No one is perfect, and the 360 industry will be the best. Maybe you can't do this, and you may be much better than others in other aspects. In other words, if God closes a door for you, he will open another window for you. Just because an introverted boy has poor language skills and a stupid mouth doesn't mean that he doesn't have a skill (also called technical expertise). In China, there are many successful introverted boys, such as some famous singers: Jay Chou, Karry, Wallace Huo, Mao Bu, Jackson Yi, Jam Hsiao and so on. Famous actors: Li Youbin, Stephen Chow and Liu Qian. , as well as some well-known great painters, scientists, conductors, writers and calligraphers in China. Most of them are so introverted. They have achieved everything with their own specialties, and introverted boys are not easy to change. Profession can be one of their preferred directions. Nowadays, popular industries are vocal music, oil painting, sand painting, dance, musical instrument performance and calligraphy. If you are an introverted single boy, you can consider your skills and see which one is your strong point. If you feel that your strength is similar, you can also sign up for several extra-long classes and find a tutor to help you. You will know which is simpler and which is more in the process of learning. At that time, you can choose a major that you are best at as your future development. For example, you sing very well, and then the teacher will teach you what kind of voice to sing some songs with different bass, tenor and treble. If you are sure to learn for a period of time, you can sing it to everyone live, focus on your own specialties, and don't have to say much. The audience asked you what to say, but you kept singing without asking. If you sing well, you will naturally attract the audience's attention. Then, you will record more singing videos and send them to your circle of friends, which will be faster automatically, Tik Tok. Show your best side and let everyone know your advantages in this respect. Similarly, if you sing well, people will take the initiative to pay attention to your contact information. When more and more people pay attention to you, they will recommend you to sing well, and the TV station will let you participate in the competition. If you sing well, you will naturally become famous. When you are famous, you can make a lot of money by advertising a product. Some girls you like are chasing you. It doesn't matter if you are stupid. Talk less, sing more and create more. If you do well, the audience will give you a solid backing and will not be bullied. The same is true of other majors. If you go to find professors and teachers for a period of time, you will have a good foundation and great confidence. In addition, if you study hard at ordinary times, you can develop more of your own works and speak with your own strength and practical actions. Everyone will appreciate your merits, and naturally there will be girls who like you, or Malik Hua Teng of Tencent and Jack Ma of Ali, who will start businesses with their brains and technology. Now they are the richest people, and some people are very rich. Introverted boys can speak with their own skills and strength, and they can go to a technical school to learn a skill or craft. When they really go to work, you can show your best side to everyone, so that everyone will not crowd you out and the boss will be willing to promote you. Naturally, there will be girls who are optimistic about your advantages in this respect. In short, introverted boys who want to take off their bills can strengthen themselves with their own skills, only yours.
2. Make yourself strong and stop being introverted.
To put it bluntly, introverted boys have low emotional intelligence. What they lack most is the ability of language expression. They don't know what they are talking about, but they are more likely to offend people. Opening is a cold word. They don't know how to refuse, are not flexible, have no opinion, and are always obedient and patient. They have poor comprehension ability, they can't understand what others want to say when talking to him, they don't know humor and they can't make jokes, so girls think that being with such a boy will be boring, and being with this boy will not bring her security. If introverted boys want to take off their bills, they should read more books on language expression, such as puppy love, to improve their emotional intelligence. Why don't people like what I say? Humor communication studies, by reading many books about language expression, can learn a lot of language expression skills from books, how to be a person, how to be flexible when meeting people, or how to refuse when encountering unclear things or colleagues and bosses ask you to do some thankless work. The book has its own golden house and endless knowledge. Read more books and you will understand some speaking skills. You won't offend others, then learn more knowledge and speak with knowledge. Many times you can't keep up with others' words, which also shows that your knowledge is too old and you don't oppress others. Only when you learn more and know more can you have something to say and do more oral communication and reading comprehension questions. Introverted boys generally lose points when answering reading comprehension and oral communication questions. You should improve your understanding ability from the third grade. Only you can understand the meaning of the article, the meaning of a word and the thoughts and feelings expressed. As long as you can ensure that the reading comprehension rate is above 80% and the most basic comprehension questions can be answered correctly, you will understand the article, so your communication will not be greatly discounted, and then you will listen to how others communicate and speak.
3. Go to crowded places to exercise your expressive ability.
Introverted boys can change themselves. If you want to change yourself, you should speak more in crowded places, make yourself confident, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, speak boldly and do boldly. You should take the initiative to chat with everyone, family, hobbies, news, geography, and express your thoughts, and don't be afraid of offending people. Everyone has a process of change, and only you have enough courage to let it go. Everyone will agree that you know what kind of person you are. You often go out and communicate with everyone, and everyone will recognize you a little. Then they will also have your contact information and keep calling every day. One more friend is another way to become talkative in a crowded environment and should be integrated into the group. After a long time, you will become lively and cheerful from introversion. Or you can do some auxiliary work to exercise yourself, such as sales, receptionists and waiters. Many of them were introverted before they were qualified for the job. Look at them now, they are all eloquent, and they are all trained by forcing themselves to talk and love to talk. When you work in such an occasion, you must force yourself to do it. I love to talk, and I usually listen more, so I can make up for my own shortcomings through the strengths of others.
Therefore, if introverted boys want to get rid of the bill, you should change yourself, don't make yourself introverted and sluggish, make yourself strong, sunny, cheerful, read more books, learn more knowledge and listen more, witness your strength with a skill, and let everyone appreciate your advantages in this respect, learn a technology and speak with skills and strength. Only when you become strong, you will naturally get rid of the bills and girls will value you.