Han Xin was a famous strategist in the early Han Dynasty. His parents died when he was young, and his family was poor, but he studied hard, was familiar with the art of war, and had the ambition to make the country prosperous and the people safe. Suffering from lack of livelihood and being forced to do so, he had a light meal in a familiar family, and sometimes went fishing on the Huaihe River for money, which was repeatedly discriminated against and ignored by people around him. On one occasion, a group of hooligans humiliated Han Xin in public.
A butcher said to Han Xin, Although you are tall and big, you like to carry a sword with you. At that time, you were timid. Dare you stab me with your sword? If you don't dare, hide under my crotch. Han Xin knew that he was alone, and recklessly would certainly suffer. So, in front of many onlookers, I got the butcher's crotch.
History books call it "the humiliation of the crotch." Han Xin, who was guarded by a halberd under Xiang Yu's account, visited shrines for several years and built many rare treasures, eventually becoming a vassal of Chu-Han War. This all-powerful military figure, his combat tactics are highly praised by later strategists.
2. sigmund freud
At that time, Freud had just obtained a doctor's degree in medicine and was keen on studying eel spinal ganglion in the laboratory. But a chance encounter changed everything.
Martha Behnas, a friend of Freud's sister. When Freud first met her, she was sitting in the living room of Freud's house, peeling an apple in the afternoon full of orange sunshine. Freud's gentle face and elegant posture made him stare at the glass specimens in the laboratory every day and bid farewell to the microscope.
"She felt that I didn't dare to pursue women, so she calmly walked up to me. She gave me confidence and gave me new hope and vitality, which was exactly what I needed at that time. "
Freud started dating Martha, and their feelings warmed up. It wasn't long before they got engaged. Just then, Martha's family moved to Hamburg. At this point, Freud has been deeply attached to Martha and left Martha. He felt that everything was out of order.
He wrote to Martha every day, then began to blame her for moving, and finally he began to doubt Martha's purity and profundity in love. Freud's groundless suspicion made Martha very angry. She scolded him rudely ... Freud realized his mistake and expressed regret. In tribulation, love matures gradually.
3. Kangxi
Kangxi was a famous emperor in Qing Dynasty. When he was in power, the politics of the Qing dynasty gradually stabilized and the national strength gradually became stronger. In A.D. 166 1 year, Aisingiorro Michelle Ye, who was only 8 years old, was promoted to the throne of the dragon and became Emperor Kangxi. Michelle Ye ascended the throne at a young age. Although he has been carefully cultivated by his grandmother, it is still too early to shoulder the heavy responsibility of the country.
Especially at that time, the minister of Fuzheng, headed by Ao Bai, took advantage of the young people in Michelle Ye and the humble women in the small village to grasp the power of state affairs. In North Korea, for self-interest, they form gangs, play politics and are arrogant. They didn't take little Kangxi seriously, even sourdrang queen had to put up with it. Kangxi, a youthful man, tried several times to punish Ao Bai, but the strength was far from perfect. If the time is not ripe, he can only throw eggs at stones.
Therefore, Kangxi buried his grievances and anger in his heart and has been accumulating strength. Finally, in 1669, 16-year-old Kangxi launched an offensive and wiped out Ao Bai and his gang in one fell swoop. Later, the "San Francisco" was pacified, Taiwan Province Province was recovered, the invasion of Russia was repelled, and a prosperous time was created.
The incarnation of maturity
Maturity consists of two parts, one is the pursuit of beauty, and the other is the acceptance of disability.
Yi Shu said: A mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer strange people, and everyone has his own difficulties.
I think silence is a sign of growth, and a sign of maturity is how to be silent. I can't say we live like summer flowers, live perfectly and wisely, and die like autumn leaves. At this moment, the most real thing is just a kind of generosity and forgiveness for yourself, others and this world where disappointment and hope coexist.
Maturity is not how much you can enlighten others, but how much you can convince yourself to understand the people and things around you.
Yu said: Maturity is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a mellow but not greasy voice, a calm that no longer needs to observe others, an atmosphere that eventually no longer appeals to the surroundings, a smile that ignores the noise, a kind of indifference that washes away extreme indifference, a heavy and silent voice, and a height that looks far but not steep.
Nietzsche said: what many people call maturity is nothing more than being worn away by customs and becoming sophisticated and practical. This is not maturity. True maturity should be the formation of unique personality, the discovery of true self, spiritual results and gains.
Mature people are rational and calm, but they always retain explosive energy. They are curious about the world and are always learning. They are not easily shaken, but they are always ready to listen to different opinions and understand different lives. They are responsible for their choices. They may complain, but they must take concrete actions after complaining.