? Do you know what the word "scholarly family" means? I specifically checked Baidu, and the explanation on Baidu is: books generally refer to the four books and five classics. A book on the wisdom of three religions. Incense refers to the ancestral temple and genealogy at home. Door means that the status of family is recognized in society. First, it means that every 100 years in the family, a person who has a great responsibility to society is born. Such a family can be called a scholarly family. In the history of China, scholarly family is a family model that transcends wealth, nobility and fame. This family model, which has accumulated and evolved in thousands of years of history, can be like a lotus, muddy but not dirty, green but not evil. Family members of scholarly family, whether poor or rich, can adhere to self-cultivation and govern the country, and complete the important task of carrying on the family line under the pattern of self-interest and benefiting others.
? We all know that there must be a study in the ancient scholarly family. As the saying goes, one desk, one chair, one window and one screen a day. The study, also known as the study in ancient times, was a place where scholars used to read, write, clean or work. In addition to the study, many families with scholarly families put portraits or genealogies of their ancestors in the middle of the living room, with a guqin hanging on the left and many books on the right. So that guests will pay special attention to this family style when they visit. There are still some traditions in some ethnic villages with a long history. You may not play the piano, but you must study. Every year there are couplets or poems written by children at home. Whoever writes a good poem is a rich boy. The ancients also circulated two sentences, one is "a gentleman's seat, you must play the piano and write a book"; The other sentence is "A gentleman entertains himself with a piano book". "Zuo Qin you Shu" means that a scholar should become a gentleman, read sage books and play guqin, and none of them can be less; And "entertaining yourself with piano books" means that a gentleman wants to make his inner life happy. On the one hand, he should read the truth of sages, on the other hand, he should play guqin to achieve inner harmony.
? On the other hand, our present family. What is a rich family? Whoever has an expensive house and an expensive car is the richest. Where is the left piano and right book in the living room at home? It has been replaced by an "idiot box". What is this? television Television is a "TV box" or plug-in drug. Where there is any family style, it has long been replaced by everyone brushing jokes together. Therefore, I think that if we want to cultivate good children and make our family close to the "scholarly family", we must use the concept of cultural education to design the home environment and recreate the scholarly family.
? The first step to rebuild a scholarly family is to adjust and improve the spatial layout and home furnishings of each family. Starting from the living room, kitchen, bedroom, study room and children's room, we will create an educational "environment" from the perspectives of traditional culture, education, psychology and design, and turn our attention to the direction of creating a scholarly family, so that every room and every furnishings in the family will become a classroom or teaching aid to cultivate children's minds and help them grow up.
1, the living room as far as possible, get rid of the "stupid box" in exchange for the book.
2, study, if possible, be sure to design a study, it doesn't matter if it is bigger or smaller, if it can be designed as a piano room for books or a study for pianos.
3. Quit TV, game consoles and sofas in children's rooms.
4. The kitchen/dining room is not only a place to cook or eat, but also a loving food and education class.
The bedroom is not only a place to sleep, but also a paradise where you can study and create everywhere.
May your family style be hidden in casual details, which will certainly touch people's hearts, surprise the years and be gentle.
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