(A), to cultivate children's interest in learning
Children's interests often arise at an early age. Children's interests often have their own uniqueness at different ages because of their different qualities. The development and performance of a child's interest is often a harbinger of his talent and quality. Parents should always ask their children what their interests are and guide them to develop their interests continuously. A scholar once compared a child's interest in learning and upward enthusiasm to a small spark that parents scatter in their children's hearts. When parents light this fire in their children's hearts, it is like facing a pile of firewood that needs to be lit. It will blow out when the wind is strong. When the wind is weak, it will not burn. The firewood is too tight and too loose to catch fire. At this time, you should take good care of this small flame, "coax" it to ignite a little, flourish and finally become a raging fire.
So, how to cultivate children's interest in learning in family education?
1, enhance learning fun and cultivate direct interest.
2. Clear the purpose of learning and cultivate indirect interest.
3. Use children's curiosity to cultivate interest in learning.
4. Create an external environment conducive to cultivating interest in learning.
Only fertile soil can produce good crops, and only a good family environment can cultivate extremely intelligent children. First of all, parents should set an example and love learning. Parents are their children's first teachers, and teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. If parents urge their children to study hard, but often play mahjong all night, then the child is probably not interested in how to study hard, but how to play good cards; I'm afraid this is not scientific knowledge but a trick. If parents hold a book and a cup of tea after dinner, sit at the table and write on the table, children will often read and study.
(B), effective attention training
Good attention is an important factor that cannot be ignored with children's growth. Developing good attention in early childhood is the basis of achieving a career when you grow up, but children are naturally active and playful, so it is difficult to concentrate on something. Therefore, in the targeted training of "concentration", we must create a "step by step, unexpected" gradient, so that children's minds will not gradually fade. Here are some experiences to cultivate children's attention:
1, repeat the exercise.
2, jigsaw puzzles and jigsaw puzzles
3. Domino practice
4. Anti-interference exercises
(3) Develop the habit of reading.
The influence of books on children should not be underestimated. Books not only teach him knowledge and bring him to know the world, but also have a positive impact on his language ability, thinking ability, understanding ability and personality development. Good reading habits will benefit him for life.
(1), accompanying children is to accompany them to look at the pictures in the picture book. You can look at the pictures with them and make up stories to cultivate their interest in pictures.
(2) Performance is to perform actions after reading a story or children's song, such as how the rabbit did it, how the elephant saved the rabbit, and how the wolf did it, and perform according to the plot.
(3) Asking questions First, ask the children questions. Parents of small kindergartens can ask some simple questions, such as who are the people in the story, what they are doing, who do you like, and so on. Parents of middle and large classes should ask more "why and how" questions, so that children can fully think.
(4) Develop the habit of active (autonomous) learning.
Don't arrange your child's time according to your own wishes, leave more time for him to arrange it himself. If he is young and can't think of any activities to arrange by himself, you can give him more suggestions to choose from. Encourage children to take the initiative to explore, not too many unnecessary "no"; Don't disturb your child when he is concentrating on something, try not to rush him, and don't keep reminding him that he can't do this or that. Don't rush to help your child when he has difficulty in solving the problem. You can give him more advice. Don't rush to tell your child the result, give your child enough time to find out for himself; Don't do homework checks and bags instead of children, and don't get into the habit of watching children do homework all day. Let the children do these things by themselves.
(5) Cultivate children's memory.
Memory is a treasure house of knowledge. With memory, intelligence can continue to develop and knowledge can continue to accumulate. Here are a few games that help to enhance children's memory.
Generally speaking, habits can be formed in purposeful and planned training or in an unconscious state. And good study habits must be formed in conscious training, which is the fundamental difference between study habits and general habits. Because, compared with other habits, it will be very difficult to change bad study habits after they are formed, which is not conducive to children's growth.