Especially for lovers, you feel that their relationship has reached a very intimate stage. You put yourself in front of each other transparently, and you think you can get the same trust and love, but the final result of love is not necessarily marriage, but lies and injuries carefully compiled by each other.
Both men and women can't bear emotional deception, so there are some in the process of getting along. Privacy? There is no need to disclose it, because it is likely to become your weakness and be used by the other party to hurt yourself.
So, even if the relationship between lovers is close, don't expose three easily? Privacy? It's hard to be intimate when you know someone.
Everyone must have past emotional experiences. Before finding true love, everyone has to bear the pain and suffering caused by emotional breakdown, and these scars attached to the body should not be exposed to others, even the closest couples.
After all, people's hearts and emotions will change. These past emotional experiences are like your handle. When people know them, they will inevitably be used. When the relationship between them goes wrong and the scar is broken, the pain will be more intense than before, and the blow you need to bear will be more serious, which will inevitably sow the seeds of pain for yourself.
But some women are always easily deceived by men's sweet words. In order to express their sincere feelings, they will not hesitate to expose their past emotional experiences to each other, just to seek a sincere love and trust, but in fact you may have been trapped by others.
In fact, family status is not so important for love. What two people value together is affection, as long as it can bring happiness to each other, but for further development, the family status quo will play a very important role.
People nowadays are realistic. Even if they have deep feelings for each other, they will have different psychology because of the disparity between their families. The more you reveal these secrets to each other, the easier it is for them to perceive your psychology. You think their feelings are deep enough, and you plan to further develop and tell each other about your family, but your weaknesses will also be exposed.
No matter whether your family is good or not, it will affect each other's feelings and even make the gap between them deeper and deeper. Of course, there won't be a big reaction at first, but after a long time, people's hearts have changed, so it's hard to guess what the other person really thinks, so don't be a joke in the eyes of others, even if it's very close, before you really get to know someone.
No one dares to say that he is a perfect person. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. Advantages are of course something to be proud of, but shortcomings are likely to haunt him all his life, especially among lovers.
In fact, love is not the intimacy we understand. Like a battlefield without smoke. Exposing your shortcomings too early will only be caught tightly. Sometimes love will break like this, because when you face the other person's aggressiveness, you will become helpless and easily captured by the other person. Your dependence is likely to become the capital that the other party doesn't care about you.
Therefore, no matter how good a lover is, don't expose your shortcomings easily. Maybe the love you see in your eyes is not sincere. When you give your weakness to the other person, your's feelings may be played with. At that time, your struggle will become meaningless, and only suffering and pain will meet you.
Love is a very complicated emotion. Sometimes you feel that intimate feelings are not necessarily true. On the contrary, those couples who look dull are more likely to walk out of the old times together. In fact, it's not that there is something wrong with their emotional efforts, but that you let it go easily? Privacy? Tell each other, you think this is an expression of love, but what about these three? Privacy? This kind of exposure can easily lead to the breakdown of love.