How much influence does parents' divorce have on their children?

Nowadays, young people are more and more avant-garde and their self-awareness is much stronger than that of the older generation. The feelings of two people come and go quickly. Once they find that their temperament is incompatible, most young couples will choose divorce to pursue freedom and the life they want. If there are children between them at this time, the biggest victim of their emotional breakdown is not children. It can be seen mainly from the following points:

1, a complete family is what children need to grow up. Mother's care and father's protection are the cradle of accompanying children to grow up. Once family interests mean that a child lacks a mother or father, it is a fatal blow to the child. These blows are not physical injuries, but mental contusions.

2, it will show insecurity in life. In the face of parents' failed marriage, it will make children feel that their parents are untrustworthy and have natural hostility to the surrounding environment. Children may deliberately avoid friends around them. Personally, they will gradually become autistic and depressed.

3. The quality of life is declining, and divorced families will face a series of support expenses. If the income of both parents is acceptable, the child's living expenses may not reflect the problem. If both parents have income problems, the child's life will be problematic.

If the family reorganization is successful, the children will get rid of the shadow of the divorce of their biological parents. If the reorganized family relationship is still not harmonious, it will hurt the children again. This ending is extremely sad.

The children trained by this family may bring a series of influences to the family in the future. Views are for reference only.