I think
First of all, two people with the same happiness are not as likely to have a sexual resonance as two people with the same suffering.
This is quite reasonable.
Tokugawa Iemo and Wamiya are two people who have the same suffering. It is easy for such two people to cherish each other, and then it is easy to want to find happiness together.
Secondly, judging from the personal situations of the two of them,
When Jia Mao first became a general, because he was young, he still needed to learn various cultural courses, including Calligraphy, his calligraphy teacher was Togawa Yasukiyo, a famous calligrapher in Japan at the time. The old man was over 70 years old at the time. During one teaching session, Iemo suddenly slapped the water in the brush washing tank with his hand, causing it to fly out. He sprinkled it all over the floor, and then said to Togawa Yasuki with a smile: "Sir, let's study tomorrow." After saying that, he walked out directly. The staff who were around at the time felt incredible, because this was completely different from the usual Iemo. People, look at Togawa Yasuki, the old gentleman was crying silently by himself at the desk. Everyone quickly went up to pass tissues to comfort him, saying that the general was still young after all, and he might be having fun for a while. Don't be sad, old man. Kawayasu Qing just shook his head and said nothing. He understood in his heart that the reason why Ie Mao did this was actually because he was incontinent for a while and his urine dripped on the ground. He saw this. It was only because of the old man's physical condition that Ie Mo poured water everywhere to cover up his teacher, but after all, it was a very rude behavior in front of the general, and it was normal even if he was punished or expelled. Before leaving, he said: "Let's study tomorrow", which is equivalent to telling Togawa Yasuki that I don't care, please continue to be my teacher. A person who can be considerate of others and has a kind heart is. It is very remarkable, and it is also the first condition for becoming a great monarch.
(Quoted from Tokugawa Iemo's encyclopedia)
It can also be seen in the answer of the above person. , for a kind-hearted person like Tokugawa Iemo, he would most likely pity and love this woman who is the same age as him, and even in the same situation, and have a heart-to-heart relationship with her.
But is it still love? What about love? Or both? I think either way is rare, and a woman who is so pampered by such a person is very happy.
p>The first is her death poem: The poem written by るとてもNow Kafi なきからごろも竫もにしきも君ありてこそ is covered with gorgeous silk, my beauty is only for you to appreciate, but the one I love is no longer here! In the world.
Then, after the death of Iemo, who was also mentioned above, Wagoniya fought for a way out for the Tokugawa clan. Although it was probably forced, her performance was more like coming from the heart. .
The next thing is one of her burial objects
A photo plate of an adult samurai was found among the funerary objects in the Japanese palace. However, due to the serious damage, it is still impossible to identify the person in the photo. Who is the man? Generally speaking, it is her husband Tokugawa Iemo, but some people think that it is Prince Sugawa Shiren who was originally married to Kazumiya, or it may be a third party, and she is the princess. Living in purdah, she has little chance of contacting men, and the situation remains the same even after she gets married or loses her husband, so the possibility of the first two is quite high. And if she marries such a kind-hearted young man with a similar situation to herself at the age when she first starts to fall in love, and if the other person treats him with pity and love, it is almost certain that she will fall in love with him.
To sum up, even if Wagoniya and Tokugawa Iemo are not in love, they will have a precious bond that is beyond ordinary people, because they have the same special life experience, special encounters, and the special era they live in. These two people who witnessed the turmoil and turbulence together may be bound together by higher emotions beyond worldly understanding.