Husband completely loses sexual ability, should he divorce?

My name is Cai Cai. I am only 27 years old this year. My husband has completely lost his sexual function. We have been married for three years, and we don't even have a child.

My husband and I went to college together. In college, he was handsome, sunny, got good grades, played basketball well and wrote beautifully. In liberal arts colleges with many girls, such a boy must be the object pursued by girls, so I could only like him silently in my heart at that time, but I didn't dare to risk the whole school to chase him. But who would have thought that he would leave so many beautiful girls behind and fall in love with an unattractive and talented me?

After four years in college, I feel that my greatest achievement is not studying, but actually having him. I can't believe that he really likes me, so I dare not hold hands with him, let alone make intimate moves. At that time, most of the classmates who were in love would rent a house outside, but I never even kissed him, because I always thought he might just tease me, and it was just my dream that he liked me. He didn't blame me at all. Instead, he cherishes me even more, saying that I am a silly girl worth cherishing.

My classmates and family said I was a lucky silly girl, because after graduating from college, we both found good jobs, and in the same city, in order to save living expenses and prove his sincerity to me, he proposed to me the next year after graduation, and we got married. Until then, we have been holding hands at most. It was not until our wedding night that we really had close contact. The feeling of timidity and shyness, I feel very beautiful when I think about it.

My husband is a very good person, and he knows how to work hard. Although he graduated only four years ago, he has established himself in the company and has a bright future. Because of his outstanding year-end performance, we both got loans to buy a house after working for two years. In order to repay the loan as soon as possible and let me live a better life, he makes full use of his specialty and does some part-time jobs related to calligraphy and art after work, often busy until midnight. Even during the Spring Festival last year, he used the weekend to sell his own Spring Festival couplets on the street.

Although we don't have a good economic foundation yet, our life is getting better and better. What is even more rare is that our relationship is really good. We have seldom quarreled in recent years. I can't believe our love. It is said that couples get tired after being together for a long time, but we are really not tired at all. As long as we have time, we are always tired of it. We cook at home every day. On the one hand, we pay off the loan in advance to save money. On the other hand, he wants to cook for me himself, and I am willing to wash and cook for him.

He is the only Xin Wei in the family, and he has hardly suffered since he was a child. However, after we got married, he learned to cook and wash clothes. He does all the housework well. Although his family is very good, when we got married, his parents were willing to give us money to buy a house and a car, but he refused. He said that we create our own lives and have no right to make our parents suffer for us. Although I bought a house with a loan and didn't have a car to drive, I feel particularly happy and not afraid of hardships because of such an enterprising husband. I know our life will get better soon.

But who knows that something unexpected will happen one day. Last May, when we went out to climb the mountain together, he accidentally rolled down the hillside, but a protruding stone hit his crotch. He endured the pain for several days, thinking that two days' rest would be fine. But after more than a week, it still hurts, and there is no feeling in that part. After going to the hospital for examination, the result made us both blindsided. His private parts seem to be seriously injured, and the doctor said it might affect his sexual life.

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