Parents are the first teachers of the children. In primary school, children who can't be independent in all aspects have a natural dependence on us, so he should imitate our natural nature. Everything we say and do at home affects our children all the time. Their eyes and hearts have been following, recording and feeling their parents' actions. If both parents love reading, there are very few children who don't. Imagine that after dinner, parents always hold books and concentrate on reading, so will children be aroused to explore reading? They will definitely think: there must be some secrets in the book, otherwise how can parents be so focused! With this in mind, children will naturally turn to books for help. If parents use snacks more, they will read books suitable for children as their own books (professional books) in front of them. When children read books by themselves, they will naturally find a new world and will naturally be attracted. In addition, when the TV is turned off and the computer is not turned on, and both parents are reading books, when the child feels that he has nothing to do, he will be influenced and inspired by his parents first and find a book to read. In the long run, you can't keep your children from reading. Because he is like you, reading has become a part of his life, and he has formed a habit. If he doesn't study for a day, he will feel something missing, insecure and uncomfortable. Therefore, as long as our parents love reading and have the habit of reading, then we really don't have to worry about children not loving reading. To say the least, it doesn't matter much if our children are not influenced by themselves and don't like reading, because you have read so many books and love reading, and you will find a good way from them.
A parent asked Uncle Dong Hao,
He also said that his writing was influenced by his father, who was a calligrapher. In fact, such examples are too numerous to mention. This tells us that the simplest, most effective and practical way to cultivate children's reading habits and interests is our parents' demonstration and example. For children's love of reading, let parents pick up books and read them first. 2. Creation of the environment (1) No matter whether you have a bright room of several hundred square meters or a dim small residence of only a few tens of square meters, as long as you have children, you should strive to create a clean, tidy and scholarly family living environment for them. Of course, there should be books on the bookcase, bookshelf and desk. There should also be books on the bedside, under the pillow and on the coffee table. Even we have to put two books in the bathroom so that children can see and feel the books in their daily lives. We should let children know that books are necessary for family life and his own life. Children in primary schools must be made aware of this. Go to the bookstore with your children regularly to choose books to buy books, increase the collection of books, give them a special seal for collecting books, {let them exchange reading books,} teach them to label books, set up files, cover books, etc. This will provide good conditions for children to love reading and create a scholarly world. (2) The calligraphy and painting on the wall, the flowers and plants on the windowsill and the light music in the tape recorder will also add a lot of color to your scholarly world. As soon as the children get home, they can feel a peaceful and elegant atmosphere from vision to hearing. Think about it, in such a small world, what kind of performance will children have? Will he still shout and be rude? What will he do when he has finished his homework and finished his meal? Besides listening to music and daydreaming, can he turn over books? (3) It is also important to cultivate children's good reading habits, make children love reading, and parents control their children's bad emotions. At present, the social competition is fierce and the work pressure is great. Many parents are anxious because of work or physical health, and sometimes it is normal to be in a bad mood. However, if we don't think about our children and control ourselves, and take these bad emotions home, show them on our faces and vent them on our family, then we will inadvertently cast a cloud over our family, making the air at home oxygen-deficient, and even releasing the smell of gunpowder, which will make our children feel nervous, afraid and depressed unconsciously. At this time, even if the child picks up the book, he can't read it or read it. And your emotions are easily transmitted to children, causing psychological shadows to children. After the child picks up this book, the atmosphere you created (brought) will reappear and the child's feelings will reappear. Therefore, it is very important for parents to leave their troubles outside the door and bring happiness home. If parents quarrel and fight, then don't say that children love reading. I'm afraid it is quite difficult for children to finish their homework on time. Therefore, parents and friends, life is unsatisfactory, control yourself, and then control yourself; For the children, for yourself! 3. Parents' guidance
We are all full of love for our children. The children's future and future are in our hands. It is very important to cultivate children's good character and behavior habits in primary school. Love reading is one of children's good behaviors. To cultivate children's interest and habit in reading and make them fall in love with reading, some of our parents still need to use their brains and skills. We might as well do it from the following aspects: (1) Say a. If children are present when eating and doing housework, we must talk to our family (the other half) with relish about the books we have read or are reading (certainly not profound professional books or theoretical books).
Or consciously argue with the other half about the problems in the book. If the child is attracted, one party can treat the child as an adult, ask the child for advice, and let the child do it himself. If you are not sure, you can open the book, * * * the content related to reading, or find the relevant content and let the children read it to you.
The advantages of doing this are: a. Let children feel respected. B, let children know that books can help reasoning. C, let children find it interesting to talk about books. D, at the same time cultivate children's thinking and expression skills. B, often mention the contents of children's books, and discuss with children, so that children feel that the books they read are also liked by adults, so that his reading behavior is recognized and a sense of pride is generated. Talking about new books. Talk about the sales of new books, the author of new books or the awards won, thus arousing children's desire to read. D, tell the influence of a few details in the book on yourself or a generation. Let children feel the magical power of books. 2. Listen
We all know Wang Gang's nights in Harbin, Dan Tianfang, Yuan Kuocheng and Liu Lanfang. We are more aware that we love reading, and one of the important reasons is listening to those wonderful storytelling and novels. Listening is not enough, listening is urgent, so I look for books to borrow everywhere. Elvis Presley, The Romance of Sui and Tang Dynasties, followed by Four Great Classical Novels, etc. Are read because they are interesting. So a good broadcast, such as continuous broadcast of novels and storytelling, poetry reading, etc. Listen to it often, so that children may fall in love with reading. (3) Ask
Read beautiful chapters together. One for you and one for me. If you read in different roles, sometimes you can reverse the roles, and deliberately let the children read the words of adults and parents read the words of children. If possible, it can be recorded and played, and if satisfied, it can be recommended to schools or radio stations. In this way, children can feel the warmth of reading and cultivate their own thoughts and sentiments in reading aloud. 5. Talk
Tell the wonderful fragments of the book vividly, and the most important place comes to an abrupt end, deliberately leaving suspense and deliberately hiding the book.
Get up. No time warp next time.
. The child's appetite has been suspended, and it is strange that he does not look for books. Of course, the content of the book you are talking about must be suitable for children's age and personality characteristics. If a child is in the third or fourth grade, I dare say that if I use a little content from Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone, he will be fascinated to read the whole book. Generally speaking, it takes 2 1 day to form a good habit. 2 1 day is not enough for children to read seven Harry Potter books. Therefore, when he finished reading these books, his reading interests and habits had already formed. If you introduce the adventures of Harburg Finn again,
, "Two Wan Li under the Sea", "Robinson Crusoe" or, Yang, Cao Wenxuan and so on, they will step by step into the world of books. (6) Look
Watching movies is also a good way for our parents to guide their children to read. After watching several classic blockbusters and then looking for the original works to read, children will know the difference between movies and the original works or scripts, and they will know more if they know how to read, so they will continue reading. please
Invite parents, friends or children who love reading to visit home and exchange reading experience and books. Let children make friends with books, enhance their interest in reading with book friends, and affirm their love for reading with book friends. Gorky said:
Books are the ladder of human progress.
I said that books are essential nutrients for our mental health and life growth. Books enrich our minds, make our souls beautiful and make our manners more civilized. Some people say that primary school students' reading is called eating books, because reading will make primary school children grow bones and muscles. It is meaningful for us to think about this problem.
Parents and friends, pick up books and pick up books with our children!