can improve her interest in chatting with me, and at the same time make her good at expressing and improve her expressive ability.
I think a person who is proactive, good at summing up and has a strong learning ability is what the future society needs. A child who can think independently and have his own ideas can go further. In fact, I don't want to use this incident to measure my child's life. I just see that these children have done something that ordinary children dare not think about, and I can't help but feel pressure inside.
Yes, the cultivation of ability should be greater than the score. Should the child's hard work be more worthy of attention than the final result?
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