In life, you have to fight when it's time to fight. Who will sympathize with a listless young man? The following is what I arranged for you, I ho
In life, you have to fight when it's time to fight. Who will sympathize with a listless young man? The following is what I arranged for you, I hope it will be useful to you!
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The best thing is to find yourself.
Author: Zhou Juji to * * * post-90s young writers * * *
-This article is the postscript of "I just dare to be different from others"
"In this life, we will let many people fail, but in retrospect, we have failed the most. How far are we from our true selves and how far are we from happiness? What we pursue after a long trip is not necessarily a dream, but it must be that you are in Do not forget your initiative mind. " -Zhou Ju auspicious
For nearly a year, I have returned to the state of living alone. This state is that you will feel lonely occasionally, but you will not be bound by others. You can do what you want freely, even live in this world without thinking too much, and gradually start to rely on yourself. You will encounter many problems that you couldn't solve before, and you will try to learn to solve them by yourself. When you realize that you are getting stronger and stronger, maybe this state of "being alone" makes you full of pride.
I used to be a person who lost himself. Stop updating Weibo and stay away from your former friends. I wanted to work hard to make money, and I became more and more excellent seriously, but I was getting farther and farther away from happiness. During my two and a half years working in Shanghai, I gradually became an ordinary person in the eyes of my friends. They seldom mention my works or anything I wrote, but classify me as a person who is working, earning money and getting married like them. Sometimes I wonder who I really am, just like Wayne flying in Gotham sky. I often question this question, whether it is the luxurious dark knight at night or the rich master. Everyone has inner desires and desires.
At the age of 24, I gradually became gentle from an enthusiastic teenager, addicted to the shackles of work and life, and my life became monotonous. When I had enough savings to buy the goods I liked before, I found that the original time destroyed my interest, and what I thought I couldn't let go became boring.
How many people have been eager to change their lives and finally have to be changed by life.
Later, I wrote a story, two stories and three or four or five stories in the evening, and put them on my official WeChat account. From one to two fans, to 1200, and then to 5 1 10,000. With the messages from readers every night, I regain my confidence in writing. I have been thinking about what kind of life I want, but I have neglected what kind of life I could have brought to myself with my ability. This sentence may be a bit long.
I accidentally recalled an article by a friend and colleague. Girl, what you lack is the exquisiteness of the Queen, which is sought after by countless readers and reprinted by millions of media. At that time, "Wang Ye" became the object of readers' worship, and readers began to recognize me more and more. Later, one story after another was related to Wang Ye, which inadvertently contributed to the birth of this "Wang Ye Series". Maybe I don't need any extra ink to recommend this.
I am not a missionary, and I have always stressed that the life I described may not be suitable for everyone, but when we are faced with a choice, I think we must summon up courage to take responsibility for ourselves. Before adulthood, parents, teachers and elders often help us make choices, while after adulthood, family, life and time often make choices for us. We seldom live for ourselves, because we are always worried that once we choose ourselves. It became a selfish person. Perhaps, most of us are unhappy, and we begin to become like our parents, imposing the life we have never lived on our children and even the next generation. In fact, whether you choose or not, you will eventually become a selfish person.
But why not see your heart clearly and live the life you want? Maybe the life you want is more difficult than you think, and it will even make you poor, broken or even useless. However, when people are really chasing what they want, they will never feel hard. Because you love it, you know that you will approach your true self in this direction.
We will disappoint many people in this life, but in retrospect, the most failed is ourselves.
How far we are from our true selves, how far we are from happiness. What we are pursuing after a long journey may not be a real dream, but it must be you, Do not forget your initiative mind.
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Let time live up to youth
Author: Zhang Jiaxin
Laughing at rags is both pleasing and beautiful.
Time flies, I can no longer find the so-called smile, even if it is only a second, a moment of brilliance. I haven't really seen my path, but I will recall everything in the past with a pious and lonely mind. Because many beautiful things are short-lived, such as fireworks, such as love.
Living in memory, because I am not used to loneliness, I often cry, slow down the pace of youth, prevent the eternal flow from being put into fairy tales, and stand at the highest point of the fleeting time to see the loneliness flooding.
I often wonder if one day, time will languish with me and those memories will never come back. Because there are memories, there is always not much missing in my heart, so it is very fulfilling. When I am alone, I always think of that sentence. I will go to No Country for Old Men one day, please leave me then.
Even if life is lonely, I still smile, and together with the picturesque fleeting time, it will make a meaningful taste.
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All the laziness you steal will turn into a slap in the face.
Author: Wu Xiaoshi * * * Post-90s young author * * *
Excerpt from WeChat official account: Shi
I practiced calligraphy in primary school, and I have to carry an ink bottle to my teacher's house on weekends. The bottle was not tightened, and the stationery in my bag was stained with ink. So I'm sulking. I think calligraphy is too annoying, difficult to learn and troublesome. I don't want to go after studying for a few days.
Later, when I was in high school, I couldn't get the ideal score in Chinese composition. I stubbornly asked the teacher why. He said: "Good writing, ugly words." When I went to the school to organize an essay contest, the teacher even suggested to me, "Find a classmate who is good at writing and help you copy it, otherwise the possibility of winning the prize is very small."
The coach had a bad temper when he took the driver's license test in Grade Two. I was scolded and cried twice, humiliating my IQ n times. I was angry with myself and said that I would study for a while, and then I simply didn't go to driving school again. I'm graduating now, and I don't have a driver's license yet. When I go home during the Spring Festival, taxis in my small city don't open the meter during the Spring Festival. Need 10 yuan, I can say 30 without sitting. I'm busy at home, and I have a free car at home, but I can't drive. I can only stop a taxi and send it to them to kill customers.
There are also half swimming, the art of fishing for three days and drying the net for two days, and the word "back tomorrow" ... they all jumped out to embarrass me when they were caught off guard. "Karma" is really an eternal truth, and all laziness will become a slap in the face.
When the new home is decorated, some furniture is hand-made. When the carpenter was working in my house, the door was open and ventilated, and an old man from the neighbor's house came in to see it.
The old man said that he still regrets not learning to be a carpenter. It turns out that when he was young, he studied carpentry with the master, but he didn't want to learn it, because he thought it was too delicate and troublesome, and there was still a hole in his hand. Next, the old man wanted to do some light work, so he went to work along the coast with his relatives.
But the old man has no skill. He has been to brick-moving sites and assembly line factories, and finally he has been busy for more than ten years, but he still hasn't settled down in a big city, so he has to go back to his hometown to do some small business.
The partners who once studied carpentry with themselves have now become respected craftsmen in the local area, and even opened their own furniture factories. And he can only stand at the door of strangers and appreciate others "showing" the technology he once gave up.
I remember Cai Kangyong wrote: At the age of 65,438+05, I found it difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming. 65,438+08 years old, when you meet someone you like and ask you to go swimming, you have to say "I can't". 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't".
The more troublesome my early life is, the lazier I am to study, and the easier it is to miss the people and things I am interested in and the new scenery later.
I deeply feel that this is a "truth" now. You are lazy when you lose weight. In summer, when the streets are full of skinny legs, you can only sulk about your fatness. When you are lazy at school, when your classmates go to famous schools and enterprises one by one, you can only complain about your lack of talent in the middle of the night.
All the stolen laziness will turn into a slap in the face. I don't know how to persuade a lazy man to turn over a new leaf. All I know is that it hurts to hit the face, and it looks ugly when it is swollen.