I think there is a woman who conforms to my understanding of modern women more than 80 years ago and has not fallen behind so far. She is the goddess Lin.
She probably didn't expect that after she left for many years, her name became more and more familiar and her story was known by more and more people. She doesn't even think that people talk about her, not trying to make an objective evaluation of her, but always surrounding her and the three men around her.
Different from the fate of most women in the Republic of China, her life can be regarded as perfect, with beautiful appearance, superhuman talent, like-minded partners, lovely children, lifelong career and a friend who never leaves. She is the winner of life. All this is not so much luck as the choice and persistence of an independent woman.
A talented woman.
Lin was born in Hangzhou, Zhejiang, where a beautiful woman was born. Lin's beauty goes without saying. In addition to her natural beauty, God seems to take special care of her and give her extraordinary talent. In addition to natural intelligence, these talents are more the result of acquired efforts.
She was born in a scholarly family, her grandfather was a scholar, and her father studied in Japan and was good at poetry and calligraphy. When she was young, she lived with her grandparents and was educated by her aunt. She began to study ancient poems in primary school, which laid a solid foundation for China's classical literature.
/kloc-When she was 0/6 years old, she visited England with her father and felt the influence of English classical literature. Later, I went to America and studied with Liang Sicheng. He first entered the University of Pennsylvania to study fine arts, and then entered the Theatre Academy of Yale University to study stage art design. He also studied architecture at the University of Pennsylvania.
Influenced by Chinese and western cultures, her talent has many possibilities.
Because of this, Mrs. Living Room hosted by her was able to attract a large number of literati at that time, and she was able to participate in their conversation and say something refreshing to others. I don't love such a woman.
A persistent woman.
Speaking of Lin's talent, some people say that her poems and articles are actually her main business, and her lifelong goal is to make a difference in architecture.
/kloc-When she was 0/6 years old, she went to England with her father, where she established the idea of studying architecture. Later, she went to the United States with Liang Sicheng to study modern architecture. Unfortunately, at that time, the architecture department of the University of Pennsylvania only accepted boys, so she had to transfer to fine arts, but took most courses in architecture.
After returning to China, Liang Sicheng was in charge of the Department of Architecture of Northeastern University, and Lin followed him to teach architecture courses in Northeast China. In the early days, they undertook all the teaching tasks of the Department of Architecture.
Liang Sicheng and Lin have no previous writings and little experience to learn from, so they have to gradually accumulate first-hand information through field investigation, and then sort out their own writings. From 1930 to 1945, they traveled all over China 15 provinces and more than 200 counties, and surveyed more than 200 ancient buildings.
Can you imagine what it's like for a gentle woman to live in a bad environment like a man all day?
Even after the outbreak of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, they moved to more than half of China and finally moved to a village called Lizhuang near Yibin, Sichuan. Because of long-term displacement and lack of material, her lung disease recurred and she stayed in bed for several years, but she still didn't stop studying architecture.
After returning to Beijing, she devoted herself to cultural relics protection and architectural teaching. From the age of 16 to her death, her occupation has always been architecture, which is the goal of her life, and the rest is only leisure in her spare time.
An indomitable woman
Lin is an amazing woman. Some people say that she has a bad temper, which is not necessarily fiction.
However, in the face of right and wrong, this little woman is unambiguous.
After the outbreak of the Anti-Japanese War, their family went south with Peking University, Tsinghua and other universities, entered the southwest, and later arrived in Sichuan, where there was almost no escape. Coupled with illness, she prepared for the worst. Later, her son asked her what would you do if the Japanese really hit Sichuan? Her answer is: "Students studying in China always have a way out. Isn't the Yangtze River at our doorstep? " This is her integrity as an intellectual and China people.
Later, I returned to Beijing. At that time, a number of ancient city walls, pagodas and archways were to be demolished, but Liang Sicheng couldn't help crying. Lin was dying at that time, supporting his illness and fighting for it.
She is a woman of true temperament, without too many twists and turns. She will stick to some things she believes, regardless of the eyes of the world, even at the cost of her own life. Such a strong woman is of course a woman with a temper.
A well-proportioned woman
Once, there were three people who loved Lin deeply. One is the famous architect Liang Sicheng and her husband. One is the great poet Xu Zhimo, her pursuer; One is the philosopher Jin, who is willing to protect her life.
Is it lucky or unfortunate that a woman can get the love of three excellent men at the same time? Lucky, compared with those contemporary women who have never loved themselves deeply all their lives, she is lucky; At the same time, it is also unfortunate. A beautiful woman, even without so many suitors, is bound to be gossiped, not to mention the three famous people. Even then, I'm afraid it will inevitably be regarded with special respect.
I think Lin's attitude towards these three suitors is basically rational and decent.
Xu Zhimo used to know her. At that time in England, she was often alone in a strange environment. The appearance of Lin Zhimo not only made her feel warm, but also impressed her with his talent. A 16-year-old girl, I'm afraid she worships him more and may have a little love, but she doesn't regard him as a lover.
After returning to China, her relationship with Liang Sicheng was confirmed. She and Liang Sicheng are attracted to each other. Liang Sicheng's versatility and gentleness are her favorite types. Besides, the two of them have the same pursuit and are good partners in their careers. In character, they are complementary, one is sensible and intelligent, and the other is intellectually tolerant. Under the care of Liang Sicheng, Lin's body and mind have been fully stretched. Their marriage is ideal and realistic, or it can be a long-term marriage.
In the face of Jin Dage's care and love, Lin may be moved. She didn't hide this, but told Liang Sicheng what she thought. Facing Liang Sicheng's choice, marriage and family, reason overcame emotion, and she turned this love into another emotion, thus resolving a crisis. In the later days, the two families maintained a close relationship, and Kim lived with their son until the couple died.
I think it is unfair to deny her just because someone loves her and she is moved. She is a mortal, not a god, and she can't waver emotionally, but she solved a seemingly intractable situation with her own reason, which is worth rendering.
An ordinary and trivial woman
She is a talented woman and an ordinary woman, and naturally has a little girl's affection and temper for her children.
She has established an ordinary family, in which she is a housewife who needs to be taken care of and the mother of her children. No matter how glamorous she is in the eyes of outsiders, she can play a little temper at home and is also troubled by family conflicts. She also has difficult and sad times.
She loves beauty, too, and sometimes she doesn't fit the status of a housewife. She writes poems late at night, wears her favorite clothes, and so on. And literary but not grounded.
She will lose her temper, complain and sulk with her husband, which she has.
So she is not a god, and has the trivial and shortcomings of ordinary people.
Even so, she is already an amazing woman, who can handle the relationship between family and career, main business and interest, big festival and small section so properly. She is a standard big woman.