I used to be busy with work, hobbies, housework, and wandered in the trough of my life for many years. My mood was not particularly cheerful, and my interpersonal relationships were not very smooth, so I was more gloomy and hurried every day. There are many irritants and irritants.
I remember reading an article that said that several signs that people are about to get out of trouble include: ① The mentality becomes more and more sunny, and more positive thoughts come to mind when encountering difficulties; ② The interpersonal relationships, especially family relationships, become more and more optimistic. Becoming more and more harmonious and happy; ③ When encountering more problems, you can find solutions to them instead of lingering.
Fortunately, through my own efforts and those of everyone else, the above signs are becoming more and more obvious. In particular, the change in my mentality, the comfort of my mood, and the improvement of family relationships are particularly gratifying.
As the saying goes, having an elder in a family is like having a treasure. Mom is nagging me again, fame and wealth are not important, money is not important, what is important is health, look at your brother Chen (eldest brother-in-law) who insists on walking to and from get off work every day, has lost weight, and has his high blood pressure under control. Not in good health and fat. I was excited in my heart, be filial, be filial, be obedient, and listen to your mother - the busy season has just passed, and I have time to walk to and from get off work during the shift. I have the experience of walking when there is a snowstorm in winter. Maybe that way I can appreciate the different things. The same scenery...
I left as soon as I could, I ate some dumplings early, walked to work, and left the battery car at home...
Soon, I passed through Zhonggang Community, when I came to the provincial highway, I no longer had the rush and restlessness, but felt calm and comfortable. I could watch the cars going by, detached from the torrent of material desires, walk on the Minghe Bridge, and appreciate the quiet flow of the river. I quietly observe the vicissitudes and normality of the world. In the past, I was always riding a bike, surrounded by traffic and people, dangerous, nervous, and worried, but now I walk briskly...
Passing through the culvert, crossing the Workers Street, crossing the street in a few quick steps After crossing Nongong Road, I wanted to walk straight along the road, but then I suddenly thought of an article I had read before that said that taking a different route to work on another day would change the boring and repetitive state caused by work and give me a fresh and cheerful good mood. I turned around and walked into an alley on the side of the road...
The alley was very quiet and clear, with almost no one walking by. Because my feet were hot and I saw that I still had enough time, I sat down on the cement slab by the side of the road to take a nap. , turned on the mobile phone and listened to the cucurbit flute song "Jiuer" played by Mr. Li Chunhua. Thinking about the complexity of the world and the contentment of life now, I sincerely thanked the party for the kindness of the people, and casually peeled off an orange and took a piece of it in my mouth. Gently squeeze and suck, a sweet and sour taste stimulates the taste buds that have been sleeping for a long time and the feeling of intoxication becomes full of fragrance and comfortable to the body, unlike before, when I was in a hurry and had no time to take into account the inner feelings and the one in my heart that had long been ignored. "I" for a long time.
At this time, I began to pay attention to the scene in front of me. There was a small door opposite, and there was a couplet on the door. Looking carefully, there was a word "福" in the center of the door, and the couplet was "Happy family, prosperous family" Prosperous wealth, wealth, prosperity, prosperity, prosperity, good luck, prosperity, wealth, honor, and happiness are all blessings. The ordinary and precious ideals and wishes of Chinese people for thousands of years have been family-centered. Material prosperity and spiritual prosperity are a word of blessing and a kind of refuge. I used to overemphasize the importance of spiritual life, but now I understand spirituality. , material balance is good, yin and yang are good, and harmony is good. This is the wisdom of the people. Cherish the good times now, live a good life, balance yourself, and be yourself.
What a warm and beautiful home should be in front of us!
I will live a good life in the future! Not only do you need to be open-minded and let go, but you also need to ask for something!
After resting, I felt relaxed all over. I stood up and walked forward, leaving behind my imagination of material things and a better life. The scenery on the roadside in front of me was eye-catching...
Spring is here...
Those blue flowers in the green grass are blinking like stars in the sky, shining with soft light, making people feel relaxed and happy...
And the tender yellow rapeseed flowers show the lovely spring grace in the wind...
The golden dandelion flowers are also smiling, dancing, and shouting loudly Writing: "Spring, I'm here..."
Put yourself down and smell the fresh earth...
Ah, this intoxicating spring...
Yes, flowers add color to spring, and I devote myself to the motherland.
Spring is the season when all things revive; the prime of life is the age of dedication...
Work hard! Live up to the time...
As I walked forward, an antique facade came into view - a calligraphy classroom. There is a long way to go to revitalize calligraphy and Chinese studies. I revitalize literature and carry forward Taoist traditional culture. China's sense of mission has become stronger...
There are people with lofty ideals in the secluded lanes, and my heart is also excited...
Turning around and seeing the current development scene of high-end residential buildings...
After walking a few steps, I arrived at the alley, which was still lively, prosperous, modern and fashionable...
At this time, my body was light, my heart was peaceful and positive, calm but a little enthusiastic...< /p>
When I walked to the unit, I was still a little tired. I rested for a while and then slowly adjusted. I poured a glass of water and drank... I felt more detached from my work all afternoon. I felt less resentment toward my colleagues and more understanding and cooperation. My ambition and comradeship were stronger. I had less negative conflicts and anxiety in my heart. I felt more comfortable with my colleagues. People's hearts and society have more beautiful expectations and pursuits...
It is time to get out of the predicament. What is a predicament? A trapped state of mind is a predicament. Who has "trapped" your heart? No one, Only you can untie yourself.
With a good mood, I feel so relaxed and happy when I go home from get off work. Then I pass by the Minghe Bridge and see the natural beautification of my hometown in the process of urbanization. I also want to join in this hot era...
As I walked, I thought that this "walking to and from get off work" is beneficial. It exercises the body, relaxes the mood, and adjusts the mentality. It can better reflect on the past, face the present, and welcome tomorrow...
Move forward calmly, so be well...
Written on March 23, 2019