The nine commandments of successful people are important indicators of life years. Before the age of forty, you might as well learn from it and prepare as soon as possible. After 40 years old, we should deeply understand it for reference.
You should learn what you need in your field before you are 40. This is because things after the first year and the fortieth year are difficult to learn. Second, experience has proved that most successful people just look for better ways to use what they already know after they are over forty. After forty, what really matters is judgment-a sense of how to manage others-and a set of reasonable goals in life, not basic knowledge.
The basic knowledge should be mastered before the age of forty. If you are a successful person, you won't have time to learn these things after forty years. Burning the midnight oil to study is what you should do in your twenties and thirties.
Second, it is best to adopt the style that suits you best and is most beneficial to you before you are 40 years old. You'd better know what you like and feel comfortable with, whether it's the way you dress, the way you work in your daily life, or just a little unique taste that makes you different.
By the age of forty, you should be a person who has completed his own special style. You can try your own style in your twenties and thirties, but when you are forty, you shouldn't hear someone ask you in the office, "What is this?" In addition, both men and women will feel extremely unstable if they redesign their appearance style in the middle of their careers. If you want to change it, change it early, and then be firm after establishing the style. If you like dark gray suits, striped ties, suspenders, etc. , there is nothing wrong. You should turn them into your own registered trademarks. If you like getting up early, good, make it a part of your personality. Before you are forty, these should be your distinctive features.
Third, you must properly arrange your emotional problems-if possible.
If you are struggling for success, it is very beneficial to get rid of these "bumps" before the age of 40. This doesn't mean that you can't divorce or "fall in love" after 40 years old. It's just that when you climb the ladder of life, being happy is much more beneficial than falling into emotional crisis (which takes a lot of time and energy). Besides, unhappiness will deprive you of interest in other things such as illness.
Therefore, if you want to divorce, please cut off your feelings. If you want to get married, you must make a decisive decision.
Fourth, you should understand your weaknesses.
At the age of forty, only idiots don't know not to provoke their weaknesses, and only sadists will continue to punish themselves with their weaknesses. Don't expose your weakness in public. If you don't like oysters, don't order them just to prove that you dare to eat them, lest you make a fool of yourself.
If you don't like numbers, don't force yourself to accept jobs involving numbers, although the pay is better. Find a job that you really like before the age of 50, or you will find that the next twenty years after the age of 40 will be very sad-you will probably ruin your chances of real success.
You should know your own advantages.
It is best to know what you are good at, all kinds of things you like to do and do better than others before you are forty. No matter what role you play, you should know what you are, what your advantages are and so on before you are forty.
6. Nothing is shorter than being totally dependent on others. If you dare not say no, you won't do it. If you dare not venture to change careers, you will be stuck in the status quo.
You may never get a safety net, but there are always many situations in life where you have to. The most appropriate response in these situations is: "Dear friends, I quit!" If you can't say this sentence at that time, you will hate yourself later (and for a long time).
Seven, you should successfully maintain good interpersonal relationships. If you don't make a group of friends before you are forty, you will be in trouble. You must build your own network, which means that you should support their plans and listen to their questions so that they can treat you in the same way.
Eight, we must learn the method of authorization. Even if you don't have anyone to "authorize" you at present, you should start thinking about it. A person who can't authorize will find himself disabled if he is in a high position. It is better to be longer than authorized before the age of 40. The so-called authorization means that you have to pick out the right people and trust them.
Many people just can't do it and won't do it. At forty, it's too late. Authorization is half the battle.
You should learn when to use your mouth. Don't gossip and talk about your plans. Pay attention to hold the cards as tightly as possible so as not to show them. More careers have been ruined by lip service than by any other reason.
In real life, having a secret reputation is far more impressive than the superficial popularity gained by "retail investors". The further you go in your career, the more correct this statement becomes. In the top management circle, secrecy is the golden mouth.