The first realm: there are many things in life that need to be endured. There are many words in life that need patience. There is a lot of qi in life, which needs to be endured. There are many hardships in life, which need to be endured. There are many desires in life that need patience. There are many feelings in life that need to be endured.
Patience is a vision, a mind, an understanding, a life skill, and a law of wisdom.
Sometimes forbearance is a sign of cowardice, and sometimes it is a coat of strength. Sometimes forbearance is the social requirement of environment and opportunity for human nature, and sometimes it is a kind of self-discipline for the evil spirits of human nature in the depths of the soul.
Learning to be patient is a basic livelihood course in life. If you know how to be patient, wandering around in life will become easy and handy. Be patient, bow your head, work hard, and self-evident to show your quality. Inappropriate forbearance, furious, running and shouting, strong and passionate, self-satisfied with heroic spirit.
If you know how to endure, you will know what is intolerable. People who only know that they can't stand it, like children dancing with sticks, have been swinging themselves exhausted, but they don't know that most of the swinging movements are just wasting their physical strength.
Just put up with it. Be patient, and patience will be easy. Therefore, the boundary of tolerance is actually the boundary of tolerance.
& lt/SPAN>。 The second realm: how many things can the holder catch with only two hands? Grasping one thing means giving up more things. Giving up and losing is always the overall situation of life. Don't think you have gained anything. In fact, people are losing time, life, wealth and opportunities all the time. Don't hold on too tightly. The tighter you hold on, the more you lose.
Don't be complacent if you have it. Don't lose heart if you don't get it. The journey of life is too short, and there are too many beautiful things in the world. What to grasp and what not to grasp is not the key to the process of life, but the key is choice. Choice is the most exciting and tempting topic in life. And holding is just a random or inevitable result after selection. When the selected proposition is completed, the result of the selected thing may have a great influence on the individual's life, but it is not completely controlled by the individual, so it is insignificant. After all, it broke away from the desire track of individual life and entered the track of the development law of things.
The key topic in life is choice, but the most difficult thing in life is that people should keep choosing. Sometimes you just make one choice and then you have to make another. Sometimes you make the right choice at first, but you may make the wrong choice in the second step. Sometimes I have been making a choice that suits me, but before the last choice, I went to another road that doesn't suit me.
Therefore, to keep the world is not to keep anything, but to choose what to give up. We should know what we don't need. After all, our hearts have too many desires and too few hands. Only by learning to give up can we grasp it better. Giving up is a college problem in life. Holding the border is actually a kind of abandonment.
The third realm: Enlightenment When the fire is about to be hot and taught to children, there will still be many actions that are burned back and repeated in history. And many things that have not been taught have been discovered by children.
Human understanding is a magical thing. Different understandings, the same environment and the same event may have many different results. My mind is erratic, unpredictable and wonderful. The process of eyes, mind, expression and life is actually a process of continuous understanding. Standing at 30, not confused at 40, knowing the destiny at 50, keeping at 60, and not exceeding the moment at 70. It can be seen that enlightenment has been going on until the end of life.
Enlightenment is not to teach others to show off and show themselves as personal heroes, but to constantly improve their own self-mind. Enlightenment is a kind of introspection and self-discipline. The original intention of enlightenment is to better transform the objective world. But we must first transform ourselves or the subjective world, and then we can transform the objective world more easily and better.
Therefore, understanding the world is not only a psychological activity, but also a kind of words and deeds. Enlightenment is also a kind of practice. & lt/p & gt；
Do three things well 1 and learn to close the door: that is, learn to close the door of yesterday and tomorrow, and live a good life today.
2, learn to calculate: that is, learn to calculate your own happiness and calculate what you have done right. Calculating happiness will make you happier, and calculating the right things will make you more confident in yourself.
3. Learn to give up: I especially recommend a good word, which is "willing". Remember, "giving up" comes first, and "getting" comes last. Things in the world always have to give up to get what they want, or give up to get what they want, and if you don't give up or want everything at all, it will be counterproductive or accomplish nothing. Say three words: 1, forget it! The best way to deal with the unchangeable fact is to accept it.
2. Never mind! That is, no matter what happens, even if it is a big thing, you must say "it doesn't matter" to yourself! Remember, a positive and optimistic attitude is the first step to solve any problems and overcome any difficulties.
3. it will pass! No matter how hard it rains and how many days it rains, you should be confident that it will clear up, because it won't be cloudy all the time. Naturally, so is life. Enjoy the "three pleasures"
The "three pleasures" are: helping others, being contented and enjoying yourself. Furthermore, we should help others in good times, be content in ordinary times and learn to enjoy ourselves in adversity. Get rid of three "blind" hands, do something wrong, and make the simple complicated; Blindness, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and lose your way; The heart is boundless, confused and confused, and the floating mind can't find a home. Learn three noes 1 and don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes. In real life, there are many people who are not afraid of suffering and death. No matter how heavy the burden is, no matter how difficult it is, it can't scare him, but he can't stand injustice and injustice. In fact, grievances and grievances mean that others made mistakes and you didn't; And can't stand injustice is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. Knowing this truth, the best way to deal with this situation again is to laugh it off and not take it seriously.
Don't punish others with your own mistakes. When you are wronged or treated unfairly, you also wronged or treated others unfairly. In fact, when you hurt others, you will be hurt again.
Don't punish yourself with your own mistakes. What is a good man? We think that if we give him/her 10 tasks, he/she can correctly complete 7~8 tasks, which is a good person. Obviously, this sentence has another meaning, that is, good people make mistakes, and good people make mistakes.
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