People often say that a person's life is to walk a long, long road alone.
But this road of life does not end in a straight line, and there are often nine twists and turns along the way.
if you don't know how to turn in time, you will easily walk into a dead end, and it will be difficult to go on.
Only when you know how to turn can you avoid all obstacles on the road and keep on the road to your life goal.
there are dead ends everywhere in life, and there will be a turning point when turning.
everyone is eager to have a smooth life all the way. But there are always too many disappointments in life, which hinder us from moving forward.
in the face of life's unhappiness, some people will cling to it and never look back until they hit the south wall.
I don't know, however, that if you are too obsessed, you will not only fail to solve the problem, but also add to the road.
Only by learning to give up unnecessary persistence and rationally adjusting your direction can you easily move on to the next journey.
There was once a young man who was determined to be a writer from an early age.
To this end, he keeps writing hard every day and hopefully sends articles to newspapers and magazines.
But after more than ten years, all he received was a rejection letter.
He thinks that as long as he persists, he will be able to "grind an iron pillar into a needle" and his own manuscript will always be appreciated.
however, when he was 3 years old, he received a special reply from the newspaper editor who insisted on contributing for many years.
The editor wrote:
"You have persisted in contributing to us for so long, which shows that you are a hard-working young man. But I regret to tell you that your knowledge is not rich enough and your writing is relatively pale, which is not suitable for being a writer.
But I found from your contributions for many years that your pen handwriting is getting better and better. Maybe you can try a new direction. "
the editor's words woke him up. After much thinking, he decided to give up the ideal of writing and try to practice calligraphy.
in the end, he finally succeeded.
And he is the famous hard-pen calligrapher Zhang Wenju.
Zhou Guoping once said: "Life is inherently flawed, and compromise is needed in life. Refusing to compromise and getting along with yourself is actually a kind of stupidity and ignorance of life. "
in life, it is easy to meet dead ends everywhere, but as long as you are willing to turn, you can meet new opportunities.
Knowing how to turn is a kind of wisdom.
Once there were two farmers who had to climb a mountain every day to plough the land.
one day, they picked up two big bags of cotton on their way home. The two were overjoyed and hurried home with a bag of cotton on their backs.
as they walked, they picked up fine linen again. One of the farmers suggested that they put down the cotton together and go home with linen instead.
who knows, my companion insisted on not changing linen. He had to carry the linen on his back and continue on his way with his companions.
after a walk, they found several altars of gold by the roadside. The farmer with linen on his back quickly invited his companion to put down cotton and take gold instead, but his companion still refused to leave cotton behind.
He put down his linen cloth alone, took the gold and continued on his way with his companions.
unfortunately, when I walked down the hill, it suddenly rained heavily.
The cotton was too heavy after being wet by the rain, so the companion couldn't carry the heavy cotton, so he reluctantly gave up and ran home with the farmer who took the gold empty-handed.
persistence is a good character. But meaningless persistence will make you take many detours.
Farmers who insist on carrying cotton will not miss the opportunity of linen and gold if they know how to change their minds in time, and even cotton will have to give up in the end.
a really smart person has learned to turn when he can't get what he wants.
people who don't know how to turn can only stand still and can't move forward.
As the saying goes, "Change makes sense, but general rules last for a long time."
knowing how to turn is a kind of wisdom.
In life, when encountering difficulties and setbacks, if you don't think of the best solution, you might as well turn a corner and be flexible.
Many times, when we turn around and turn a corner, we will find that there is a bright way out in the other direction beside us.
people must know how to turn corners
As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success.
On our way to success, we will experience many failures and meet many dead ends. Only by learning to turn around and start again can we truly embrace success.
In fact, life is like a process of drilling a well.
if you can't pump water in one place, you will only waste more time and energy if you persist in fighting, and in the end, it will be in vain.
Turn a corner in time, find a place where water is easier to come out and drill a well, so as to find sweet and clear spring water.
You know, there is no ship that never adjusts its course in the sea. No one's life is always the same.
In life, we should not only know how to move forward, but also know how to turn corners, constantly adjust our pace and gradually adapt to the road under our feet.
As the old saying goes, "When you go to the water-poor road, you will cross it, and you will see that the sky is high in Yun Qi."
people must know how to turn.
when the road is blocked, you can enjoy another wonderful and beautiful scenery by turning a direction for your life at the right time.
Author: Jing Jing, a post-9s generation who crisscrossed the north and ran wildly on the road to starting a business, is a warm-hearted royal elder sister in the hearts of millions of readers. The five senses seem tender, but the heart is king. Personal wechat: jingxin2746. Please contact jingxin2746 for reprinting.
threshold thinking: change is not as difficult as you think.